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STRESSED SEX  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
7/13/2014 8:06 am
STRESSED SEX



It’s long been known that stress inhibits sex but that sex relieves stress - a classic Catch-22 situation!

One sex counsellor, Suzi Godson, wrote: “We all have our own ways of dealing with stress. Some choose yoga, others choose vodka, but the absolute best way to deal with stress is to have sex.”

The American sex therapist Laura Berman, who hosts the Oprah Winfrey Network television show, In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman, found that couples who kiss and cuddle regularly are eight times less likely to be stressed or depressed.

Another study, published in the Psychosomatic Medicine journal, measured the levels of stress of 51 cohabiting and working couples. The researchers, led by Dr Beate Ditzen of the University of Zurich, found that after just one week the more couples had physical affection together, the less stress they felt.

But with both studies, I’m unclear what came first - more sex that led to less stress or less stress that led to more sex!

How well do you deal with stress?
How do you relieve stress?


I am quite stressed at the moment - mainly work. Also I have some serious dental treatment tomorrow - my two implants are going to be fitted. The dentist has advised me to take a companion with me to the dental clinic - that means it’s going to be bad, doesn’t it!? Hit the wine I say!

When stressed I often think of The Comsat Angels’ Independence Day song, two lines of the song go:
I can't relax cause I haven't done a thing
And I can't do a thing cause I can't relax



lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
7/13/2014 8:15 am

My wife has dental work done (crowns, root canals, extractions) "without freezing" No way in hell will I do that!!


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
7/13/2014 11:10 am

After snakes, Dental work is something that terrifies me. I always get knocked out for it. If sex is not available, and I feel stressed, I listen to music

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
7/13/2014 11:56 am

I think I deal with stress quite well....I either have a long soak in a bath or I listen to some of my favourite music.

However I do NOT deal with the dentist well....I am like a scared rabbit just thinking about a visit.

Good Luck.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/13/2014 2:39 pm

Still watching the final game.. It went into over time. so I am now taping it.. Will see who won shortly! Sex is the best way to relieve stress hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/13/2014 2:39 pm

PS another thing I like to do is go for a long run! Always helps clear my head as well..

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


Annie_V 54F

7/14/2014 4:02 am

definitely sex. And if i cant get that a walk with my dog in the bush
Good luck at the dentist

An orgasm a day , makes you so much happier at work and play


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
7/15/2014 4:11 am

I know I sleep better after an orgasm or two...

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:43 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    My wife has dental work done (crowns, root canals, extractions) "without freezing" No way in hell will I do that!!
Your wife is very brave. I had lots of freezing for my dental treatment.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:45 am

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    Lovely S, I really hope your implant fitting goes well and less painfully than you fear tomorrow *verywarmhugs2U*

    How well I deal with stress depends strongly upon the cause and nature of the stress and what possible means of resolution there is/are to it.

    Often stress causes me to smash shit up and behave like a rampaging psychopath. Due to some past brain injuries, I have limited coping mechanisms when I don't have the emotional support that I need. Fact!
Having supportive and understanding friends around is always good in stressful situations.
My face is a little swollen and sore. I have to take about 15 tablets a day still. Stitches are still in my mouth until next week when hopefully the implants will be fitted. Thanks for asking.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:47 am

    Quoting  :

The dentist has just prepared the foundations for the implants to be fitted next week. My mouth is a little sore and swollen but it's bearable (for a man!).


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:48 am

    Quoting pal334:
    After snakes, Dental work is something that terrifies me. I always get knocked out for it. If sex is not available, and I feel stressed, I listen to music
Music is indeed good for relieving stress, though perhaps not heavy metal and music.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:49 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I think I deal with stress quite well....I either have a long soak in a bath or I listen to some of my favourite music.

    However I do NOT deal with the dentist well....I am like a scared rabbit just thinking about a visit.

    Good Luck.

Thanks, the dental visit went okay though I'm back next week.
A long soak in the bath is my favourite way of de-stressing myself.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:50 am

But sometimes I'm too stressed to fuck!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:52 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Still watching the final game.. It went into over time. so I am now taping it.. Will see who won shortly! Sex is the best way to relieve stress hugs V
Sex is good to alleviate stress, so are looking at the sexy pictures and reading your sexy stories that you post in blogland.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 3:53 am

    Quoting grayblue1:
    I assume we are talking about dental implants...Spunk...I had four done to replace my teeth from my Lacrosse days at school...a good surgeon will give you a good pain killer when it is done ...and regardless what you have heard ..the nurse will not blow you during the procedure.....

    Blue...
I was well frozen by the dentist and he sent me home with lots of painkillers. It went okay despite the nurse not giving me any special attention!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 4:34 am

    Quoting  :

The chicken/egg scenario, as you say, is very much like the stress/sex dilemma. In the end, I was too groggy to want sex after the dentist's visit.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 4:35 am

    Quoting Annie_V:
    definitely sex. And if i cant get that a walk with my dog in the bush
    Good luck at the dentist
The dental appointment went okay, though I'm back again next week. I'm getting to know my dentist very well. He keeps talking to me while he's working on my mouth when I can't reply!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 4:36 am

    Quoting  :

Many thanks, a blowjob would certainly help!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 4:37 am

    Quoting  :

In the end I went alone to the dentist as I got a taxi back home.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/17/2014 4:38 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    I know I sleep better after an orgasm or two...
Orgasms are foolproof for getting to sleep!


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