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Sparking 101 A guide to various hand spanks  

Captainsbabygirl 50F
4331 posts
8/30/2013 6:05 pm
Sparking 101 A guide to various hand spanks

Everyone needs a good spanking now and then. After a bit of research I found my favorite article of about five and decided to share. Please comment and give your own advice or thoughts on sparking.

Thanks

Hand-spankings are also very popular in adult erotic spanking since they don't hurt too much, provide a more intimate feeling, invite gentle rubbing and bottom-caressing in between the spanks, and come with practically no danger of bruising or other lasting marks even after a long spanking.

Hand-spanking offers a greater range of variation than any implement, from the gentlest pats to the most stinging slaps.

You can spank with your fingers only, or with your palm. You can keep your wrist rigid (like a paddle) or flexible (like a strap). You can hold your hand flat or cupped. You can smack right on the buttocks or strike them in a glancing sideways motion. You can even spank with both hands, like bongo drumming.

The variations are endless (see the section hand-spanking techniques below for more).

Hand-spankings are the preferred technique for warm-up spanking. They also offer the advantage of giving the spanker a much better feedback of how the spanks feel to the spankee, since the spanks are directly echoed into the spanker's hand.

The latter, however, can also be a disadvantage as a hand-spanking can soon come to a point that literally "hurts the spanker more than the spankee". If the spanking isn't considered enough by that point, it can simply be continued with an implement. Or the spanker can wear a (preferrably, close-fitting) glove to reduce the sting to his or her hand, such as a latex, vinyl, or leather glove. The glove can also be fingerless.

Hand-spanking techniques

The following are a few popular hand-spanking techniques. Creative spankers will no doubt come up with many more variants.

The resting slap. The hand spanks and remains on the buttock for a while, waiting for the vibrations to fade and for the spank to 'sink in'. This works best if you 'make' your hand big and heavy, and go for thud rather than sting.

The flicking slap. The hand is pulled away from the buttock in a wavy motion and with the right timing so that only the spanker's fingers make a very brief and flicking contact. This technique is good for giving stingy slaps in a quick series.

The off-the-wrist slap. Almost identical to the "flicking slap", this method incorporates the flicking slap, but is more "meaty", as the entire hand makes contact with the posterior, yet the slap is not heavy handed, nor does it loose any of desired quality sought in the flicking slap. The off-the-wrist slap comes from a flexible wrist and minimal forearm movement, the "english" on the slap is slightly upward as the hand makes momentary contact with the lower curves of the posterior.

The petting slap. Like the resting slap, but the hand is not lifted up for the next spank, but pulled sideways over the surface of the buttock with a little pressure, all the way until it loses contact, as if the buttock was magnetic (or as if to rub the spank in).

The glancing slap. The hand makes only a glancing contact with the buttock, with a great sideways speed component, reflecting like a skipping pebble. Try alternating upward and downward spanks, or do a series of upward spanks only.

Cadence is an important factor in spanking.
In hand-spanking it can add another component in slapping technique. Generally speaking, "control" is the basis of a good spanking, so cadence is an extension of the control of the spanker. If the spankee realizes that the cadence of the spanking is certian, regardless if it is a slap and then lecture, then slap again, or just a steady unbroken cadence, ranging from a trot to a gallop, he is out of control. It will add to the excitement of both top and bottom.

Things to do in the breaks between series of hand-spanks for a good erotic spanking:

caress/pet the buttocks

knead the buttocks (can hurt some more, but also ease the pain)
go lightly over the skin with your<b> fingernails </font></b>(can "awake" it from numbness and cause a nice shiver reaction)

correct/alter the spankee's position, make sure it is comfortable for both
check how he/she is doing

massage/caress the spankee's back and/or back of legs, draw the line of his/her spine, etc.; to make him/her feel comfortable and to increase his/her body and position/nakedness awareness

hold/massage the spankee's back of the neck, hair, etc.

play with water, ice cubes, oil, lotion, ...

play with genitals

See also

Hand-Spanking.com (pay site with Japanese F/F hand-spanking videos and photos)
Copyight http://Affairlook.com


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JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
8/30/2013 6:59 pm

I like spankings, but redness is my limit. I was taught an interesting technique that's Mrs. P loves -- she's on all fours, and while I grab her hair, I hold my hand vertically and spank her with a cupped hand. The hand should strike around her pussy, and that drives her wild.


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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/30/2013 7:26 pm:
I like it when I can feel it the next day

Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
8/30/2013 6:59 pm

Interesting,
Thanks,


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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/30/2013 7:26 pm:
Your welcome

rm_ron6969wu 44M
28 posts
8/30/2013 11:47 pm

love it


Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/31/2013 4:19 am:

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/31/2013 8:59 am

Spankings are always fun done correctly!



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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/31/2013 11:56 am:
I agree

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/31/2013 9:00 am

maybe with a paddle instead



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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/31/2013 11:58 am:
I think I would take the first spanking over the second.

How do you put a pic in your comment? It doesn't let me.

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8/31/2013 2:35 pm

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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/31/2013 3:17 pm:
That is pretty hot

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8/31/2013 2:50 pm

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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/31/2013 3:17 pm:
I am blocked from emailing you because I am a free member

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Make_U_Cum2016 55M/52F  
2113 posts
8/31/2013 7:15 pm

My ex gf wanted her ass lit-up like that also.....beet red....

Fuck....that hurt my hand.

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Captainsbabygirl replies on 8/31/2013 8:20 pm:
I have hurt my hand before too. I learned a different technique so that wouldn't happen again.

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