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UP YOUR BUM  After a recent conversation, I realise I haven’t had anal sex for a while. I like anal sex but it’s not always something that just happens. Anal sex, compared to many sex acts, involves a little preparation. As the cliché goes, “fail to prepare, prepare to fail”! Here’s Sarah Stefanson’s advice about anal sex: use dark sheets, don’t over-douche, relax her [sic], anal foreplay, lube up, use protection. I don’t know who Sarah Stefanson is either, but her advice seems like good advice to me. Do you like anal sex? If so, what advice would you give to people about anal sex? If you like anal sex, what is it that you like about it? If you don’t like anal sex, what is it that you don’t like about it? In 1998, the porn star Brooke Ashley - see below - broke the anal sex world record by having anal sex 50 times in an anal gangbang.  |
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My wife and I love having anal sex. It doesn't happen every time- I guess that qualifies it as a special treat! The advice you quoted in your post is good. Patient foreplay is the key- gentle stretching taken very slowly. The more often you do it the quicker you can plunge right in. Once a woman gets comfortable with it she knows just how and when to relax and clench. There are different nerve endings involved in this than in vaginal intercourse and the orgasm can be intense. There are psychological pluses too- a taboo is being transgressed, you're letting go and giving in to lust. Ass feels different for a male. The fit is more snug and the tissue has a unique feel. A knowledgeable woman can take control and masturbate that cock with her sphincter....and that is wildly intense! Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Do you like anal sex? Yes! If so, what advice would you give to people about anal sex? Take it slow and easy...no forcing! If you like anal sex, what is it that you like about it? I like the tightness! If you don’t like anal sex, what is it that you don’t like about it? N/A “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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Do you like anal sex? I do, but is not a priority. All dependent on her desires If so, what advice would you give to people about anal sex? Slow and careful If you like anal sex, what is it that you like about it? Very tight, enjoy the "taboo" sensations If you don’t like anal sex, what is it that you don’t like about it? N/A
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I can sum up all your questions with one answer....."Never" had it! 
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My wife and I love having anal sex. It doesn't happen every time- I guess that qualifies it as a special treat! The advice you quoted in your post is good. Patient foreplay is the key- gentle stretching taken very slowly. The more often you do it the quicker you can plunge right in. Once a woman gets comfortable with it she knows just how and when to relax and clench. There are different nerve endings involved in this than in vaginal intercourse and the orgasm can be intense. There are psychological pluses too- a taboo is being transgressed, you're letting go and giving in to lust. Ass feels different for a male. The fit is more snug and the tissue has a unique feel. A knowledgeable woman can take control and masturbate that cock with her sphincter....and that is wildly intense! 
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Do you like anal sex? Yes! If so, what advice would you give to people about anal sex? Take it slow and easy...no forcing! If you like anal sex, what is it that you like about it? I like the tightness! If you don’t like anal sex, what is it that you don’t like about it? N/A
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Do you like anal sex? If so, what advice would you give to people about anal sex? If you like anal sex, what is it that you like about it? If you don’t like anal sex, what is it that you don’t like about it? Sorry, I have no point of reference. I did try once, well more than once, just ain't happening. Although kzooman gives some good advice and sumthin to think about.
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The self-proclaimed anal sex expert Sarah Stefanson didn't go into any detail about over-doucheing. Why worry about such trivial details! 
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Do you like anal sex? I do, but is not a priority. All dependent on her desires If so, what advice would you give to people about anal sex? Slow and careful If you like anal sex, what is it that you like about it? Very tight, enjoy the "taboo" sensations If you don’t like anal sex, what is it that you don’t like about it? N/A
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The advice above my Sarah Stefanson is laughable... Use dark sheets, shit will show up on any sheet colour as darker or lighter, if the person being cornholed hasn't adequately evacuated their bowels so this advice is facile. There is no such thing as over-douching but a person must give nearly two hours between douching and penetration to give time for all the brown water to be cleared out of the system. Relax her... What if the person about to be poked isn't a her, a man's anus needs just as much preparation before penetration as a woman's... There seems to be a ludicrous misconception that because men have a prostate that at the sight of a cock, their arse just falls open. Not true! Anal foreplay isn't always necessary if the person helps to relax their sphincter by using some gentle stretching methods in the bath during the douching process. This relieves the need for 'anal foreplay' of rimming and fingering and poking toys in to loosen the person up immediately prior to penetration with live meat. A good lube job is the only good advice she has given, she neglected to say to enter slowly and listen to instruction from the person being entered... Use protection is an option, not a necessity, even with a new partner. It's fine if the penetrator is poo-phobic but as protection from STDs, it is not much here nor there. I have had a lot of "unprotected" anal sex with new partners and I keep getting tested for STDs every 3 months and I get a clear result every time. Diseases are usually spread through group sex activities where several partners have introduced antibodies into the anus and brough about disaster. I am aware how irresponsible my behaviour and advice sounds but doctors and condom companies are over-stating the dangers because of financial gain, not genuine health reasons. Do you like anal sex? I can take it or leave it. I never crave it but with some partners who know what they are doing it can be very pleasant. As to the other questions, I think I have given enough clues. I don't like the misconceptions surrounding anal sex... Too much b.s, not enough facts. My advice about anal sex is in the initial portion of my answer. As I say, I neither love or hate it but I wish it was the option rather than the substitute for the sort of sex my body craves.
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I prefer vaginal sex over anal sex, but anal sex is often a good treat now and then.
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Sarah Stefanson totally forgot about men, both homosexual and heterosexual, who are on the receiving end of have anal sex.
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It took me a few tries before I started to enjoy anal sex.
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Relaxation is key for anal sex, but it's not for everybody.
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I can sum up all your questions with one answer....."Never" had it!
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