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oraljim201 75M
7423 posts
9/3/2018 9:44 am

interesting


ltrlover1 66M

9/3/2018 9:45 am

Obviously all of us are inquisitive and live to experiment

baffled


vamosoque 44F
174 posts
9/3/2018 9:53 am

Just look at my picture


4leanclean4 62M  
18 posts
9/3/2018 9:55 am

I believe its called sodomy. No thanks that's a one way street!


qvillebiman 66M  
373 posts
9/3/2018 10:46 am

My wife and I are huge fans of pegging. The power exchange is such a turn on


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
9/3/2018 10:50 am

Yes, been strp-on'd by an ex from here and only a few years ago and she was the first woman to ever take in interest in my arse sexually (not sure if that's about the activity or the lack of partners)

She liked my arse and had mentioned it though she graduated from finger massage of prostate to vibe beads. It was fine for a bit but got really uncomfortable after prolonged use though that was more down to the wuality of the strap on used I think, and nothing to do with her fucking technique as I'm not stupid enough to let any woman ram me like a piston there

Never repeated as no longer together and no female interest in me here. totally straight and not into men in any capacity (despite what the gaylordws may think the profile pic says)

I think in short bursts with a decent quality strap on and the right sensual woman who you trust it's fine though i think it all ends up being quite uncomfortable with prolonged fucking

No idea why the term used is pegging though


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/3/2018 11:09 am

Interesting blog my friend and I did vote. Happy Labor day to you I hope your enjoying it..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/3/2018 11:15 am

I used to say I was always open to experimenting with the right lady. A woman from here, nicely I might add, pointed me to the error of my statement. LOL Like you mentioned in your post, I'm not even remotely interested in experimenting with a few things, no matter who I'm with.

this one is a toughy, my first instinct is to say not interested.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


benard69 66M/66F  

9/3/2018 11:16 am

No No Oh Hell No...Not in this Keester...


ExplorePleasur3 49M

9/3/2018 11:23 am

That is one of my favorite fantasies. Maybe one day it will be a memory.


rusty_nail 74M  
699 posts
9/3/2018 12:12 pm

AH, interesting, I have thought about this, but did not know there was a name for the act. Thank you for including a description. That saved me from having to open another tab.


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
9/3/2018 12:18 pm

I've never thought about it and never been with a man who has suggested it.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
9/3/2018 12:25 pm

Interesting in that two men I have chatted with on here who said they were bi-curious and in further chatting it just turns out that they just love anal play. I was always of the opinion that it meant the same as these men thought. There was one man I was seeing who was straight and told me how he went for a "massage" once and how the lady got him off with both anal play and a hand job and it was a powerful orgasm and he loved it. He said before that he had a phobia about any one near his anus. Every once in a while he asked to be pegged... to which I obliged. It was not a turn on for me...but he really enjoyed it.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
9/3/2018 1:01 pm

There isn't a 'never tried it and not really interested but would give it a go if my girl wanted to try it/was aroused by it' option...........


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/3/2018 1:18 pm

I'll have to stay tuned and read people's comments. I have no experience with this...


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
9/3/2018 1:38 pm

I've never tried it but would, unless you count having a dildo used on me and I really enjoyed it. Anal stimulation does increase the intensity of an orgasm and will probe myself when masturbating. My second wife loved anal and of course, as you give, so shall ye receive.


Freeonereturns 63F

9/3/2018 1:50 pm

You're in my wheelhouse now Hun. Now I'd rather accept the give there's a bigger demand for it then you might think. I earned my props on my husband how enjoyed it very much. But it seems when the topic comes up as you said many have interest if not full longing.

As for the act, it's a lot of damn work. But you'll earn some Brownie Points (no pun intended. Speaking of brown being a fan of anal myself, if the possibility is there I always use an enama twice before bathing for fun. Pick your poison but anything but clean would be an ice bath to the moment, for me anyway.

Guys are pretty basic as I'm sure you know, a simple way to test for interest is to play around his anus while giving him head or if you're treating him to a massage. If he clamps down like a vise maybe not, if he parts his legs more then you're on your way. Even those Vices, give them another shot the next time. Odds are they've been thinking about it or just maybe he didn't feel clean enough the first time.

The ABC's If you like anal you gave a clue already if not listen up. Unlike your kitty a backdoor is dry and does not self lube, SPIT IS NOT LUBE! A massage works best as you're relaxing him already plus odds are there's some oil involved. So test the waters like I said then if not shut down run a finger up the valley, pause with the flat of your finger on target and see what happens... If nothing increase the play, run a circle motion around it (listen for moans, those are green lights) try the flat finger again.

Still unsure flip him over and give him some head. Slip the finger down again and repeat. Honestly I've never failed with just a finger, a toy or full on Pegging varies to each case. Whatever level hint that you're at least enjoying it to if not loving it, that will relax him more.

Stepping up. So you've finger fucked him, be it that first time or months down the road. He's accepting to your finger and you want to move forward. It's all the same moves to be honest unless he's an anal whore. Follow the same step then place your middle finger on top your index finger, press the two together firmly and reenter him. It should feel like just the one to him. Now with two you can slowly relax and strech open his manhole. When two or three can go in and out without him reacting poorly he's ready for a toy or your strappy.

Shape over size as to importance. Avoid anything with a big warhead on it, butt plugs are far harder to accept then a strap-on. Something tapered is best and ripples are not for beginers. Not that I own stock but the Vac-U-Loc slim 7 is my weapon of choice, though some need something less to start with.

Lastly after you've broke you Bronco in note some of your strappy is pure waste, it's less responsive then a guys cock, slower to react and you're doing a twelve inch swing to get half of that to work. So don't be surprised when you're quickly sizing up. Lol.

After that you just have to decide, chocolates or flowers as he'll never come home empty handed again. At least not on those nights


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/3/2018 2:18 pm

Boy, you burned up the blogs with this one!

While I have no interest in wearing a strap-on, I do know that prostate stimulation (I use a finger during bjs) is arousing to a man.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
9/3/2018 4:03 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you for the compliment, as it's always appreciated and does wonders for my ego (that's the comment about my arse, not about being a good man, which i'm not)

I think in the past on here women seemed to be keener on this topic and therefore experiencing it, given many blogs in the past. Perhaps the ccomments may make more try it out/

Some worthy observations from Freeone and pretty much common sense but it may help convince people.

Lala mokes her usual astute observation and I think that element may be something of appeal to many women

Even though I log in often, I rarely contribute anything to the site, but the fact that some of you are still here, like you, lala and a few others from across the pond, really save this site from totally sinking. It is badly holed beneath the waterline and it doesn't deserve some of my favourite US women


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
9/3/2018 4:39 pm

I'm open to it if my lady friend wants or desires to! I think the power shift would be a great turn on! To me, a Lady with a strap-on is sexy as hell!!!


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
9/3/2018 5:14 pm

Not sure I would be open to that when there are so many other pleasurable things, but I wouldn't close the door completely on trying it at least once.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
9/3/2018 5:51 pm

I think you know my take on it... I voted I love it, but truth is, I have only tried twice. But I enjoyed it and I enjoy when play goes there for me and for her.
Let me just say I have a lot to learn and I hope in small bights I continue learning and enjoying..
I think the power exchange is a turn on and I think seeing a woman wear one is very hot..


Deegs25 61M

9/3/2018 6:06 pm

I’ve tried it it was fun and safe we both enjoyed ourselves sadly were not together any longer and it something you don’t put in your profile on match .com


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
9/3/2018 6:19 pm

I really enjoy being pegged. It started a few years ago. My girlfriend never said "no" to anything I wanted to do or try. Even getting her her first bi experience. One nigh she brought up about her using a strapon on me. My first response was "hell no", but then I thought about how she's never denied me so I said "what the hell." We used a lot of lub and once I learned to relax, I started to enjoy it. It's not a weekly thing but on occasion it's nice. We've even had our female play partner have at it. Having one doing my ass and the other sucking me off, SWEEET. And I'm not gay or bi. 100% straight.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
9/3/2018 6:33 pm

From what I know, it usually involves a strap on. lol Not for me, but a small feminine finger once in a blue moon is okay.

Thoughts from the Garden...


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