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Hmmm, tricky, and not as clear cut and black and white as at first seems. It really does depend; is it a hook up and NSA scenario? Is it a genuine affection for FWB but not a dating scenario? Part of it is surely fluff and exaggeration even though we may just deceive ourselves about our honourable intentions. It depends on the talk and the words, though I would genuinely like to assume that if I was in bed with a woman, it is because of some form of connection and chemistry brewing and worth getting drunk on again. I would also like to think if a mistake was made and i had no further interest, I would avoid beng cruel and find a dignified way to ensure both parties parted without any ill feeling or regret or sense of being used or humiliated. Pretty sure words i would use with you would be accurate... as long as you were wearing that little tartan skirt and black top 
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I cannot recall ever telling a partner something in the heat of sex that was not exactly how I felt at the moment. I don't say things that I don't mean and feels that as a gentleman it isn't useful to say something negative about a partner. If the chemistry isn't there...and the subject comes up about a next time, I will try to avoid saying something that is truthful but not hurtful.
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7/16/2018 7:05 am |
Depends whom I with. If I'm simply Topping it's almost a unspoken duty to be generic. When I'm with my Princess and I'm talking her down from sub-space, cuddles and baby talk is a must. As a rigger, some rope bunnies need special attention to come out of the scene, some pros pop right up. I always check for injuries though.
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I go with the feeling at the moment. It is how I feel then. What happens later remains to be seen.
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7/16/2018 7:28 am |
Everything I say is truthful...That being said there are certain things I don't say before, during, or after on principle
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7/16/2018 10:21 am |
From my few experiences, I admit I've said some things that were fluff. Afterwards, I felt different. The mind, in all it's heightened senses of sex is very influential Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!
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In any kind of communication...Honesty is always the best policy...I'll be in the Garage...    
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7/16/2018 11:34 pm |
Should always say what you feel and mean. No need to wonder later on what you said in the heat of the moment.
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In my case I am only with my wife so clearly I mean everything I say! No need to bullshit after 43 years.
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7/17/2018 4:07 pm |
It's not what's said during or immedietly after that matters but what's said before and the next day.
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7/17/2018 4:17 pm |
Never. Only gets you in trouble down the road.
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I try to be truthful at all times, but sometimes it's best to tell a "white lie" to avoiding hurting a woman should she ask certain questions......
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7/17/2018 5:01 pm |
I never say anything I cannot take back and do not mean..talking dirty still does not mean you have to say what others feel is what they want to hear..if a guys dick is not hugh I don't insult him by saying that it is truth and measured words wil be better in the long run
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Always mean what I say!
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7/18/2018 4:06 am |
Always be truthful!!
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Pillow talk is so overlooked. So many people want to rush and be on their way because they don't want to fight through the awkwardness that can occur with a relatively new partner. I take this as a great time to break through and let them get to know the real me. The one that doesn't want to get in their pants once, but I would rather do so over and over and each time become better friends. Who knows? A craving may even develop and FWBs are born at bare minimum. It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?
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7/19/2018 1:33 am |
it really depends - sometimes you do say what the other person is clearly asking you to... but overall i prefer to be honest
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I admit naked truth
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What a great conversation starter! Congrats on getting so many to respond!
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I like to tell my partner what it is that arouses me. love rimming and love telling her about it
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I like to keep it real. To hard to keep track of the lies.
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Not going to lie so if you think your ass looks big in that dress don't ask me. 
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I rather fuck then sleep
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If there is pillow talk, I mean what I say, and say what I mean! Other wise I do not try to say anything while fucking or making love
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7/21/2018 9:35 am |
I always try to be as honest as I can so whenever I say something I really do mean it.
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