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I'M NERVOUS ABOUT GIVING ORAL SEX
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I'M NERVOUS ABOUT GIVING ORAL SEX  "I’m nervous about giving oral sex", so said a man writing about his worries of giving oral sex to his new girlfriend in a letter to The Times’ agony aunt, Suzi Godson. Suzi Godson’s advice was that the "combination of warmth, wetness, softness and movement make oral sex an extremely sensuous experience" and, together with the "rapid and consistent stimulation of the clitoris", oral sex "is the best way of bringing a woman to orgasm". If only I had I read her advice when I was younger. I was a little afraid of giving oral sex to a woman. My 'technique' involved wiggling my tongue around and, if she made noises of enjoyment while getting wetter, I would then just carry on wiggling my tongue until such time I felt it was reasonable to stop and engage in penetrative sex. Now I know why no woman has ever complemented me on my oral sex technique! Suzi Godson recommended Ian Kerner’s book She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, in which his two important rules for oral sex are "Don’t stop" and "Don’t bite". Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? In his 1953 book Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, Alfred Kinsey found that only 1 to 2 per cent of women had experienced oral sex. The 2013 UK National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles found that 80 per cent of women had experienced oral sex in the past year. It seems oral sex has become an epidemic!  |
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LOL HHHMMM I think we dated...LOL Unfortunately, MB is awful at oral sex...luckily I cum more often vaginally. Best advice, don't think any noise she makes means she is enjoying it. She just may be too polite to express that she thinks her clit is bleeding because you keep grinding your teeth into it.
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Let us suppose that you are what you eat. This isn't so bad as it would seem at first blush. Becoming a pussy as a result of eating pussy would then enable you to think like a pussy and therefore know what a pussy likes, thus making you better at eating pussy, and so on and so on. The cycle of life. Proper wiggling can indeed be an effective technique...if done properly. My advice would be bon appetit! I have never written to any aunt. I apologize. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Sorry but tongue wiggling just isn't good enough. My advice is treat her gently at first, watch your teeth, be responsive to her movements and learn to love it. No letters to an Agony Aunt from me.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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Oral sex is the bomb! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? It is a part , but there is so much more to it What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? Practice and listen to her / him as appropriate Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? No
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? It's only a very small part, although most women I've written the alphabet or secret messages on their clits with my tongue seem to enjoy that.  What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? Communications with your partner is the key because each one is different and likes different things. The one thing I've found though is that you need to vary the speed, strength and intensity of what you are doing. Don't spend too long stimulating just one area for a long time but move around and explore to discover where else she is sensitive and will receive pleasure from what you are doing. Spending too much time on one area can cause it to either become numb or to become too sensitive which can be painful, either of which can cause her to lose her arousal. Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? No.
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I would ask the woman you are having oral sex to tell you when she likes it and go from there. that I how my hubby learned to satisfy me he would do what I tols him felt good, and did variations of it. I understand how it can be intimating. I was scared out of my mind the first time I gave a blow job. 4  if love isn't the answer, than I misunderstood the question
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LOL HHHMMM I think we dated...LOL Unfortunately, MB is awful at oral sex...luckily I cum more often vaginally. Best advice, don't think any noise she makes means she is enjoying it. She just may be too polite to express that she thinks her clit is bleeding because you keep grinding your teeth into it. 
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? There is more to it than that! What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? Listen to the woman's reactions! Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? No!
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? yes, among other things What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? easy does it, NO Biting and don't suck too hard either, pain isn't sexy, well for some it is, not me Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? Never
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I've never thought of a pussy as a smörgåsbord. Now I know where I've been going wrong!
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Let us suppose that you are what you eat. This isn't so bad as it would seem at first blush. Becoming a pussy as a result of eating pussy would then enable you to think like a pussy and therefore know what a pussy likes, thus making you better at eating pussy, and so on and so on. The cycle of life. Proper wiggling can indeed be an effective technique...if done properly. My advice would be bon appetit! I have never written to any aunt. I apologize.
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Communication is always a good thing. Now I've got to learn to talk (and listen)!
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Sorry but tongue wiggling just isn't good enough. My advice is treat her gently at first, watch your teeth, be responsive to her movements and learn to love it. No letters to an Agony Aunt from me.
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Dear Sens Your cock obsession seems very deep-rooted and disturbing. May I suggest that you undertake therapy immediately. I do suggest a desensitisation programme as illustrated below. If that doesn't work, there is a local Cocks Anonymous group you can join. I'm sending you a leaflet on how you can deal with this problem. Your problem clearly requires immediate attention. It is good that you at last recognise your cock obsession as a problem; that's a good start to solving the problem. Yours Aunt Spunky [image]
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Dear Sens I've signed you up to an extensive desensitisation programme. However, I do advise you to come prepared for a large dose of desensitisation. I'm getting quite worried about your condition as you seem to see cocks everywhere. I suggest you exercise more. Swimming is a very therapeutic exercise and I can highly recommend this swimming pool near you.. Yours Aunt Spunky
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I must practice more. I think I could probably give oral sex better to a man than a woman. For me, women are mysterious compared to men!
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Oral sex is the bomb!
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? It is a part , but there is so much more to it What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? Practice and listen to her / him as appropriate Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? No
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? It's obvously part of it but I ask you, if a woman sucking your cock only moved her tongue from side to side on the tip, would you feel that you were getting a really pleasurable experience or would it all be a bit ho-hum? What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? None... They should figure it out between themself and each new partner... Communicate! Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? Yes. I didn't get a reply. I once wrote a spoof letter to an agony aunt and I got no reply either!
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I will take your advice and be more creative with my tongue!
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At least I'm not alone!
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That's all good advice; I need to practice more!
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Now bleeding after oral sex seems going too far but I'm a bit squeamish with blood!
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Do you think tongue-wiggling constitutes an oral sex technique? It's only a very small part, although most women I've written the alphabet or secret messages on their clits with my tongue seem to enjoy that. What advice would you give someone about the art of oral sex? Communications with your partner is the key because each one is different and likes different things. The one thing I've found though is that you need to vary the speed, strength and intensity of what you are doing. Don't spend too long stimulating just one area for a long time but move around and explore to discover where else she is sensitive and will receive pleasure from what you are doing. Spending too much time on one area can cause it to either become numb or to become too sensitive which can be painful, either of which can cause her to lose her arousal. Have you ever written a letter to an agony aunt? No.
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