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Blogs > rm_highbrowkink > It's a Lifestyle?

About what do you fantasize?  

rm_highbrowkink 51M/50F
73 posts
12/11/2010 4:43 pm
About what do you fantasize?
In our most recent poll, I asked our readers about whom they fantasize.

But it seems that readers think that a different question is more important: what happens in your fantasies.

Select the option below that most closely describes the most common element on your sexual fantasies.

You really oughta elaborate in the comments, as well.

Thanks!
Sex with a stranger
Group sex
Being sexually dominant
Being sexually submissive
Exhibitionism
Being forced into sex
Infidelity
Some aspect of the sex industry (, stripping, pornography)
Sex in a particular location or venue (romantic, forbidden, etc.)
Something else (please elaborate)


rm_highbrowkink 51M/50F
89 posts
12/11/2010 4:48 pm

 In the last poll, I got to vote and Annie didn't, since we share the same profile. So, this time, I'll let her take our profile's vote, and I'll just tell you.

It's a mixture of sex with strangers, group sex, and sexual dominance. If I had to pick the most important aspect, it'd be sexual dominance. Most of my fantasies involve me compelling Annie to have sex with other people, usually strangers, and often in groups.


stevenjosepht 78M
3726 posts
12/11/2010 5:21 pm

 Group sex, swimming naked, being naked in public, being at a hetero-sex-club, etc. Oh wait--I actually did all that and then some some. Steven


rm_highbrowkink 51M/50F
89 posts
12/12/2010 7:25 pm
    Quoting  :
So, I saw the "Report this for abuse" link, and my first thought was to click it, because you were abusing me. Then I realized that was probably not what they meant by "abuse."

Also, isn't it hard to convince the guy who's looking for a submissive to come all this way to fuck you when, in the comment one up, you're giving me lip? He doesn't say he wants a sub who's a deliberate smartass in hopes of provoking a spanking. Good luck with that.


thinkingFL 46M

12/13/2010 9:58 am

 I'd like to do some porn making. I would really like to thank ya'll for posting your profile for us free members and for your guide for single guys. Helped me know that I'm not in the running LOL.


rm_highbrowkink replies on 12/13/2010 12:16 pm:
Well, thanks for sticking around to read the blog, anyway!

rm_highbrowkink 51M/50F
89 posts
12/17/2010 4:58 pm

 I voted "Something Else." Before I get to my explantaion...

This was a really tough one, for a number of reasons. One, I don't think I fantasize in the same way most people do. I daydream, I think titillating thoughts that out of nowhere make me hot, or I'm just turned on by something I encounter. When I masturbate, I don't fantasize as much as I visualize. The difference is vivid pictures in my head, but often no coherent plot line. Two, when thinking about what turns me on, pretty much all of these choices come into play at one time or another.

If I had to pick a common theme for my "fantasies," such as they are, I would say they usually put me in the role of seductress. In my fantasies, I imagine that I can pick what I want and make it mine, regardless of circumstances. Closely related to this are the ideas that, at least in my head, I am irresistible and addictive as a lover. The other side of this is that, even with a regular partner, I want to still be capable of surprise, of stimulation, of making their fantasies real, or giving them fantasies they didn't know they had.


rm_highbrowkink 51M/50F
89 posts
12/18/2010 9:22 pm
    Quoting rm_highbrowkink:
    I voted "Something Else." Before I get to my explantaion...

    This was a really tough one, for a number of reasons. One, I don't think I fantasize in the same way most people do. I daydream, I think titillating thoughts that out of nowhere make me hot, or I'm just turned on by something I encounter. When I masturbate, I don't fantasize as much as I visualize. The difference is vivid pictures in my head, but often no coherent plot line. Two, when thinking about what turns me on, pretty much all of these choices come into play at one time or another.

    If I had to pick a common theme for my "fantasies," such as they are, I would say they usually put me in the role of seductress. In my fantasies, I imagine that I can pick what I want and make it mine, regardless of circumstances. Closely related to this are the ideas that, at least in my head, I am irresistible and addictive as a lover. The other side of this is that, even with a regular partner, I want to still be capable of surprise, of stimulation, of making their fantasies real, or giving them fantasies they didn't know they had.
Hmmmm … you can pick what you want and make it yours (and you prove that regularly), you're irresistible and addictive as a lover (you prove those things regularly, too), you certainly stimulate me and make my fantasies real (you don't even need me to tell you you prove that), and you are certainly still capable of surprising me after all these years (like last night, for example).


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