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A FANTASY DILEMMA
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A FANTASY DILEMMA  I’m not a big fan of fantasies. I don’t like fantasy art, fantasy films, fantasy fiction, fantasy comics or fantasy objects. I just don’t get fantasy! In my swinging days, a few couples I met wanted to enact their fantasies – it was usually the men who were pushing for this. The fantasies usually involved so-called girl-on-girl action or me being directed by the other man to perform certain acts for his titillation. I never enjoyed these fantasies and rarely went along with them. They were too scripted and too one-sided. I always prefer to go with the flow than perform a fantasy role when having sex. I’m no fantasist; I’m a party pooper! Do you like fantasy and fantasising? Do you enact your sexual fantasies? A while back I heard a knock on my front door. I opened the door and, much to my surprise, my best friend’s girlfriend was standing at the doorstep. My best friend lived opposite me. After exchanging pleasantries, she asked whether she could come in. She then went onto explain that she just had a big argument with my best friend and that she wanted to stay overnight at my place. After some thought, I said that she could stay overnight in the spare room but she must tell my best friend about this as I didn’t want him thinking something was going on between me and his girlfriend. After telling my friend, she came into the lounge and sat on the settee with me. She then proceeded to rest her head on my lap and asked whether I minded. Stupidly I said it was okay. She then started to talk about fantasies and asked me to say the fantasy that she would like most to happen now. It was a clear pass at me. I answered that the fantasy I'd like was for my football team, Leeds United, to get promoted. I then got up from the settee, said goodnight to her and went to bed! After she left, I then realised I had a dilemma. Do I tell my friend of her pass to me? I decided not to tell my friend as his girlfriend would deny it or even worse say it was me who made the pass. These things can get very messy. What would you have done - tell my friend or not tell my friend? Below, for those who like fantasy art, are some artworks painted by Luis Royo.    |
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? Yes....I do fantasize! Do you enact your sexual fantasies? I have and I will...it gets my motor running! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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Not a fan of fantasies either. Sometime it just happens and it always leave me with a big void inside. WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? I am not much for it. I do sometimes, but not usually very wild Do you enact your sexual fantasies? My biggest I had was FFM. And that is frequent enough that it is no longer a fantasy What would you have done - tell my friend or not tell my friend? That is a problem, since nothing happened, maybe wait
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I fantasize at times but never fulfilled any! I would wait and tell friend if it happened a second time! If it was a pass, she could be making passes at others.
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She had a fantasy: to make a pass, and then some... You didn't help her fulfill it. So it remained just a fantasy for her. No use in informing anyone about this.
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1 - I enjoyed fantasy fictions when young, Ursula K. Le Guin or Roger Zelazny. Tolkein ... well it didn't last. He writes like a feft foot ... 2 - Oh, you mean THAT fantasies Well, does it count when, fulfilled, you still want to do them. In this case I still have heaps of them. If it doesn't, there's less and less, there are practices which not only do not excite me at all but even disgust me. For the rest of it ... well new gals, OK, but they often aren't willing, sigh.
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? oh yes both Do you enact your sexual fantasies? I sure do try to get all of them acted out. Some are out of the limits but will give it a good try anyways. What would you have done - tell my friend or not tell my friend? Not yet Spunky I would wait and see hugssssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? Yes, I do like both. Do you enact your sexual fantasies? Only if my partner(s) willingly participate. What would you have done - tell my friend or not tell my friend? I wouldn't tell him yet, but would try to hint in some subtle way. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Leeds getting promoted? Now that is fantasy! 
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? Yes, but not so much nowadays. I used to read a lot of fantasy- I was a big fan of Heavy Metal comics when I was younger, and sexual fantasies can be a lot of fun. Do you enact your sexual fantasies? No. I think some things are best left as fantasies. What would you have done - tell my friend or not tell my friend? I think you called this one right. If someone comes on to you like that you can be in a no win situation. About all you can do is ignore it and keep your fingers crossed! Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I actually can't think of anything hotter than having a lady ask for my help in fulfilling some fantasy of hers! Happy HNW. Invisible Me, on HNW Was She a Fashion Leader Lets Hope But What About HER Rights [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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I fantasise a little but rarely enact them....I have found that fantasies don't stand up well in reality. You made a good decision to say nothing. I love Luis Royo's work....I made one of them into bling and it used to be on my old blog's header.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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I like fantasy art but I've not bought a book for a while...mainly through lack of space! Keep dreaming if you think Leeds will get back to the Premiership  
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I'm more of a go with the flow type. Not into fantasy or role playing.
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? Yes....I do fantasize! Do you enact your sexual fantasies? I have and I will...it gets my motor running!  
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That's great you've fulfilled your fantasies. I still have a few to fulfil and time is running out!
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I have some fantasies that I would enjoy acting out, but if it doesn't happen,no worries...I have succeeded many on my bucket list,and not as much fun as I was hoping, so there's that....I think you made the right decision on not saying anything,it would come back to haunt you eventually...your a good guy!
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Cosplayers are dedicated, perhaps even too dedicated!
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Not a fan of fantasies either. Sometime it just happens and it always leave me with a big void inside.
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Do you like fantasy and fantasising? I am not much for it. I do sometimes, but not usually very wild Do you enact your sexual fantasies? My biggest I had was FFM. And that is frequent enough that it is no longer a fantasy What would you have done - tell my friend or not tell my friend? That is a problem, since nothing happened, maybe wait
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I fantasize at times but never fulfilled any! I would wait and tell friend if it happened a second time! If it was a pass, she could be making passes at others.
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She had a fantasy: to make a pass, and then some... You didn't help her fulfill it. So it remained just a fantasy for her. No use in informing anyone about this.
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Do you like fantasy and fantasizing? I certainly like fantasizing, but find that my fantasies are way too mundane for most to really consider a big deal. Vanilla sex with a particular woman may be all that I think about....it may or may not come true down the road some place. Do you enact your sexual fantasies? Thee are few that I really go out of my way to enact. I am not arrogant enough to push my darkest fantasies on anyone else....especially a female.
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1 - I enjoyed fantasy fictions when young, Ursula K. Le Guin or Roger Zelazny. Tolkein ... well it didn't last. He writes like a feft foot ... 2 - Oh, you mean THAT fantasies Well, does it count when, fulfilled, you still want to do them. In this case I still have heaps of them. If it doesn't, there's less and less, there are practices which not only do not excite me at all but even disgust me. For the rest of it ... well new gals, OK, but they often aren't willing, sigh.
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I'm sorry I did a spoiler; it's happened to me a few times!
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