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BEHIND  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
12/28/2014 11:44 am
BEHIND



I’ve got very behind in replying to comments left on my blog. My apologies to those who’ve kindly left comments on my blog posts to which I haven’t replied yet.

I do like to reply to all comments and I will get round to replying to all comments in the next few days. Thank you for your patience.

Sometimes I struggle to keep up with all that’s going on in blogland, whether it’s visiting other people’s blogs, commenting on other people’s blogs, posting my daily blogs and replying to comments on my blog.

I particularly struggle if I’m offline for some time and, when online, I’m faced with that sea of yellow!

If only, this site would pay bloggers to do what they do and then I could give up my job!

I guess I’ll have to make a choice - blog less or visit fewer blogs. Not replying to comments on my blog posts is not an option as that’s important to me.

If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog?
Do you struggle to keep up with blogland?
If so, what do you do to make things more manageable?






sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
12/28/2014 2:00 pm

I never knowing fail to respond to comments on my blog even the nasty comments....and I've had my share of them!

I find it hard to cope with the blogs at times.....when I get behind with my watched list I read all the posts but maybe only comment on the last one for each blogger.

I also don't blog every day now which helps a lot. It takes a lot of pressure off and blogging has become a pleasure for me again. There was a time when I worried if I didn't clear the watched list every day....now I just do what I can.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
12/28/2014 3:33 pm

If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog?
I try to.

Do you struggle to keep up with blogland?
I don't post every day, so no, not really. I read a a fair number of blogs and the comments there, but I have plenty of time, usually.

If so, what do you do to make things more manageable?
I have my favorites, and I read them first, if I can. But if I'm watching a blog it's because it's pretty much a favorite. Honestly though, there's occasionally a topic that I just can't think of anything to say about. This is a dating site, essentially, and I'm not dating! There are some very good blogs that deal with the vicissitudes of of connecting genitalia through using a site like this one and the vagaries of navigation around the site and its denizens. So even though they are well written and informative, there's really nothing there for me, mostly. A lot of the blogs deal with the deplorable state of the human condition, and that can be a fun topic! As long as it isn't one constant negative rant after another, I'm in. The best blogs for me are about the mundane daily doings of folks. Each of us has something exciting to say now and then, so every day there is some titillating thing to read about.

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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
12/28/2014 3:36 pm

If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? My goal is 100 0/0. But I have discovered a couple that I did not do that, so I better get my butt back in gear


Do you struggle to keep up with blogland? Constantly. This Christmas break seems to have slowed things down though


If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? I have started to respond to folks that are commenting and visiting. If it is not interactive, it is not fun


Please cum visit my blog,,,,,,,,,,,,pal334



veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
12/28/2014 4:09 pm

If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog?
I do reply to each comments...I think it is just good manners!

Do you struggle to keep up with blogland?
I have 30 blogs I watch....I can't comment on more then one comment per person a day....there are some people who blog numerous times a day...I just pick one I like and then I comment once.

If so, what do you do to make things more manageable?
I am selective who I watch and if people do not reply to my comments then I stop watching them...they have become too big. I also only comment 1x a day per blog I watch. I there have been many times when I am so busy, that I don't comment daily....but life happens! See ya, and Happy New Year!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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veryfunnycple64


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
12/28/2014 8:41 pm

I do my best to respond to every comment left on my blog. Sometimes it is overwhelming when I don't log on for a couple days to my watched list and the sea of yellow. I read all posts but might comment on just a couple if there are 5 or more waiting to be read. This time of year and everything going on kinda throws a wrench into logging on every day!


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
12/29/2014 3:33 am

If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? No! I am horrible at replying to everyone. I just don't have that kind of time. Some people have had issues with that and stopped reading my blog...eh...

Do you struggle to keep up with blogland? Not any more. I have to scale back my watch list.
If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? I have maybe 20 bloggers I read. If another catches my mind, I will add them to my watch list. If a blogger constantly writes negative, read only, sex blogs, poor me blogs, I just pass them by.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
12/29/2014 9:12 am

If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? I do try to make comments back in my blog even if I have fallen behind.
Do you struggle to keep up with blogland? sometimes the sea of yellow is way too much.
If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? Now if a blogger posts 10 times in one day.. I can't do it! You get one post from me. That is all the time I have. I tell bloggers to choose your post carefully... One post a day is good! You have to remember we have more then 100 watchers on our list and it is very difficult to get around to all of them in one day.

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
12/30/2014 1:49 pm

I always reply to all my comments on my blog...it's easy too because I don't get that many. I enjoy your blog because you always have interesting topics and sexy pics.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 11:40 am

Behinds are mmmmmmm!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 11:41 am

    Quoting  :

It's heartening that others are behind, though I'm slowly catching up!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 11:42 am

    Quoting kathynj:
    If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? I try

    Do you struggle to keep up with blogland?
    Always, especially since time is limited now due to being on holiday.

    If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? ????...
Once you return to the US, I hope you hit blogland with a blast!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 11:53 am

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    I strive to reply to 99.95% of all comments left on my blog... The .05% is accounted for by replies that the site deletes or where the comment was subsequent to a thread of communication between myself and another member who I felt should have the last word or in the past (when my blog was open to all), if another member left a comment who habitually ignored my comments on their blog, I would see fit to not dignify them with any response.

    I struggle to keep up with the politics and some of the in-fighting but am almost always devoid of that sea of yellow unless my phone credit runs out and I have no cash to get a recharge and can not access the internet until I apply a recharge.

    To keep things manageable, I only watch blogs that really interest me regardless of who watches mine. I never feel obligated to watch blogs that I don't find rivetting even friends blogs. I still try (when I have free time) to drop by on an occasional post of a watcher's blog when I have done all I feel I need to do on the blogs that I actively watch. I also place less pressure upon myself to blog by rote and blog when I think I have an interesting topic to present that my friends/watchers will find stimulating or funny. I also don't get much sleep but my best tip is not to watch more than 50 blogs and ideally not blogs that have bloggers that post multiple posts per day on a regular basis. This keeps the stress to a minimum. I hope these tips help.
I follow about 30-plus bloggers and I do blog daily, the latter is probably where I go wrong. I'm trying to convince myself to blog less but I like it! The world would stop if I didn't blog, wouldn't it!?


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 11:55 am

    Quoting  :

I think blogging is addictive!
And I very much value you as a friend here.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 11:57 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I never knowing fail to respond to comments on my blog even the nasty comments....and I've had my share of them!

    I find it hard to cope with the blogs at times.....when I get behind with my watched list I read all the posts but maybe only comment on the last one for each blogger.

    I also don't blog every day now which helps a lot. It takes a lot of pressure off and blogging has become a pleasure for me again. There was a time when I worried if I didn't clear the watched list every day....now I just do what I can.

Thankfully I've not received any nasty comments here. But I've received stupid comments but stupidity is easy to deal with!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 12:09 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog?
    I try to.

    Do you struggle to keep up with blogland?
    I don't post every day, so no, not really. I read a a fair number of blogs and the comments there, but I have plenty of time, usually.

    If so, what do you do to make things more manageable?
    I have my favorites, and I read them first, if I can. But if I'm watching a blog it's because it's pretty much a favorite. Honestly though, there's occasionally a topic that I just can't think of anything to say about. This is a dating site, essentially, and I'm not dating! There are some very good blogs that deal with the vicissitudes of of connecting genitalia through using a site like this one and the vagaries of navigation around the site and its denizens. So even though they are well written and informative, there's really nothing there for me, mostly. A lot of the blogs deal with the deplorable state of the human condition, and that can be a fun topic! As long as it isn't one constant negative rant after another, I'm in. The best blogs for me are about the mundane daily doings of folks. Each of us has something exciting to say now and then, so every day there is some titillating thing to read about.
My problem is that I've got into this one blog a day routine. I need to break it!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 12:13 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? My goal is 100 0/0. But I have discovered a couple that I did not do that, so I better get my butt back in gear


    Do you struggle to keep up with blogland? Constantly. This Christmas break seems to have slowed things down though


    If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? I have started to respond to folks that are commenting and visiting. If it is not interactive, it is not fun
You are a fantastic blogger in the sense you blog regularly - it's late-mornings for me when you blog - and you reply to blog comments straightaway.
I always leave the replies for a few days but now it's got to many days!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 12:15 pm

    Quoting  :

I occasionally do culls of blogs I watch. Some bloggers here are very prolific. I'm a once-a-day blogger but some people are five times a day. Why? I guess it's therapy!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 12:17 pm

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog?
    I do reply to each comments...I think it is just good manners!

    Do you struggle to keep up with blogland?
    I have 30 blogs I watch....I can't comment on more then one comment per person a day....there are some people who blog numerous times a day...I just pick one I like and then I comment once.

    If so, what do you do to make things more manageable?
    I am selective who I watch and if people do not reply to my comments then I stop watching them...they have become too big. I also only comment 1x a day per blog I watch. I there have been many times when I am so busy, that I don't comment daily....but life happens! See ya, and Happy New Year!
I can't fully understand why people blog more than once a day. Perhaps it's the Andy Warhol thing that we can all be famous!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 12:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I love good routines, I hate bad routines!
I'm ordering an Indian curry takeway tonight, that's a good routine!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/3/2015 12:26 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    I do my best to respond to every comment left on my blog. Sometimes it is overwhelming when I don't log on for a couple days to my watched list and the sea of yellow. I read all posts but might comment on just a couple if there are 5 or more waiting to be read. This time of year and everything going on kinda throws a wrench into logging on every day!
I think the site could do something with sea of yellow. Ban the colour!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/4/2015 1:26 am

    Quoting grayblue1:
    Spunk.....I am not dealing with the amount of comments you are dealing with......but I do try to answer everyone who took the time to reply...

    Blue......
I'm very slowly catching up - only a week behind with replying to comments now!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/4/2015 1:28 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? No! I am horrible at replying to everyone. I just don't have that kind of time. Some people have had issues with that and stopped reading my blog...eh...

    Do you struggle to keep up with blogland? Not any more. I have to scale back my watch list.
    If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? I have maybe 20 bloggers I read. If another catches my mind, I will add them to my watch list. If a blogger constantly writes negative, read only, sex blogs, poor me blogs, I just pass them by.
I think I watch about 40 bloggers and some are very prolific!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/4/2015 1:29 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    If you blog, do you reply to all comments left on your blog? I do try to make comments back in my blog even if I have fallen behind.
    Do you struggle to keep up with blogland? sometimes the sea of yellow is way too much.
    If so, what do you do to make things more manageable? Now if a blogger posts 10 times in one day.. I can't do it! You get one post from me. That is all the time I have. I tell bloggers to choose your post carefully... One post a day is good! You have to remember we have more then 100 watchers on our list and it is very difficult to get around to all of them in one day.
I don't fully understand why a few bloggers post several blogs a day.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/4/2015 1:30 am

    Quoting pacnwlover42:
    I always reply to all my comments on my blog...it's easy too because I don't get that many. I enjoy your blog because you always have interesting topics and sexy pics.
Thanks for your kind words. I'm happy that you enjoy my blog.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/4/2015 1:31 am

    Quoting  :

It's not that I feel obliged; it's because I want to reply to comments received. But I think I will cut down on how many blogs I post a little.


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