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IDK, mybe I'm the exception to the rule, but I tried to be as honest as I could on the profile! How are you going to meet up with someone that matches you right if you lie on the profile? Of course, there are people who wouldn't think twice about lying, just to get laid! Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad! Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum!  submokey Become a watcher! THINK PINK!
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During my 8 years on this site, I think I've seen it all... Well, heard it all as sometimes have then refused to meet the person Sure the general old pic, wrong age, wrong relationship status, financial things, up to wrong gender and nationality... My eyes were very blue when I joined, not anymore...  Only universal or also in Scotland Where to start my day or is it month Of course I39ll change I39ll do whatever you like Heatseeking missiles  Squirter's life
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Nope, no lies from me or on my profile. I really can't see any reason to lie here except protect your privacy. i.e. Birthdate, Exact location etc. I have seen pictures of women who say they are a certain age but if true the mileage has been rough. If you aren't going to meet there is no reason to lie and if you do want to meet you had best not have lied. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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I really see no reason to lie about anything on here? I mean, you are who/what you are, or as Popeye said, I am who I am, or did Pop say that? As for rules, hell make them up as you go along!  Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!
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i did a blog several years ago, it's still up on my blogs, when does omission become a lie? it does if you had that omission knowledge and it would have made a difference on a decision you made...everything on my profile is correct..since i cant stand liars, i wouldnt do it myself    je ne regrette rien
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there isnt a a rule book ever. just sort of a consesus of what everyone else is doing. you do have your own rule book and a recent history of what lies or ommitting details can do to relationships. its why i tend to shoot for honesty and respect. it is what follow up emails are for i think. look how swimmingly it has worked for us. by the way your blonde crew cut could use a trim
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I have never felt the need to lie about stuff, I have never seen the point myself. If asked a question I answer truthfully and to the best of my ability. It is I that has been lied to, then they wonder why I have gone off them. Cherry  Always remember......Pretty is skin deep, ugly attitude is to the bone.
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A lie, is a lie, is a lie. That being said, not all lies are bad, think of undercover law enforcement and spies. My profile is basically true, I tweak my age, by a couple of years and exact location because it's not necessary for anyone to *know* I'm on this site regardless of what they might *suspect*. Nothing that's of any consequence if I meet someone. When you portray yourself to be substantially different from who you are should I meet you, that is the difference between telling a lie (which we all do) and being a liar.
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I can say that I have never lied to you...at least I hope not...lol. I don't usually lie to people...much easier to tell the truth.
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Every thing on profile is true. My age every thing. I was never good at telling lies. Just ask Sexy she even knows when I am telling fibs. Not many people know my real name tho. They just call me nut bar or nut case. LOL This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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The only fibs I've told are when I'm trying to make someone interested in me go away. I usually tell them that I am seeing someone else. That is true now, but it wasn't in the beginning. I've never seen the point in lying about age & body size. There's nothing worse than meeting someone who looks nothing like his profile... I have never lied in my blog or in my comments.
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Acceptable lies: Any told to anyone else. Unacceptable lies: Those told to me.  If you're gonna get stuck, get Stuck In The Middle With You
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My location is false cause of my career but anyone who knows me on here knows exactly where I live...I've caught people in some fibbing, age, marital status and I never ask why cause I figure we all have our own reasons...If they have a whole page of "prefer not to say" then I just keep rolling.. Some people matter and some don't... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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I don't see the point to lie on this site! If you are looking for someone, you will want to meet. To me, lying is just stupidity! I have NOT lied here. I instilled in my kids that lies eventually surface! (maybe right away and maybe years later. Lance A is a good example)
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I can't see the point of lying on here. You're bound to be 'found out' sooner or later.
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Lies are not necessary on sites like this one in my opinion. Though location may be acceptable in some instances. Omissions on the other hand are different and I think allowed regarding certain facts. Why someone is divorced is not anyone else's business unless the divorcee chooses it to be. That is private family business. Enough to state you are divorced if you want. But marital status, single or not, is necessary as is health issue. Even if some never read it. Lol! And no rule book otherwise I would know it! xo
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1/23/2013 11:31 am |
I don't think it is acceptable to lie. Period. On the other hand I don't think that the people on this very public site need to divulge any information that they don't want to to the complete strangers that populate this site. For instance, don't lie about your age or location, just omit it if it isn't something that you want to share. If you have to put something in order to sign up then make up something that is obviously not a real place (ie- location: Mars- the planet). Have you lied to anyone here? More specifically, have you lied to ME? Ok GR. You got me. I knew that I really couldn't bake my own minions.  I am so ashamed. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me. It will never happen again!  Omissions/lies regarding marital status and sexual health: UNACCEPTABLE. No excuses allowed. Can we all agree on that? Absolutely! Especially lying about health. That is felony material as far as I am concerned. But what about age? Weight? Height? Financial status? Sexual preferences (how kinky you might actually be vs. how kinky you wish to appear)? Where you live? What you do? Whom you've dated? Why you're divorced? Age, weight, height... Don't lie. It will be obvious if you ever meet and you will just paint yourself as a lying scumbag. As for financial status, where you live, what you do, I think that is something that you should be truthful about but shouldn't really be discussed until you have established some sort of trust with the person who wants to know. Who you have dated and why you are divorced seems like something that should be brought up in person after you see if there is a possible connection. That is sensitive territory for a lot of people. Ok, the kinky factor. Tough one. I wouldn't lie, but I wouldn't divulge all my dark and twisted fantasies the first time I met someone either. If I did it would scare them off. Besides, it is fun to discover those things as you go along! I think that it should be pretty apparent early on what level of kink both parties enjoy without getting into specifics. And most importantly: Who wrote the fucking rule book around here and where can I get a copy? It was the Republicans and it is all a lie! 
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The only lie I tell here is my name....it's not really Liz....the rest, my profile, my blog and any comments I have made are the truth. I am too lazy to try to remember lies so I don't tell them. ~~Anais Nin~~
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There is a rule book? (smacks head) As for lies... cant think of any time I've lied to you. Hell girl, Im not that good an actress and you know me too well to NOT know when I was lying. As for the profile, the location isn't exactly right, and neither is the birth date, other than that, its pretty spot on. And hell, I even answer to Cat  "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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The short answer is that the only lies that are frowned upon here are those that are intended with malice. It's a given that all these little mistruths are intended to deceive or manipulate to some degree, but I don't think most people are intending malice, just a little wishful thinking. I've lied on my profile location, but I've exposed the lie in my blog, and since a location is required to get site access, there isn't much choice if identification is a real threat. Guess they should have "prefer not to say" as a location category, but until they do, you can be pretty sure that 90% of all the profiles out there contain at least one lie.
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1/23/2013 9:51 am |
What I wrote on my profile is the truth, my blogs are insights into me, why one may ask don't I lie to "score" with more women, cause I'm a big boy and don't feel the need to lie, cause if and when you actually meet someone the lie's will come out and you could risk losing out on an amazing person, just my thought's. 
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My age and location are not accurate on here. That's a safety thing more than anything else. I don't see a reason to lie about anything else. Hell I even told everyone my weight a couple of weeks ago. Unfortunately it's still pretty much the same number as of today ***
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I carefully read the terms and conditions and none of those things are mentioned. A shame really. I think most people are basically honest or at least I hope we are but on here it seems anything goes for a lot of people. I guess really not just here but the internet in general. There you go That's all and none of it tragic.
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