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"Alternative activities"  

justwonderfulfo 67M
22 posts
10/26/2010 7:24 pm
"Alternative activities"


I recently asked a lady what she considered "alternative activities" on her post. A few postings on here contain that after the usual stuff...one on one sex, erotic e-mail etc. She mentioned she had a few medical conditions that made traditional intercourse uncomfortable for her (long story)so she mentioned mutual masturbation....turned out to be erotic as hell and turns out she could really get off that way....

so tonights blog is a question...

What are your favorite "alternative activities"?

Can be reached here or at mark_severin at the yahoo place ....

angelofmercy5 66F
17879 posts
10/27/2010 9:00 pm

Well, at least you got an answer from her. Her "alternative" activities are interesting, but I wonder if many men are interested in something like that. Thanks for the welcome back!


justwonderfulfo 67M
257 posts
10/28/2010 7:49 am

I think men are coming around to actually listening to what women want, no longer the days of the guy getting his and leaving the woman hanging...the internet has leveled the field for both sexes so that if someone is interested in one particular activity, its easier to find that these days...

lets say a woman is looking for a tall man....that instantly weeds out a few...

or one who seeks a well hung man, further weeding out!

or she just wants oral...of course every man will say he is great there...but women have that wonderful ability to now say "me first" and if it turns out the man has lied, tried for two minutes and gave up...he gets none and goes home with his stiffy intact...

so now "sex" is not defined by one particular act but can encompass many facets of the sensual diamond.

Maybe a few men can take the time to listen now to what women hope to get out of a sexual relationship...

we did get to touch, kiss and enjoy the simple things,and we did share a mutual orgasm together, however non-traditional it was, very erotic and different.

some things, like watching porn together naked in bed may fall into "alternative activities" and I still wonder what most are to women...

bottom line is that men are easy and if men hope to still "get some" in this day and gae, they mightwant to listen carefully and follow up on what she seeks.


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