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Married Guys We may be one of those few couples that have no issues with married males. To each their own, but we think there is a certain amount of pretentiousness on here - not sure if its necessary to run on and on in a profile about cheaters, married males, drama, etc. For starters since women are rare, seems that there is a double standard - its okay for them to sneak around. We chuckle sometimes at the profiles where a couple enjoys havin the wife gangbanged but then they get all pious on cheating males. There is sanctity in marriage, to the exlusion of all others or there is not. Its also a little unfair for bi couples to expect married bi males to approach their wives about their desires. Of the married bi males we have met, the common lament is that they wish they could even dare tell their wives, never mind engage them in the lifestyle. However, the biggest problem with married males is that its so difficult to establish any kind of ongoing rapport. We have met a couple of great guys, but of course they had to work and their opportunities center around their home life. We have other interests besides adult fun and games and wont skip a movie for a hook up and of course married males cant be seen in public. Its curious though when we see profiles for married males that run on about their interests outside of the bedroom, establishing friendships, etc, etc, cause we wonder just how are they going to do that. So sorry to all the married males out there, but the problem is that you are competing with all the single guys (and those that claim to be) and for the limited and highly selective females (and those pretending to be) and couples, bi or otherwise and try this on your terms/limits/conditions. Its a tough haul and we are not sure if its even worth the effort. |
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6/22/2011 1:59 pm |
From the perceptive of the married male. now i am not going to try and justify what i am doing I do this for my own reasons and thats all that really matters Affairlook is hardly a place to pass moral judgement LOL It is more difficult for us married guys to find people to play with mostly due to time constraints and other peoples moral objections. However it is not impossible. Two couples i meet on a regular basis only want to play with married men as they have no fears of developing any mental attraction etc. That is what works for them and i consider myself lucky to have them as regular play mates  But cpls like that are few and far between most wont even talk to you and others will go on a tantrum about what you are doing and why its so wrong etc. Being married does limit play times but it does not always limit the friendship that can develop between a cpl and a married man. It just takes more time etc. There does seem to be a double standard with married women as a lot of cpls dont seem to have any issue with the woman being married. The married women that i talk to and play with have never had any problems meeting cpls. Yes its not easy being a married man on Affairlook however i can say at the end of the day when you meet the right people the friendship and sex makes it all worth it.
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9/2/2013 10:42 pm |
i am a bi married male as well and i have had the great pleasure of being able to tell my wife. there was a time for about 3 years of our marriage that we would play with other cpls and other males married or not. but when she lost interest in the lifestyle i stopped looking for other males or cpls to play with. but my desire has come back and now i am back on here looking to fulfill the one desire that my lovely wife can not. i have also met a great cpl and they know i am married and have to be discreet. we have a friendship and chat almost every night with both of them. we meet about every few months for great fun and pleasure for all 3 of us and no regrets. it is very possible to find cpls out there willing to play with bi married men but not real easy to find.
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