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ON BEING A CUCKOLD  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
5/9/2015 10:45 am
ON BEING A CUCKOLD





A cuckold is a husband whose wife is unfaithful. Likewise, a cuckquean is a wife whose husband is unfaithful.

Though traditionally referring to the infidelity of a married and latterly an unmarried partner, more recently a cuckold also describes someone who takes sexual pleasure from imagining, hearing or seeing their partner having sex with other men.

I’ve never been a cuckold in the sense that I got off from my partner having sex with other men. I’ve seen my partner getting fucked by other men, but I was fucking other women at the same time. However, there have been two cuckolding experiences that I have encountered.

A while back, I befriended a couple and we had regular threesomes. Sex often involved the man being firmly tied up on my bed while I had sex with the woman in the bedroom. The man got very turned on and very frustrated because the woman never had sex with him while I was around; she just teased him by having sex with me while giving him a running commentary of what we were doing.

When I was part of a swinging couple, we met a couple who indulged in a bit of cuckoldry. She would regularly arrange for a man to come round to their home to have sex with her. While she was getting fucked, he would take himself down to the pub and have a couple pints of beer before heading back home, presumably to have lots of sloppy seconds sex!


Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences?
Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean?


Cuckold derives from the Old French word, cucuault, which is partly stemmed from the cuckoo, a bird who often lays her eggs in the nests of other birds for them to raise her offspring.

The term cuckold has long been recorded in Middle English literature, including the works of Geoffrey Chaucer and William Shakespeare. The female equivalent of cuckold, cuckquean, later appeared in English literature.

In many Western traditions, wearing the horns is often used as a metaphor to refer to someone being cuckolded. This metaphor stems from stags that lose their mates when defeated in a fight with another stag.

Below is an early nineteen-century French painting satirising cuckoldry. Also below is the August 2012 issue of the Cuckold Lifestyle magazine. How times change!






josh_199421 30M

5/9/2015 11:03 am

nice info


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
5/9/2015 11:42 am

Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences? I have not.

Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean? Not sure I would care for it.


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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/9/2015 12:02 pm

My late husband was unfaithful to me more than once. I didn't really care for it and it certainly did nothing for our sex life together.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/9/2015 1:15 pm

Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences? NO
Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean? NO

hugsssssssss V

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
5/9/2015 9:39 pm

NO! and NO! spunky!


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/10/2015 6:16 am

Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences?
No.
Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean?
Watching my partner have sex with someone else is an exciting idea but I think it's one of those things that's best kept as a fantasy. The humiliation aspect of cuckolding is a big turn off for me. There's also an element of domination of the male, and shaming, and those are not only a turn off sexually but they outright piss me off. I can't watch a cuck video from start to finish- that humiliation thing just puts me right off my feed. I wouldn't want to cruelly taunt my partner and and the idea of it being done to me could switch me from amorous to cold anger in seconds. I recognize that it's a game as practiced by some couples, but it's not a game I'd enjoy.

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
5/10/2015 6:30 am

Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences?
No, but I want too!!

Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean?
Yes!

One of my fantasies! It's on my bucket list!!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/12/2015 12:31 pm

Thanks for your kind words, and thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/12/2015 12:35 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences? I have not.

    Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean? Not sure I would care for it.

I wouldn't like to be a willing cuckold. I can't quite understand why anyone would, but people do so I need to get my head round that!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/12/2015 12:38 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    My late husband was unfaithful to me more than once. I didn't really care for it and it certainly did nothing for our sex life together.
Your comments don't appear (yet again) until I press quote.
I can well understand why it did little for your relationship with your husband. His loss!
Cuckolding just seems strange to me!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/12/2015 12:42 pm

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    I used to be really good friends both on here and privately with the cuckold husband who was known as 'evergreenstatewife'... He was a lovely guy who just couldn't satisfy his wife sexually but they loved/adored eachother and he was happy for her to have regular bulls who would have sex with her, often while he was in a nearby room (done with his full knowledge, he had to approve the bull but it was mutual between him and his wife) and he was often welcome to come into the room to clean both his wife and the bull off with his mouth after they were done. They seemed very happy until she commandeered his blog and then his following fell off and they seem to have left. He also stopped replying to my off-site emails. I miss him, such a sweet soul but I couldn't tolerate his wife. I don't think she approved of his friendship with me.

    I have no cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences.

    Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean... I'm not sure, the details would have to be mutually satisfactory and stop if either ceased to enjoy the arrangement.
When you get involved in a cuckolding couple, as you say, you just don't know what is going to happen or how it pans out!
With my experience, I had loads of abusive phone messages from him saying how angry he was with me and how I shouldn't have done what I did. But in person, it was quite different. That told me to stop because I'm not there to serve his fantasy or there to be his little plaything in his fantasy!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/12/2015 12:43 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences? NO
    Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean? NO

    hugsssssssss V
I'm right with you on this one; cuckolding or cuckqueaning is just too much!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/12/2015 12:45 pm

That's two fat no's! I'm going to change my questions so there'll be no two fat yes's from you!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:28 am

    Quoting  :

I'm sure some of my partners unknowingly cheated on me. i prefer not to know now!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:29 am

    Quoting  :

Cuckolding does sound exciting even if a little confusing!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:30 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences?
    No.
    Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean?
    Watching my partner have sex with someone else is an exciting idea but I think it's one of those things that's best kept as a fantasy. The humiliation aspect of cuckolding is a big turn off for me. There's also an element of domination of the male, and shaming, and those are not only a turn off sexually but they outright piss me off. I can't watch a cuck video from start to finish- that humiliation thing just puts me right off my feed. I wouldn't want to cruelly taunt my partner and and the idea of it being done to me could switch me from amorous to cold anger in seconds. I recognize that it's a game as practiced by some couples, but it's not a game I'd enjoy.
The humiliating side put me off as well. I'm never good with role-play!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:31 am

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    Have you ever had any cuckolding or cuckqueaning experiences?
    No, but I want too!!

    Have you been or could you be a cuckold or cuckquean?
    Yes!

    One of my fantasies! It's on my bucket list!!
I hope you'll report back on your experiences if and when they happen.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:33 am

    Quoting  :

I don't blame you for taking both cocks and I wouldn't stand in your way!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:34 am

    Quoting  :

Being the cuckold doesn't appeal to me!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/13/2015 8:35 am

    Quoting George_W_Johnson:
    I have never been in a truly cuckold situation, I do understand that for some people it is a turn on, and that btw them there is a bond that is important to their relationship
I've never fully understood the dynamics of a cuckolding relationship but each to their own!


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