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Why do some consider decent manners optional here
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Why do some consider decent manners optional here I know we are here because we are horny and that is a powerful emotion. But do people really think it increases their odds of being laid if they act like assholes? I traded emails with someone 40 miles away over two lane country roads (Affairlook miles, real miles are always farther). We got on reasonably OK online, despite the fact an email longer than five words is beyond him. He's cheating on his wife so he has to arrange meets while she's at work. (I know it isn't good to date cheaters but look at men looking for men here, it seems most are married.) A couple of days ago he sent a message saying he wanted to have sex about 12 hours from when he sent it. I actually have a life and don't check Affairlook every hour. I got it hours later and had no choice but to write and say I needed more lead time. In retrospect perhaps I should have suggested a time but frankly I was focusing on not sounding hostile because he had expected me to drop everything with almost no notice and hustle to him for a first date. He wasn't happy, which I can understand a bit, at least as disappointment. I said I was sorry and I was. In his reply to my note he suggested another time, he picked the one time all week I had a meeting I couldn't shift. Again disappointing, a bad time selection, but nobody's fault really. I replied and told him about the meeting. To help pick a time we could meet, in the same email I mentioned that next week isn't good at all because I agreed weeks ago to be a guest lecturer for all sections of a friend's class at the local college and with that and other commitments a 4 to 5 hr blank didn't exist in my schedule when his wife wasn't going to be home. His response was in all caps and hostile in content too. I started to reply but didn't see any point to it. No way in hell I'd ever meet this guy. I've never laid eyes on him so he is certainly not the center of my universe. I'm more bottom than top but I'm not sub/slave material. Is it too much to treat potential sex partners with at least much politeness as I'd show the always uninvited Jehovah's Witness at my door? |
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very good post
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