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FRIENDS WITH MY BENEFITS
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FRIENDS WITH MY BENEFITS This post is my contribution to the sixteenth virtual symposium superbly organised by the highly esteemed cult leader humorlife. Contributions to the 'Friends with Benefits' virtual symposium can be found at Participants List For The Sixteenth Virtual Symposium Friends With Benefits.   'Friends with benefits' isn’t a term I generally use. I understand what it means or at least I think I do. But to me the term fails to capture the dynamics of a relationship and relies solely on sex to define a relationship. Though possibly introduced to describe the fuzziness between a non-sexual friendship and a sexual relationship, the term seems only to confuse things more. Surely all good friendships have benefits, whether sexual or not; and surely all good relationships are based on friendship. At risk of going off-topic and risking the wrath of cult members, I’m going to write about friends trying to take other friends' benefits. There have been at least three occasions where good friends of mine have made a move on my girlfriends. I only found out because my girlfriends told me; undoubtedly there have been many more occasions which I wasn’t told about! Friends are unlikely to tell you they’ve propositioned your partner unless they want to get their side of the story before your partner dishes the dirt. Partners may not tell you because they may not be believed or even worry about your reaction. On each of the three occasions when one of my friends tried it on with my girlfriend, I decided not to react. I thanked my girlfriends for telling me and decided not to confront my friends about the incidents. One of those friends is still my best friend! If I confronted my friends who’ve made a pass at my girlfriends, I probably wouldn’t have any friends left! Also I like to take my friend’s passes as a compliment of my taste in girlfriends! Like everyone I have a few morals, but one thing I don’t like doing is taking the moral high ground. It's always a long way down to fall! I find taking the moral low ground is often the best place to stand! Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? If so, what did you do? Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? And like everyone, I've had my moral lapses. On one drunken occasion, I ended up having sex with my then best friend’s girlfriend. On waking up the next morning, I felt terrible, but I was feeling bad only because there was a chance of my friend finding out. I didn’t tell my friend about what I did and, as it happened, his girlfriend didn’t tell him what she did! I decided it wasn’t worth checking whether she was going to tell him or not, because I was unlikely to influence her decision and she arguably had more to lose than me! For a few days after the dirty deed I was wracked with guilt whenever I saw my friend but, after a short while, it was business as usual!        |
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Cute pictures. Good thought too. I have to agree, friends don't play with others mates. That can lead to Lead Poisoning. 
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Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? Yes If so, what did you do? What do you want the GPS locations  Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? No... but I've imagined some possibilities  Vive La Difference
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Bonjour Foutre amusant En France on appele l'Angleterre " La perfide Albion " je commence à comprendre pourquoi  ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥ Hello Spunkycumfun In France England call "The perfidious Albion" I begin to understand why  ♥Kisses ♥ Annie ♥
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Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? Yes. If so, what did you do? I laughed at him- he tried and failed. It was a source of great amusement for some time after. Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? Yes- same friend. I succeeded where he failed. He didn't laugh. Actually, I don't recall him laughing either time. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Have any of my friends tried to make a move on a girlfriend? Nope... but my bestfriend and roommate did hit it with someone I had eyes for who was staying with us. He told me with hours. Still friends, and we're in each other's wedding parties. Later that same year, a situation came up with a girl he was just beginning to see. I can be rather ridge when it come to crossing line, and I did not cross it. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Yes, and "I plead the fifth". I've had it range from everything from a roommate casually telling me "You know how you passed out last night? .. Well your lady wanted more, so naturally I gave it to her." (That was good to know.) to running away with other's partners. --- What can I say? I've led a messy life.  Sometimes there are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. .. That doesn't mean they don't get crossed anyways.   And in my defense..... "They" always started it!
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I believe in friendship.... what hppens beyond that is a benefit
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Love the card about the friend with a wine store! Now that would be a worthwhile benefit.
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Great contribution to this months symposium Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? If so, what did you do? Oh yes a few times I found some women eyeing him up. I confronted them. Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? not at all. I thought about it but would never cross this line unless he knows about it. hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? If so, what did you do? Not that I am aware of Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners No way.
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I wouldn't care if one of my friends slept with my boyfriend because if he was going to sleep with one of them and try to hide it from me, then it most likely isn't a healthy relationship to begin with. I say "try" because most cheaters that aren't up front want to get caught. Good post, thanks for contributing to the symposium, Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? If so, what did you do? Yes...while I was married a long time ago, my friend became so blotto drunk that my wife and I carried him to his apartment and put him in him to bed. While we were doing this, he tells my wife,"I alway wanted to kiss you." He passed out. Of course he did not remember! LOL! Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? No...not while they were dating. I might of hit on them later...much later! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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Drunken mistakes have a lot to answer for! 
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And hi to you. Thanks for stopping by.
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Cute pictures. Good thought too. I have to agree, friends don't play with others mates. That can lead to Lead Poisoning. Thanks for stopping by.
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Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? Yes If so, what did you do? What do you want the GPS locations Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? No... but I've imagined some possibilities
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Bonjour Foutre amusant En France on appele l'Angleterre " La perfide Albion " je commence à comprendre pourquoi /:> ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥ Hello Spunkycumfun In France England call "The perfidious Albion" I begin to understand why ♥Kisses ♥ Annie ♥ Perfidious Albion are a football team! [image]
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Have any of your friends ever tried it on with your partner? Yes. If so, what did you do? I laughed at him- he tried and failed. It was a source of great amusement for some time after. Have you ever tried it on with any of your friends’ partners? Yes- same friend. I succeeded where he failed. He didn't laugh. Actually, I don't recall him laughing either time.
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Have any of my friends tried to make a move on a girlfriend? Nope... but my bestfriend and roommate did hit it with someone I had eyes for who was staying with us. He told me with hours. Still friends, and we're in each other's wedding parties. Later that same year, a situation came up with a girl he was just beginning to see. I can be rather ridge when it come to crossing line, and I did not cross it.
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"moral low ground" You should write more on this topic, is it the key to a happy life? You do make me laugh and that's what friends are for, right? You've been my friend here from the start, you've never failed to read a post of mine or comment (if so I can't recall). I hope we remain friends for a long time, with or without benefits, although I've already benefited from "knowing" you. You have been a very good friend to me too! 
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Yes, and "I plead the fifth". I've had it range from everything from a roommate casually telling me "You know how you passed out last night? .. Well your lady wanted more, so naturally I gave it to her." (That was good to know.) to running away with other's partners. --- What can I say? I've led a messy life. Sometimes there are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. .. That doesn't mean they don't get crossed anyways. And in my defense..... "They" always started it!
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I believe in friendship.... what hppens beyond that is a benefit Thanks for stopping by.
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If jealousy and guilt comes with friends with benefits, then I'll stick to friends without benefits! Thanks for stopping by.
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Love the card about the friend with a wine store! Now that would be a worthwhile benefit. Thanks for stopping by.
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Sometimes one has to cross a line to realise not to cross it again! Thanks for stopping by.
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