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asking for gifts or cash to meet ?
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asking for gifts or cash to meet ? What has this site gotten into I wonder ? 99% of the ladies and couples here ( yes couples too ! ) from Malaysia that want to meet up are asking for gifts and cash Is it becoming such a materialistic world that cash only makes the world go round ? If we wanted paid sex , we could visit any of the health centres , correct ? I for one would not renew my membership here when it expires as there are so many " procurements " here that the real seekers have migrated elsewhere If anyone wants member id's that ask for gifts , you can email me and I would obliged you with a list and you would be pretty surprised what turns up |
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LOL... guess things haven't changed since I've gone non-active on Affairlook!!! hmm... sometimes, I think the girls or couples too, in your case, just wanted to make sure that you are serious i guess. But then again, I might be wrong. Gifts were never my thing, but then I get regular sex partners who asked me what do I want from them whenever they fly in to see me. Mine was easy, lipstick, eyeliners, or just dinner is fine, and plenty of sex.  Good luck!  and thanks for visiting my blog
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LOL... guess things haven't changed since I've gone non-active on Affairlook!!! hmm... sometimes, I think the girls or couples too, in your case, just wanted to make sure that you are serious i guess. But then again, I might be wrong. Gifts were never my thing, but then I get regular sex partners who asked me what do I want from them whenever they fly in to see me. Mine was easy, lipstick, eyeliners, or just dinner is fine, and plenty of sex. Good luck! and thanks for visiting my blog In my case , the asking is point-straight Cash , Samsung Galaxy , Handbag or Cash ! It is that Straight-Pointed ! Of course I love to pamper my girl-friends with something lavish once in a while , who wouldn't ? But the irony is what I deem to be " prostituting " themselves for these items and cash before even agreeing to meet you I suppose that times have gotten so tough and most are living on credit that they are trying to " make hay while the sun still shines " ?
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I think u r exaggerating a bit... It's NOT 99% unless u're so so very lucky!!! Check my blogs for the stats...
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U see... those gals who were asking for such has made most guys think that they're all the same... Soooo come on... u GENUINE party gals.... PLEASE STAND UP!!! 
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99% is well ... a bit exaggerated could we put the figure at 90% then ? and that includes so many probable fake profiles that scream " come and fuck me now " " i want a long hard cock "
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hmm... not sure of the percentage of exaggerated profiles and fake profiles.... but am sure plenty of them are out there. You just have to do the act of "sifting" through the sand to find the real gold. But once you find it, it's good to know how to maintain the gold. Done that many times over, and I still have the good ones keeping in touch even when am already married. Good friends are hard to come by.
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very very true .... the real ones are like finding a needle in a haystack but once you found the ' needle ' it'll be with you for life
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I think u r exaggerating a bit... It's NOT 99% unless u're so so very lucky!!! Check my blogs for the stats... Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be? 
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ok tan.. listen up.. and this is no offence to anyone here.. I also get offered, air tickets, green card, marriage, money etc etc.. I just ignore all of them.. that accounts for about 20% of the emails I get. now.. then there are about 35% just want to meet and see whether they can fuck for free.. basically people who don't want to pay for sex. and then there is another 10% of people who supposedly want to be friends.. but after 2 or 3 email exchanges.. they say.. so when are we going to meet??? And if you reply, I am sorry, but I am not really comfortable in meeting up with someone I don't really know too well, they totally stop contacting you.. So basically they PRETEND to wannabe friends but are basically people who just wanna fuck for free. then.. there are about 20% who are too far away and just want you to send them dirty pictures or cam them.. or have cybersex with them.. basically get free porn. then there are about 14% who just wannabe friends and are too far.. so they become blog buddies or chatroom buddies... but no you will never meet them... Now, there are a remaining 1% of the people that you DO eventually meet... of which most will only be friends with... maybe lack of chemistry.. or the fact that you meet them only based on friendship.. but funnily enough quite a few of those "friends" disappear too after the meet ... so where is the intention of friendship? I have real friends from here from my first time round back in 06 and every once in a while we do meet up for food and chit chat...both male and female. back in 06/07.. i had 3 friends with benefits from here.. Long-ish term ones we sometimes meet for food or companionship.. sometimes for sex. But essentially it was friends first. This time round... the only one who has gone the distance is chunky, not because i am in love (which I am NOT) lol.. however, he has endeavoured to be a good friend where others have not. He has been my shoulder to cry on when things get rough.. and I have also listened to all his woes.. We don't really meet to get involved in each other's lives although once in a while our paths do cross. We have shared soo much of our thoughts with each other that i seem to know him forever when in fact it's just a few months. It's about being emotionally buck naked with someone, so when we do meet up and become physical, it's like being 2 peas in a pod. However, if you ask me whether I would wanna marry him and live with him for all eternity.. the answer will be NO!!! The dynamics will change under those circumstances.. and would rather prefer to keep a person that we do bare our hearts to with full honesty... I can trust him to give his real opinion on a subject and I will give him mine, sometimes despite knowing that it is NOT the answer that each other WANTS to hear. So now.. in answer to your question... what do you search by being here? If you really seek friends then find ways to meet the people that you would be interested in being friends with and then endeavour to be a friend... Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be?
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ok tan.. listen up.. and this is no offence to anyone here.. I also get offered, air tickets, green card, marriage, money etc etc.. I just ignore all of them.. that accounts for about 20% of the emails I get. now.. then there are about 35% just want to meet and see whether they can fuck for free.. basically people who don't want to pay for sex. and then there is another 10% of people who supposedly want to be friends.. but after 2 or 3 email exchanges.. they say.. so when are we going to meet??? And if you reply, I am sorry, but I am not really comfortable in meeting up with someone I don't really know too well, they totally stop contacting you.. So basically they PRETEND to wannabe friends but are basically people who just wanna fuck for free. then.. there are about 20% who are too far away and just want you to send them dirty pictures or cam them.. or have cybersex with them.. basically get free porn. then there are about 14% who just wannabe friends and are too far.. so they become blog buddies or chatroom buddies... but no you will never meet them... Now, there are a remaining 1% of the people that you DO eventually meet... of which most will only be friends with... maybe lack of chemistry.. or the fact that you meet them only based on friendship.. but funnily enough quite a few of those "friends" disappear too after the meet ... so where is the intention of friendship? I have real friends from here from my first time round back in 06 and every once in a while we do meet up for food and chit chat...both male and female. back in 06/07.. i had 3 friends with benefits from here.. Long-ish term ones we sometimes meet for food or companionship.. sometimes for sex. But essentially it was friends first. This time round... the only one who has gone the distance is chunky, not because i am in love (which I am NOT) lol.. however, he has endeavoured to be a good friend where others have not. He has been my shoulder to cry on when things get rough.. and I have also listened to all his woes.. We don't really meet to get involved in each other's lives although once in a while our paths do cross. We have shared soo much of our thoughts with each other that i seem to know him forever when in fact it's just a few months. It's about being emotionally buck naked with someone, so when we do meet up and become physical, it's like being 2 peas in a pod. However, if you ask me whether I would wanna marry him and live with him for all eternity.. the answer will be NO!!! The dynamics will change under those circumstances.. and would rather prefer to keep a person that we do bare our hearts to with full honesty... I can trust him to give his real opinion on a subject and I will give him mine, sometimes despite knowing that it is NOT the answer that each other WANTS to hear. So now.. in answer to your question... what do you search by being here? If you really seek friends then find ways to meet the people that you would be interested in being friends with and then endeavour to be a friend... That's a long essay you wrote  Coming back to your comments , yeah , i do agree with you My question is that some of these women and couples ask you straight in the face that they seek " CASH " cold hard cash , " Generous Gentlemen only " , ain't it like prostituting yourself ? True , true , we men love to take you out to dinner , shopping , movies , whatnots but shouldn't this be a part of the dating process ? Your call .....
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yeah sorry.. i only realised i barfed all over your blog once i posted the comment.. eekk.. it's a bit of a pet subject for me sure people prostitute themselves here.. it's a matter of willing buyer, willing seller ... but with regards to men taking us out to dinner and "dating".. ermmm it rarely happens here .. again, most just wanna fuck for free and aren't interested in us as people. And if they do take you out to dinner.. and you don't fuck after it.. you can pretty much bet that that's the last you will hear of them.. c'est la vie.. Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be?
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