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False advertising.  

maximal3000 52M
8 posts
9/12/2014 2:02 pm
False advertising.

RANT POST:

We can all admit that we are adults here. So why do we still have to lie about who we are? Seriously! I cannot tell you the many times I read posts and meet someone who tells me that they are someone who is either a bisexual sexoholic, loves being nude, or love to watch porn too only to be disappointed when I finally get to know them. People! When your asked or you advertise to get the attention of someone, be that someone. Your a grown up and do not need to continue to put on a image of something or someone your not, like you did when your 20's. Be who you are and be proud. If your not into porn 7 days a week, say so. If you are introvert and loves indoor reading, do not say you like to go out for walks, do not say your exciting to fun to be around and be shy. Your getting up the hopes of someone who might think your the "one" under false pretense who could be using that time to be finding that someone who actually is what they are looking for.

It is 2014 people. We do not need to lie about being anything about who we are. Can we be honest and upfront about what we want out of partners without lying and deceiving them because we fear or impatient about needing to being with anyone? I know social networking has made it easier to project who we wish to be, but seriously! if your say you have the body of a and muscles to boot, have those muscles and body. No one wants to be disappointed in who they will finally meet.

The truth goes a long way and builds up a foundation if not the first stone in what could be a long and happy relationship because you allowed yourself to be who you are and it tells the other person that if your unhappy, you will let them know without fear. Speaking of which if your motivation is based on "fear" of being rejected, I say "FUCK EM!" It just means they were not the one and the person your after is still out there waiting for you. As I said before, do not settle for anything less than you deserve.

HKK6972 51F
42 posts
9/12/2014 2:42 pm

 Amen to that too many fakes and flakes and not enough~~ Real!! cause if You really want something ongoing w someone there has to be trust! I don't hide who I am why should You people!!


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