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TOP TIPS  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
8/4/2014 9:51 am
TOP TIPS



Here in the UK, I regularly give a 10 per cent tip to waiters and waitresses, taxi drivers and hairdressers unless the service is bad. Strippers and golf caddies also get tipped here, so I've been told.

While abroad, I usually also tip hotel porters, hotel chambermaids, bar staff, toilet attendants and guides.

A recent TripAdvisor survey found that Americans and Germans were the best tippers, and that Italians and French were the worst tippers. Tipping customs– who you tip, what you tip and how you tip - vary widely across the world.

North America is where people tip the most - a 15-20 per cent tip is often seen as obligatory. On my first night in New York, I was reprimanded by a barman for only tipping 10 per cent for serving two beers!

Tipping in Europe is less widespread and generous than in North America. In Scandinavian countries, tipping is not a custom. In other European countries (eg Germany, Netherlands), rounding-up the bill to include a 5-10 per cent tip is common. In some European countries (eg France, Italy), many restaurants often add a service charge to the bill, though a small tip is left if the service is very good.

In Japan and China (not Hong Kong), there is no tipping tradition and a tip may even be regarded as an insult. In Australia, a ten per cent tip is increasingly the norm at restaurants for good service; but in New Zealand, tipping is not yet the norm.

In parts of Africa, tipping is a necessity just to get by. When I visited Zimbabwe, I had to tip almost anyone. I had to tip airport security officials for the pleasure of searching my suitcase and I had to tip a group of teenagers for looking after my parked car!

Tipping is sometimes a form of bribery; it’s called dash in Zimbabwe. If I didn’t tip the airport staff, I would have been detained so long that I’d miss my flight. And if I hadn’t tipped the youngsters, my car wouldn’t have been roadworthy on my return.

My ‘tips’ for making my flight and having a car to drive was very good value-for-money to me at the time. Dash helps poor people also get by.

Who do you tip and how much do you tip?
Do you tip more when you are abroad?
Have you ever paid a bribe to someone?


Tips gratefully received!



sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/4/2014 10:06 am

In Canada normally around the 10% mark.. Any where else we travel try to keep it the same amount. Now if we are at a resort and service is excellent they get more money.. Way these resorts work they live on there tips in Mexico as their daily earns are very low from the Company.. hugssssssssssss V

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lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/4/2014 10:34 am

1. Yes, normally around 10%, depending on the service.
2. Only in the US where it's an integral part of earnings, and only when the service merits it.
3. Yes, many times, normally border guards or police at check points, sometimes the bribe will range from a biro pen to £10. In some cultures it's the norm.


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
8/4/2014 4:08 pm

Who do you tip and how much do you tip? I tip generously for good service. When the "tip " is included in the bill, I strike it out, since management will take part of it and tip the server directly. That causes lively discussions with management, but I don't mind

Do you tip more when you are abroad? I try to, based on their customs

Have you ever paid a bribe to someone? Sometimes "greasing the palm" is necessary


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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
8/4/2014 10:19 pm

Here, I pay 15% or better, while the wife says 20%...I tip housekeeping when staying in hotels- they seen to do those little extra things (no- not sexual)
I have tried to bribe the wife!!


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
8/5/2014 1:47 pm

I tip anyone in the service industry usually about 10-15% and I always give it to the staff concerned personally in cash. I don't travel much so I have little experience of other countries.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
8/6/2014 12:01 pm

When my children were younger, to teach them the value of service, we would discuss what should be tipped to our wait staff. Sometimes, if the wait staff were very friendly, we would include them in the discussion. This has made my children realize the cost of doing business and the cost of being friendly. The staff that have joined our conversations were always very helpful and never insinuated their person plights. Instead they would answer questions and give valuable input. My children and I, most often tip 15-20% unless they are exceptional or horrible.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:31 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    In Canada normally around the 10% mark.. Any where else we travel try to keep it the same amount. Now if we are at a resort and service is excellent they get more money.. Way these resorts work they live on there tips in Mexico as their daily earns are very low from the Company.. hugssssssssssss V
Like you, I tend to tip well when abroad in poorer countries.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:32 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. Yes, normally around 10%, depending on the service.
    2. Only in the US where it's an integral part of earnings, and only when the service merits it.
    3. Yes, many times, normally border guards or police at check points, sometimes the bribe will range from a biro pen to £10. In some cultures it's the norm.
In some African countries, I find football shirts also work well.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:34 am

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    I have only ever tipped (monetarily, never the other way) on very rare occasions. In Australia tipping isn't customary and due to the level of wages, generally considered unnecessary. I have tipped taxi drivers for assistance with heavy bags or good wait staff in the classier restaurants that I very rarely visit and I used to regularly tip a favourite barman at one of my favourite pubs, he was good looking, extra polite and often served me doubles for the price of a single...

    I've never been abroad or a broad...

    If someone tries to bribe me, they're out of luck... I won't pay (or a ransom for that matter).
I have been offered a bribe at work, which I declined. But no one has tipped me yet!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:35 am

    Quoting  :

The 'When in Rome' rule is always good when travelling abroad.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:36 am

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I hope you got what you wanted from that man in Mexico!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:38 am

    Quoting apollorising2021:
    Who do you tip and how much do you tip?
    In Californication it's 15%
    Do you tip more when you are abroad?
    I find out what is the going rate and tip that!
    Have you ever paid a bribe to someone?
    Yes, at a restaurant to get a better table location!
I had to pay a bribe once to the doormen outside a club just to be let in. What a racket!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:39 am

    Quoting  :

It's always good to have lubrication at hand!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:41 am

    Quoting pal334:
    Who do you tip and how much do you tip? I tip generously for good service. When the "tip " is included in the bill, I strike it out, since management will take part of it and tip the server directly. That causes lively discussions with management, but I don't mind

    Do you tip more when you are abroad? I try to, based on their customs

    Have you ever paid a bribe to someone? Sometimes "greasing the palm" is necessary
I don't like service charges added to the bill; and cover and corkage charges are even worse at restaurants.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:43 am

    Quoting  :

I went to Zimbabwe in the 1990s. It was quite safe; I'm not sure if it's so safe now.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:44 am

    Quoting  :

I always get stuck when I first arrive abroad as I have no loose change to tip anyone!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:45 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    Here, I pay 15% or better, while the wife says 20%...I tip housekeeping when staying in hotels- they seen to do those little extra things (no- not sexual)
    I have tried to bribe the wife!!
I hope your wife is now accepting your bribes!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:46 am

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That's one dedicated taxi driver you encountered in India!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:49 am

    Quoting  :

I take your word that tipping is not the norm in Australia. I had just read an article in a travel magazine saying that tipping has become more common in Australian restaurants.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:50 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I tip anyone in the service industry usually about 10-15% and I always give it to the staff concerned personally in cash. I don't travel much so I have little experience of other countries.
I also always try and tip with cash.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/7/2014 2:51 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    When my children were younger, to teach them the value of service, we would discuss what should be tipped to our wait staff. Sometimes, if the wait staff were very friendly, we would include them in the discussion. This has made my children realize the cost of doing business and the cost of being friendly. The staff that have joined our conversations were always very helpful and never insinuated their person plights. Instead they would answer questions and give valuable input. My children and I, most often tip 15-20% unless they are exceptional or horrible.
You brought your children up well.


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