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TURN ON AND TURN OFF  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
7/17/2014 10:35 am
TURN ON AND TURN OFF



Last night I had a conversation with my new girlfriend about the little things that really turn us on, plus the little things that turn us off.

We decided to ignore people’s bodies and personalities, admittedly big turn-ons and turn-offs, to focus on those little things that just do it (or just don’t).

My turn-ons are anklets, denim jeans, glasses, clit rings, nipple rings, freckles, lipstick, jumpers (or sweaters), frizzy hair, pyjamas, disco music playing, wedge shoes, sexual innuendo, leather, smiles, laughter, cleavage and, just ahead of the rest, fishnet.

And my turn-offs are earrings, bras, thongs, belly bars, basques, negligees, false eyelashes, hippy dresses, tights, a brightly lit room, dungarees, PVC, vibrators, white shoes, split-crotch panties, bob cuts, onesies and, well ahead of the rest, leggings (especially with camel toe).

I totally accept there’s no rhyme-and-reason to my list. Turn-ons and turn-offs are often beyond logic. I like cleavage but not bras!

What are the little things that turn you on?
And what are the little things that turn you off?




lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/17/2014 10:49 am

1. Little turn-ons - too many to mention.
2. Little turn-offs - still too many, but also, that legging pic would be one, as would Tracey Emin and her art.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
7/17/2014 11:05 am

You photo isn't a turn on for me!
I like smiles, lipstick, lingerie, fishnet ans a "hole" lot more!
I am turned off of angery looks!


Smokeblower 67M
610 posts
7/17/2014 11:43 am

The short list:
Turn-ons: with ya on fishnets and freckles. Also thin dresses with nothing underneath, eye gazing, long nipples, warm and thick lips - both kinds of lips
Turn-offs: with ya on bras. And underwear in general. fear. flabby bellies.


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
7/17/2014 12:14 pm

Turn off,, not visual, but it is a projection of arrogance..
Turn on, as you said anklets, but newly discovered is waist chains


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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/17/2014 3:49 pm

Turn on for sure. very sexy pic.. hugs V I have always loved fishnet stockings.. hugs V

Turn off.. Someone that doesn't keep themselves clean.. rude..

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canyaz 56F
17128 posts
7/18/2014 4:07 am

I have a thing for men's hands. They can be so sexy.
Turn off; attitude, poor grooming habits, bad teeth.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
7/19/2014 3:43 pm

Turn ons...."crinkly" eyes, smiles, a gentle voice, nice hands and nails.

Turn offs....brashness, grumpiness, rudeness.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:01 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. Little turn-ons - too many to mention.
    2. Little turn-offs - still too many, but also, that legging pic would be one, as would Tracey Emin and her art.
Tracey Emin's art doesn't do anything for me either. I'm just amazed people pay silly money for that type of art.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:03 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    You photo isn't a turn on for me!
    I like smiles, lipstick, lingerie, fishnet ans a "hole" lot more!
    I am turned off of angery looks!
Angry looks are never a good sign for sex (or anything else)!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:04 am

    Quoting Smokeblower:
    The short list:
    Turn-ons: with ya on fishnets and freckles. Also thin dresses with nothing underneath, eye gazing, long nipples, warm and thick lips - both kinds of lips
    Turn-offs: with ya on bras. And underwear in general. fear. flabby bellies.
Nipples are a massive turn-on for me.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:15 am

    Quoting  :

That's an interesting list of turn-ons and turn-offs. I'm wondering why a helicopter's on the list and I'm particularly wondering where an average-sized cock would be on the list!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:16 am

    Quoting pal334:
    Turn off,, not visual, but it is a projection of arrogance..
    Turn on, as you said anklets, but newly discovered is waist chains


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Nice photo. I've not seen a waist chain in action ... yet.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:17 am

    Quoting  :

A smile goes a very long way.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:18 am

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    Turn ons include (but are not limited to) the following: facial stubble (especially a few days long), full-face smiles, good hygiene, good grooming, knee-length boardshorts, boxer briefs, a striding, purposeful walk, beautifully modulated voices, skilful kisser.

    Turn offs include (but are not limited to) the following: halitosis, poor grooming, micro-shorts, thongs (footwear or underwear), Speedos, slip-on shoes, chain-smoking, drunkenness, unruly hair, Technicolor clothing with busy patterns, exaggeratedly-deep voices, man-bags, mincing, scarves, nail polish, bling (a ring is fine, so is an earring or some piercings but bracelets and neck chains on men is just wrong, crucifixes accepted), hairpieces, no body hair, high-pitched or sarcastic laugh.
That's an interesting list. The headquarters of Speedos is in Nottingham. Mincing is a turn-off for me as well.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:20 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Turn on for sure. very sexy pic.. hugs V I have always loved fishnet stockings.. hugs V

    Turn off.. Someone that doesn't keep themselves clean.. rude..
There's two of my big turn-ons on the photo you posted. How frustrating it's only a photo!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:21 am

    Quoting  :

You're right, arrogance is a big turn-off.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:21 am

Many thanks tantric.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:22 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    I have a thing for men's hands. They can be so sexy.
    Turn off; attitude, poor grooming habits, bad teeth.
I'm now looking at my hands - I definitely haven't got piano fingers!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 11:23 am

    Quoting  :

I'm not so sure about belly buttons, all depends whether an in-er or out-er!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 12:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Arrogance is probably one of the biggest turn-offs going.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 12:10 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Turn ons...."crinkly" eyes, smiles, a gentle voice, nice hands and nails.

    Turn offs....brashness, grumpiness, rudeness.

I love crinkly eyes too.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 12:12 pm

    Quoting  :

I have only about ten hairs on my chest, and they tend to be more on one side than the other!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 12:13 pm

    Quoting  :

You are the first person I've come across who find boxer briefs sexy. I'm going to look at them in a different light now!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/21/2014 12:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Lists as a turn-off, that's interesting! I used to do loads of lists but I've now ditched that servitude.


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