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A SIX EX PARTY  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
1/29/2016 9:55 am
A SIX EX PARTY



My blogging friend [blog Fel7114] suggested I write about my leaving-do at which six ex-girlfriends attended. There was an open invitation to everyone to attend my leaving party at the local Labour Club.

Though I had worked there for about 20 years, I didn’t want a big fuss for my leaving-do. No presents, no speeches; I just wanted everyone to come along to chat, drink and dance.

I knew some of my ex-girlfriends would turn up, but I wasn’t expecting six! My ex-girlfriends probably came along to make sure that I was actually leaving town!

Though they more-or-less knew of each other, I got increasingly uncomfortable as each ex-girlfriend entered the room. My friends found it increasingly funny!

After a while, I wanted to try and get some control of this escalating situation. I decided that the best strategy was to get very drunk so that I’d be incapable of engaging in any meaningful conversation, dancing to disco music and, most important, remembering any details of the evening!

The strategy worked though I did wake up with a very bad head the next morning. But I woke up alone with no ex-girlfriends in my bed!


How well do you get on with your ex-partners?
What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners?
Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner?


Generally I have good relations with my ex-girlfriends; and when I say good, I mean that we exchange pleasantries or at least Xmas cards! A couple of my ex-girlfriends are now even best friends.

The only exception is my ex-wife. The relationship ended badly and just got worse after we split. Once I went into a restaurant with my new girlfriend, saw my ex-wife with her new boyfriend and immediately walked out of the restaurant. At the time I was pleased that she had found someone else as it took the heat off me!




KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
1/29/2016 12:39 pm

I have been to parties that my ex-husband has been at because I was part of the San Diego surfer community for 19 years and still get invited to plenty of stuff. We're ok but I don't like to be in a cluster talking to him and his girlfriend. They don't talk about anything that I find interesting anymore.

I would probably not have any contact with him in the future except for the kids' big occasions, like college graduations or weddings or babies being birthed.
All my ex boyfriends except the last-almost-one are friends of mine.
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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
1/29/2016 2:17 pm

If you mean ex partners as in real...proper...partners then I don't get on with any of them any more as they are all dead....and no I didn't kill them!

I have a couple of ex fwb's who remain extremely good friends but they have never been in the same room at the same time.


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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
1/29/2016 5:34 pm

I can just see it now, all the hens and one rooster, AWKWARD!!! [image]

How well do you get on with your ex-partners? Only have one ex, the wife, and all is well with her

What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners? Chat as needed

Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner? NO!!


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Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
1/29/2016 6:33 pm

I am generally very cordial with my former partners. (Online etiquette and all.) I've also managed to avoid any bad breakups these past few years.

When I was younger I had two recent ex's show up at the same bar where a cover-band was playing. .. (They were remarkably similar women. They even drove the same year of Pontiac Firebird's. One was about 10 years older though.)

The younger one had been my HS sweetheart. I kept trying to push her away on the dance floor, because I wanted to go home with the older one. .. The older woman wasn't having any of it.

I ended up taking my HS sweetheart home with me. .. Sex, yes. Rekindled relationship, no.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
1/29/2016 8:39 pm

How well do you get on with your ex-partners?
Remarkably well- online. Some of my ex girlfriends are quite good friends. I keep two of my ex wives on a cordial basis, and my third ex wife is dead. I get on best with her.

What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners?
"Don't I know you from somewhere?"

Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner?
Rarely but it has happened. I told 'em to take a number, I'd be with them shortly.

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
1/29/2016 9:13 pm

I basically only have one I call my ex.....we had two girls, so we have grandchildren. Obviously we are at certain functions that include birthdays and sports events and school concerts. I graciously ignore her but do talk with her husband.


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/30/2016 4:43 am

I getting along well with all my x-girlfriends, I just don't get along well with my x-wife... really she doesn't care to get along with me.

When I meet an x-girlfriend, hugs and kisses are exchanged. X-wife, not so much.

3 x-girlfriends with thier spouses were at my wedding

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/30/2016 10:04 am

Your so funny spunky!

I don't have an ex I am still with him! hugsssssssssSSSs V

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/1/2016 7:51 am

How well do you get on with your ex-partners? I would like to think that I get on well with ex-partners. Although, I can't say the same about them getting on with me
What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners? I would never intentionally ignore them.
Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner? No, I wouldn't know where to look!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 8:26 am

    Quoting  :

I don't think I could live in a small town because of the ex'es I might bump into!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:07 am

    Quoting joisygirl:
    I mostly have a one and only. There were a couple of what the eff was I thinking um, what, engagements? Never mind. One is a good friend the other blocked me every way he can, not that I really tried to keep in touch, just once with something newsworthy and New Year's greetings but no response.
One advantage of not keeping in touch with an ex is that there's no chance of ex sex!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:09 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    I have been to parties that my ex-husband has been at because I was part of the San Diego surfer community for 19 years and still get invited to plenty of stuff. We're ok but I don't like to be in a cluster talking to him and his girlfriend. They don't talk about anything that I find interesting anymore.

    I would probably not have any contact with him in the future except for the kids' big occasions, like college graduations or weddings or babies being birthed.
    All my ex boyfriends except the last-almost-one are friends of mine.
    Kk
Though not always easy, I think it's good to try and rescue a friendship from a failed relationship.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:10 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    If you mean ex partners as in real...proper...partners then I don't get on with any of them any more as they are all dead....and no I didn't kill them!

    I have a couple of ex fwb's who remain extremely good friends but they have never been in the same room at the same time.

Perhaps you should host an ex-FWB dinner party; it may make for interesting conversation!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:11 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I can just see it now, all the hens and one rooster, AWKWARD!!! [image]

    How well do you get on with your ex-partners? Only have one ex, the wife, and all is well with her

    What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners? Chat as needed

    Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner? NO!!
It's good to be on good terms with an ex, though in some cases it may not be possible!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:25 am

    Quoting Furbal1972:
    I am generally very cordial with my former partners. (Online etiquette and all.) I've also managed to avoid any bad breakups these past few years.

    When I was younger I had two recent ex's show up at the same bar where a cover-band was playing. .. (They were remarkably similar women. They even drove the same year of Pontiac Firebird's. One was about 10 years older though.)

    The younger one had been my HS sweetheart. I kept trying to push her away on the dance floor, because I wanted to go home with the older one. .. The older woman wasn't having any of it.

    I ended up taking my HS sweetheart home with me. .. Sex, yes. Rekindled relationship, no.
At least you didn't go home alone. It's always good to have options!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:27 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    How well do you get on with your ex-partners?
    Remarkably well- online. Some of my ex girlfriends are quite good friends. I keep two of my ex wives on a cordial basis, and my third ex wife is dead. I get on best with her.

    What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners?
    "Don't I know you from somewhere?"

    Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner?
    Rarely but it has happened. I told 'em to take a number, I'd be with them shortly.
I occasionally check to see of my ex-wife is alive and she always is still alive!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:28 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    I basically only have one I call my ex.....we had two girls, so we have grandchildren. Obviously we are at certain functions that include birthdays and sports events and school concerts. I graciously ignore her but do talk with her husband.
I'd like to see a gracious ignoring of someone!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:29 am

    Quoting khuXBFXM8u:
    I getting along well with all my x-girlfriends, I just don't get along well with my x-wife... really she doesn't care to get along with me.

    When I meet an x-girlfriend, hugs and kisses are exchanged. X-wife, not so much.

    3 x-girlfriends with thier spouses were at my wedding
You're making a great case not to ever marry!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:30 am

    Quoting  :

I'm not where some of my ex'es are now. Not even Google can trace them!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:31 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Your so funny spunky!

    I don't have an ex I am still with him! hugsssssssssSSSs V
Long may you never have an ex!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:32 am

    Quoting  :

Your ex-boyfriend sounds special!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/4/2016 9:33 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    How well do you get on with your ex-partners? I would like to think that I get on well with ex-partners. Although, I can't say the same about them getting on with me
    What have you done or what do you do when you meet ex-partners? I would never intentionally ignore them.
    Have you ever been in a room with more than one ex-partner? No, I wouldn't know where to look!
Another problem with several ex-partners in the same room is that they may compare notes!


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