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Curious Turn Of Events (or What Shows Up On Google)  

rm_debluvz2fck 55F
232 posts
11/2/2014 7:32 pm
Curious Turn Of Events (or What Shows Up On Google)


How many complaints has everyone heard that profiles have shown up on search engines? Privacy doesn't exist, and many people are paranoid about their information being used by universities and the odd outside researchers as well. We've all seen the you do not have permission to use my profile content and will be legally prosecuted lines in people's profiles. You can only sue if you find out, and not putting the line in your profile doesn't mean you lose the right to sue. But then again, we do want to maintain a degree of anonymity.

My response was simply not making my profile searchable on the internet. The profiles all have that capacity, or they did, and I chose to only be available on the website itself. Simple.

Then I googled my Affairlook ID out of curiosity. What popped up was a different way into my private world that I didn't realize existed. My blog postings are connected to any number of adult<b> websites. </font></b>I found it curious that outpersonals had a link to one of my blog postings as if I was on their site. It might explain why I've been approached by women before. Then there were a number of sites that I hadn't imagined were tied to Affairlook that had links not only to my blog but also to comments I had made on other blogs as well as visits to other blogs where I had not even left a comment. It was surreal. Someone actually cross referenced all of that information to post in a search engine.

Actually, Affairlook allowed the collection of these nuggets of information on some sort of automated system that feeds into the search engine. Human hands are surely not involved in the process, and the cross link of<b> websites </font></b>means that original content on one site is utilized as the same on more sites than even we might realize. It made me wonder what bizarre connections might have been made with my profile ID on other sites.

I'm not worried about it. I didn't chose my first and last name or a professional email account to where it is linked to any of the inane things I've said or searched on the site. I'm sure people would find it much more amusing to know what I've been watching on netflix, anyway. That isn't linked to the profile name.

Have a wonderful and satisfying end to your weekend and an amazing upcoming week! I'm hopeful that the man I've only marginally been seeing will miraculously discover my worth and pop back up. If not, I'm ready to fully marginalize him and move on. Peace in our convictions!

Goodluckia 72M
16 posts
11/2/2014 7:40 pm

Good insight.


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