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Same Soup, Just Reheated.  

gottaring 52F
10306 posts
6/23/2014 4:27 pm
Same Soup, Just Reheated.

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ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/13/2016 4:35 pm

GOOD


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
6/24/2014 7:47 pm

On the one hand, I'm disappointed you don't have any Fantastic news for us - on the hubby and Hornet front. But, on the other hand, maybe the lack of disastrous new evens that out. Sounds like you still find these issues challenging, and I'm sorry to think that's the case.

I'm pleased to know that you had a good time, in Canada, though.

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Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
6/24/2014 2:11 pm

You are moving forward but sideways?? Enjoy it while it last. You never know.. .. ..


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BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
6/24/2014 10:53 am

Define "drop conversations". Do you mean that he just stops responding without saying, "gotta go"?

A couple of considerations: you don't mention if he's married/attached. If he is, he's gonna have to run without a good bye. ditto if he's chatting with you during his business day or if he is chatting while he's caring for his kids.

A question: why does it bother you so much. Yes, yes, I know all about manners but *beyond that*. Does it occur frequently? Are you concerned that you are much more invested in things than he is? Are you concerned that he wasn't honest with you about his life situation?

If you know why it bothers you, you can speak to what the *real* concern is (which is always going to be more productive than fretting over a symptom).

This is how you handle it: Gee, Mr Might-Be-Wonderful, several times when we've been chatting I've noticed that {insert specific behavior, i.e."it takes you a couple of minutes to answer" or "you stop responding without any notice", etc}. I get concerned/confused/insert your emotion here when that happens. It would be great if you could let me know you're too busy to talk or tell me when we start that you may have to duck out suddenly.

If you get any other answer than some variation of I'll try not to do this, he's probably not a keeper.


hornyguyMN 43M
16352 posts
6/24/2014 9:42 am

I've always found it rude to drop conversations like that. But I do see how it can happen from time to time, but I don't like it when people make that habbit. Given I'd take anything I say on this matter with a grain of salt right now. Due to my latest relationship fail and some of the details I'm hyper sensetive about these issues.

But I wish you luck with this guy.


spudsy1000 50M
6594 posts
6/24/2014 8:10 am

"Sideways State of Mind"....
Sounds like a good song title to me

"A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side"

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lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
6/23/2014 8:47 pm

I think it's rude to drop text conversations, it takes little effort to type TTYL if you have to go. Bad sign.


Falcon37s 59M
292 posts
6/23/2014 6:27 pm

I agree, if someone has a history of dropping text conversations that tends to send up a big red flag, be careful and welcome back!

"A couple bucks will get you on the subway, but garlic will get you a seat."


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:42 pm:
Thanks, Babe! Happy to be back!

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/23/2014 6:24 pm

damn you may be having the same soup but you are the same stunner I remember. what does you gut tell you about the guy? that is key. is he juggling another conversation with someone else or does his phone just suck?


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:42 pm:
I can't tell if he's having multiple convos, though we've chatted about that and it's so early into things that I wouldn't have a problem if he were. His phone DOES suck- it's old. He claims that he just has a short attention span. My gut reaction is that it doesn't bode well for the future.

daVinci58 65M
1364 posts
6/23/2014 5:18 pm

Those 'eyes'... Those 'lips'... Even sideways still WOW! Nice to 'see' you, enjoy the bath and let the summer begin!


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:47 pm:
Thank you, Sweet DaVinci .

citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/23/2014 5:03 pm

Over, under, sideways, down You look good at any angle.
Summer has peaked early over here.


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:47 pm:
You always know the right thing to say . Thank you

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
6/23/2014 4:52 pm

Miss your blog, and those big, lovely eyes of yours sweetie.

Thoughts from the Garden...


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:50 pm:
I just got some new ink a few weeks ago and thought of my handsome GardenBoy . I miss YOUR lovely, expressive eyes and smile, Babe.

gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/23/2014 4:48 pm

Well, there is an old cooking adage about soup, the longer the simmer, the better the stew. Canada sounded incredible, despite the endless drive. Also, if the worst thing about the new guy is that he wants to talk to you until the last possible moment, well he's a better man than me. As to the "sideways" pic, something that good is great any way you present it. And no Merlot!

Take it easy, guns are cold.


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:52 pm:
You're an optimist, lol. I doubt he's that invested- perhaps that's all I need to know.

Take it easy. Rings are lukewarm, at best .

thatdamncat 66F
3929 posts
6/23/2014 4:45 pm

You need a vaca... a couple of days off... with me... in Charleston.. or Virginia.. or Houston!

"You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:51 pm:
Yes.yes, I do need a vacay with you. And some time to catch up! I'll find you via text soon!

GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
6/23/2014 4:45 pm

Hey hey! What's happenin', hot stuff?

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


gottaring replies on 6/23/2014 6:50 pm:
Hey, hey, hey, Good Lookin'! How are things going with the fundraising? Email me some deets .

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