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List 15 Things You Do To Lift Your Spirits  

MyInnerVoice 67F  
1204 posts
8/3/2013 4:20 am
List 15 Things You Do To Lift Your Spirits

Most of us get depressed once in a while. This is only natural. I was talking with a friend early this morning and he told me to do something to lift my spirits. So, I got to thinking about what he said. What are some of the things I can do (or have done) to lift my spirits? I challenged myself to make a list of 15.

I am asking you to list 15 things you do (or can do) to lift YOUR spirits. Your list might have some of the same things as mine, might be totally different.

But, we might be able to help ourselves and others by making, reading and sharing our lists.

I am looking forward to seeing your lists! Mine is in the post below.



MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/4/2013 12:14 am

    Quoting submokey:
    A great n wise choice, my friend! It's fight, minute by minute, to choose happiness over sadness! Fight for what you desire most, fight hard! Never give up!
    It all starts in your mind! Use it for good!


mokey, I plan on fighting hard. Not saying it will be easy but it definitely will be WORTHWHILE...!


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
8/4/2013 12:06 am

    Quoting MyInnerVoice:
    mokey, Love your list! There are many good things on it. Not sure if you know it, but I got the idea for this blog post from you. Happiness is a choice and I have chosen to be happy rather than sad. I have a lot to learn. But, I am learning! Thanks for being my friend - you have given me so much to think about.
A great n wise choice, my friend! It's fight, minute by minute, to choose happiness over sadness! Fight for what you desire most, fight hard! Never give up!
It all starts in your mind! Use it for good!




Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad!
Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum! submokey Become a watcher!
THINK PINK!


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/4/2013 12:02 am

This morning I said I would take inventory at the end of the day to see what I did that was on my list to help lift my spirits. I had a good day today! I had fun. I smiled, I got about six hours of sleep (good for me). I talked to a good friend on the phone (used a lifeline, lol). I listened to some great music (the very sexy Luther Vandross). I met a friend for dinner. I got a pedicure. I did some deep breathing exercises. I did some isometrics. I helped a friend. I read and responded to blogs and responses to my blog.

All in all it was a great day! I kept busy and spent time outside in the sunshine (need that - my skin is so pale I probably glow in the dark). Lol.

And.... I laughed.


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/3/2013 11:49 pm

    Quoting  :

whatsamattau, Thank you for sharing your list. I love number 9: "Imagine I am on the bridge of the Starship Enterprise". Love that show and have often thought what being in outer space and travelling like that would feel like.


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/3/2013 11:46 pm

    Quoting submokey:
    1 Keep busy
    2 think positive
    3 talk to a friend (online)
    4 take meds as directed
    5 eat correct diet
    6 smile
    7 listen
    8 watch
    9 practice
    10 be patient
    11 be calm
    12 be happy with myself
    13 be comfortable with who I am
    14 be strong
    15 be at peace
    16 leave the past behind
    17 live for the now
    18 have fun
    19 ignore hate
    20 ignore ignoreance
    21 ignore laziness
    22 be ever aware of my surroundings
    23 know the warning signs of lows
    24 know the warning signd of highs
    25 know when to keep quiet
    26 know when to speek up
    27 know when to relax
    28 meditate to be more self aware
    29 accept what I cannot change
    30 change what I am able to correct
    31 be happy with who I am!!!!!

    Shall I go on??? Many more that I can list!



mokey, Love your list! There are many good things on it. Not sure if you know it, but I got the idea for this blog post from you. Happiness is a choice and I have chosen to be happy rather than sad. I have a lot to learn. But, I am learning! Thanks for being my friend - you have given me so much to think about.


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/3/2013 11:44 pm

    Quoting 49plus20:
    1 Make sure I get rest
    2 Eat right
    3 Quit procrastinating
    4 Go to my son's practice
    5 Go to my AA mtg
    6 Gardening
    7 Listen to good music
    8 Cook a good dinner
    9 Bar B Que
    10 Watch a commedy
    11 Help others
    12 Take someone out to dinner or breakfast
    13 Do not Isolate, reach out to others
    14 Drink lots of fluids... Keeps you alert
    15 No drugs or alcohol

    Hope these help
49plus20, Thanks for sharing your list. You have some good things on it. I definitely need to concentrate on the sleep and eating properly (exercising too).


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/3/2013 11:42 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    1. smile
    2. laugh a little
    3. go out shopping
    4. sing a song
    5. have lots of sex!
    6. go for a walk
    7. listen to some music that makes you happy
    8. read a good hot romantic story
    9. spend time with family and friends
    10. do some baking
    11. go out to dinner with a group

    Just make sure you feel happy inside.
V, thanks for sharing your list. Sex seems to be a common denominator here (one that I didn't think of). See why I am asking for people to share their ideas and what works for them?

One thing I know is that having you for a friend is definitely something that lifts my spirits. hugs and kisses!


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/3/2013 11:40 pm

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    here is part of my lists....

    1. Smile
    2. Talk with someone special
    3. Listen to music and sing!
    4. Watch a comedy
    5. Go trail running or hiking
    6. Go fishing
    7. Have sex!

    Second half coming later! Thanks Voice, good blog!
    VF

funny, Have sex? Now, why didn't I think of that one? Thanks for sharing and feel free to add to your list anytime!


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
8/3/2013 9:38 am

1 Keep busy
2 think positive
3 talk to a friend (online)
4 take meds as directed
5 eat correct diet
6 smile
7 listen
8 watch
9 practice
10 be patient
11 be calm
12 be happy with myself
13 be comfortable with who I am
14 be strong
15 be at peace
16 leave the past behind
17 live for the now
18 have fun
19 ignore hate
20 ignore ignoreance
21 ignore laziness
22 be ever aware of my surroundings
23 know the warning signs of lows
24 know the warning signd of highs
25 know when to keep quiet
26 know when to speek up
27 know when to relax
28 meditate to be more self aware
29 accept what I cannot change
30 change what I am able to correct
31 be happy with who I am!!!!!

Shall I go on??? Many more that I can list!




Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad!
Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum! submokey Become a watcher!
THINK PINK!


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
8/3/2013 8:24 am

1 Make sure I get rest
2 Eat right
3 Quit procrastinating
4 Go to my son's practice
5 Go to my AA mtg
6 Gardening
7 Listen to good music
8 Cook a good dinner
9 Bar B Que
10 Watch a commedy
11 Help others
12 Take someone out to dinner or breakfast
13 Do not Isolate, reach out to others
14 Drink lots of fluids... Keeps you alert
15 No drugs or alcohol

Hope these help


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/3/2013 8:05 am

1. smile
2. laugh a little
3. go out shopping
4. sing a song
5. have lots of sex!
6. go for a walk
7. listen to some music that makes you happy
8. read a good hot romantic story
9. spend time with family and friends
10. do some baking
11. go out to dinner with a group

Just make sure you feel happy inside.

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/3/2013 6:12 am

here is part of my lists....

1. Smile
2. Talk with someone special
3. Listen to music and sing!
4. Watch a comedy
5. Go trail running or hiking
6. Go fishing
7. Have sex!

Second half coming later! Thanks Voice, good blog!
VF


“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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veryfunnycple64


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/3/2013 4:39 am

List of things I can do to lift MY spirits:

1. Smile
2. Get a good night's sleep
3. Watch a funny movie or video (I like musicals) and I always crack up
when watching Abbott & Costello's "Who's On First" routine.
4. Laugh
5. Spend time with family
6. Spend time with friends
7. Wear my favorite color (dark purple)
8. Take time to just BREATHE when stressed or nervous
9. Read inspirational or spiritual quotations
10. Make a word cloud (one of my new favorite things to do)
11. Do something creative
12. Get outside in the sunshine
13. Listen to music
14. Do something nice for myself (pedicure, manicure, massage, etc.)
15. Do something nice for someone else
16. Make an effort to do something I have been putting off (I always
feel so much better when done)
17. Give myself a break, permission to do what I want
18. Use a lifeline (call a friend for lunch, dinner, etc.)
19. Meeditate
20. Give myself permission to cry and then get over it.

Wow, I listed 20. It wasn't difficult once I started. So, today I am going to work my list and take inventory at the end of the day and see how I did. Must be working already because I am SMILING !!!

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