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But my dad says I’m beautiful. Why doesn’t he like me?
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But my dad says I’m beautiful. Why doesn’t he like me? lol That is my lame attempt at being Milhouse Van Houten. Anyway, I met some guy a few weeks ago. Before that we talked for a week. I really liked him. I don’t know why. He was just my type I guess and I found him so adorable. This sounds really pathetic and worthy of ridicule, but I felt like we had a connection. Now that I think of it, we were just flirting with each other too much. He was always calling me a bad girl, and talking about spanking me. lol Of course, he was only interested in sex. I wasn’t sure of this at first because we were talking about a lot of other things too. On our date, after we were talking for while, he started kissing me. His busy hands went around my tits. Me being stupid, I took off my bra so he could really play with them. I can’t help it. I like being played with. lol  He sucked my tits several times and I gave him a him blowjobs here and there. I spent the night with him too. That whole time we were getting physical I just thought, "Why am I doing this? He’s not going to speak to me again after this." I was right. Even though we didn’t even have real sex, I had a feeling he would ignore me later. That whole week when he didn’t respond to a few texts I sent him, I was so horny. I was fingering myself, and I kept thinking of him sucking my tits and spanking me. I wanted to suck his dick and fuck him. I knew he didn't care about me though. I just have a strange feeling that I will only have sexual relationships and one time flings for the rest of my life because I am not a dater. I am socially inept and boring. One thing I have noticed is that only ugly men go after me. They want to date me and see me again. When I meet good looking guys, they just want me for sex and never speak to me again. They are always cold when they say bye to me after our date. I suppose that means I am not very attractive. But ugly guys can’t keep their hands off of me and are giving me a long kiss goodbye. lol What a shallow girl I am!!! I guess I deserve to be alone and I am not pretty enough to be so picky. =/ |
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Backpocket, before his self serving ad, has it right hun. I think I've written this in your blog before, but in all honesty, and you can come to my profile and see that I don't need to say this, and am not saying it for any other reason than it's the truth. You are actually quite beautiful. Stunning features, in fact. When you manage to find a way to love yourself, have some more confidence and that gets reflected in the way you dress and present yourself, and more importantly, the messages that you send out to others in your attitude toward yourself, you'll be amazed at who you attract. And it has nothing to do with whether you have sex or not. I don't believe in artificial "rules" about dating, but rather in the feelings between two people. When the person you are with feels your self respect, it will be returned. Just take it from an objective source, you ARE beautiful, intelligent, and funny.
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mefinks u are too intelligent for most... it's not a bad thing!! be who you are.. and if they can't appreciate it.. it's their loss.. really... no point in sticking with losers.. Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be? 
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Get over yourself. Everyone makes mistakes and you made one here. Maybe you've made a lot of them. Who knows? You're not destined for that the rest of your life though. You don't 'deserve' anything, one way or the other. You may not have your shit together for a good, solid relationship, but nobody just 'deserves' anything. You want something else? Do sopmething else. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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some times you have to go through a lot of rocks to find the gieode , when you do, it will be presious and shine back at you. . be patient, you have more going for you then you know. be deliberet, a man likes a woman that KNOWS her self worth. be spontainious, a little mystery keeps things exciting. be bold about your desires,it will weed out some of the rocks. above all, dont be down on yourself, it's your world, anyone that wants to be any part of it MUST RISE UP TO YOUR LEVEL. . good hunting
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There is a lot of good advice already given...listen to it and believe yourself to be worth more than one night stands. Men will get the message and treat you better. And as silly as my granny was with her sayings, she always told me "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? " I quit giving out free milk to those handsome men and was shocked by how much better I was treated...
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First off, you are pretty. You have a cute face and a very voluptuous figure. Good looking guys and unattractive guys both want to have sex with you. Why? It's because you're attractive. So, that's not a problem. But, it's very clear that you lack confidence. You want to be accepted. You want someone to care about you. You're not alone in this. It's what everyone wants. But, giving guys sex isn't going to get you love and acceptance. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with sex, and if you want to have sex, have sex. Be safe and be careful in choosing your partners, but have all the sex you want. Just do it because it's what you want to do, not because you think it will make someone will like you. First of all, trying to use sex to make someone like you doesn't work. The world is full of assholes and if what they perceive is that if they pretend to like you, you'll put out for them, they'll take advantage of that. Assholes smell desperation the same way sharks smell blood. Second, whether or not a person will like you is about who you are and who they perceive you to be. If people think you're a pushover and easily manipulated, you'll attract assholes, and assholes don't like people, they take advantage of them. That's part of what makes them assholes. Try not to worry as much about what other people think about you, and focus on doing things for yourself that make you happy. And, allow yourself to recognize the good things about yourself. In addition to being pretty, you seem like a kind sensitive person, which is really something special in this world. As far as gaining confidence, it's easy to say, but harder to do. You can't just decide to be confident. It's a process. Do things that make you feel good. Try to project confidence, even if you don't feel confident. Focus on your positive qualities, and let belief in yourself happen. The more you do these things, the easier they will become. And, that's what gaining confidence is. And, stop going out with guys you find unattractive, and shark-like assholes that only want to use you for sex, unless all you really want is one night stand type sex. There's nothing wrong with that as long as it's what you want, but until you feel less vulnerable, I'd suggest staying away from guys like that, and maybe even not have sex for a while. You might want to think about getting a new profile name, while your at it, because any name starting with Dreary isn't a real confidence builder.  If I lived closer to you I'd date you and not have sex with you myself. But, I don't think that's necessary, because if you're as nice a person as you seem, you already have everything you need to build yourself up, by yourself. It's probably good that I don't live by you because when you've built up your confidence and self-esteem, I'd probably annoy the hell out of you, begging you to have sex, or at least pay attention to me. Believe in yourself and take care.
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Sorry, I should have read your other posts, before I jumped in and started handing out advice. I now see you're more than able to handle yourself. Again, apologies.
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So he didn't like me because I was being a little easy with him but because he found me creepy and weird? lol I was wondering which one of those it was. I thought it could be both. Whatever happens naturally, happens naturally. Artificial rules about when to do what, are just that, artificial. However, it's about you. While self deprecation can be attractive, when it devolves into constantly putting yourself down, it indicates a lack of self respect, and that has nothing to do with sex. You need to first understand how attractive, smart and funny you actually are. And btw, you should not be around anyone that doesn't see that... and then, begin to present yourself to the world that way. When you show people that you appreciate yourself, they will appreciate naturally.
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I'm a good looking guy who would never treat you that way. I would luv to chat with you some time. Teddy
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11/27/2013 2:34 am |
First, let's call a spade a spade and let you know that that guy is a total Ahole. If you ever see him again, I would not give him the time of day, not a word. He treated you like dirt and you deserve better. He led you on and used you and that is guy with no morals or character. Second, I have seen you on cam many times over the years and you are far from ugly, if fact I think you are quite a beauty. Why would I keep looking at you on cam if you were unattractive? I wouldn't. Here's a tip, if the guy can't be polite enough to not stare at you tits, and makes an honest attempt to talk with you eye to eye, he may be worth persuing. And as far as being "boring", you'd be surprised at what a guy can find interesting if he like the girl. I have learned a lot of things about women becuase I listened to them, and found even the most boring things interesting. If someone likes you, almost anything you say sounds interesting. be careful, pick the next one carefully. A girl like you will find a guy who's decent to you and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Be patient, and good luck.
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Read the profile and saw the pics but can't imagine why you would feel ugly or think of yourself as not being attractive. As an older guy, I find you very appealing to me, but I'm not in the age range you prefer although I usually date and have relationships with women around your age. In a partner, I look for a person who I'm comfortable with and whose company I enjoy whatever we may be doing together. I'm not the best looking guy here, don't have the best body, but am comfortable with who I am and I do appeal to some women. Be yourself and you may be surprised at what you might find out here.
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