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V E N T I NG T O Y O U !!!  

hotsizzlinglady 57T  
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8/1/2011 2:20 pm
V E N T I NG T O Y O U !!!

Ok here it goes my vent for the year. A couple of men and I were talking, they were wondering why is that women want men to stop playin games and just be upfront with them then when the man is upfront and honest and not playin games the women sometimes get offended or mad ie... (if a man just wants to get with you and he says that the woman gets upset and feel disrespected, or he says he just want to kick it with you and no feeling or attachment the woman gets mad if she sees him with another woman). Now it may be me but it seems like when you get what you want its not really what you want so who is playing the game. Yes I kno this is going to make some people upset but if it does you don't have to read it and its probably the truth anyway.
Vent #2: This being the other woman or other man whether its gf/bf or married people. Here it is if a person gets involved with you after they know the truth then the other person needs to respect the situation that they choose to be in and not have attitude or get jealous, because one they chose to deal with it and they knew what the consequences was when they got involved. The reason things get twisted and there is drama is because one or both got caught up,caught feelings and didn’t know how to separate the two. The man begin to think the other woman is his woman for real especially if he see the other women he is messing with, is with another man and women you do the same thing so you are not excluded. Easy solutions, if the individual(s) can’t handle it then don’t do it. Not saying I encourage it or promoted cheating I just deal with reality its going to happen. I’m just saying what I have experienced or went thru and what I have witnessed from others. So lets be mature and deal with reality if you can’t handle it then make the right choice.
Vent #3: Men if you got another woman or married stop lying to these women and put it up front and let them or the person make the choice if they still want to deal with you, this goes for everyone, no one is excluded. Remember it’s always easy to deal with a relationship when everything is good and there are good times but can you deal with the bad and bad times as well.
Until my next venting spree lol. Now back to our regularly schedule program(RSP) (Mature people)
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