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I've been thinking about my after life
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I've been thinking about my after life My thoughts, lately, have turned to what life will be like after the divorce. Where will I actually end up living? How much of a hole in my life will there be without the family and pets? What will my lifestyle be? I assume I Will want to be in a LTR again but not right away. Wonder if I will want to marry again and set up house so to speak. I suspect so as well. But again not right away. Will there be involved? If I had the opportunity would I have a of my own flesh and blood? Probably continue to travel. Do a lot of playing; telling better stories as the commercial says. I believe I will continue to find the me I feel I lost a bit of. Wonder what my daily pattern will become? I think a lot of thing. Years ago not knowing the answers to the questions would have been very scary. The whole process of breaking up a household was very scary and may have prevented me from doing things sooner. I now have the self confidence to move forward not knowing all the answers. I will land on my feet and do just fine no matter what. It's kind of like some of my recent vacations. Didn't know exactly where I was driving to until almost the last day. Many times didn't know where I would be sleeping. Didn't matter. Was off having fun. Because they say, where ever you go, there you are. And where ever I Went I was going to have fun because I was there. Does that make sense to you? I guess I will continue to contemplate my future. Decide what it is I actually want out of life. A good thing to do even if one isn't getting a divorce or going through something major. Can't totally go with the flow. Need to put a paddle in the water and steer a little. It will be interesting. SR |
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11/21/2006 5:06 am |
Just put one foot in front of the other darlin!! I am glad that you are taking this well, no sense in stressing over it. I always think things happen for a reason in life, but no sense trying to dwell on "why". With your positive attitude, I am sure you will be fine. good luck  gudwitch
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11/21/2006 5:42 am |
"need to put a paddle in the water and steer a little" So true!!!!!!! I think you have the right plan darlin!  Power To FOK
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11/21/2006 6:04 am |
I am sure that all will be just fine.  From what I have seen of you, you make the best situation out of everything.
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One step at a time is the best way to handle everything and yes a place to call home is one of the first things to be taken care of.. Moving is stressful but getting all your ducks in a row is the best way to begin. Figure out what kind of place you want and where you want it. Then go from there. Pare the "stuff" down and take only what you really need. It will be difficult, learning to live alone but it comes easily and can be great most of the time. Take your time and all will fall into place. hotandhorny1082
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