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HOT LESBIANS  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
5/12/2014 11:15 am
HOT LESBIANS



I’ve just read the ‘problem page’ in a newspaper. They’re not called agony aunts anymore; they’re counsellors!

The problem was from a middle-aged woman who was dating a much younger man. Her boyfriend was surprised to hear that she had never kissed another woman and she wanted to know whether she was “unusual”. The counsellor Suzi Godson replied “No, you are not unusual and yes, it is a generational thing.”

A Cosmopolitan survey found that 54 per cent of women aged between 18 and 24 had kissed another woman, but only 43 per cent of women aged between 25 and 34 had done so. Another Cosmopolitan survey found that 71 per cent of men would find it “hot” if they saw their female partner kiss another woman. ‘Girl-on-girl’, it seems, is a staple male fantasy.

In their 2009 book, Hot Lesbians, Sue Jackson and Tamsyn Gilbertson argued that much ‘girl-on-girl’ sex is actually heterosexual sex. Women having same-sex are ultimately having sex through women for men, because many men get off watching ‘girl-on-girl’ sex.

In a 2012 article in the journal Psychology of Women Quarterly, Megan Yost and Lauren McCarthy revealed that one-third of female university students had “kissed or made out with someone of the same sex at a party”, but nearly all the young women who had kissed another woman did so either to please their male partner or to get noticed by males at the party.

Have you ever kissed passionately someone of the same sex?
Do you get turned on, or would you get turned on, by your partner having same-sex?
Why are there far more women describing themselves bisexual/bicurious than men on this site?




sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/12/2014 11:18 am

Spunk how about on my wish list does that count! I think it would be hot! hugs V

They say in my dreams..

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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
5/12/2014 11:24 am

No interest in me being involved with same sex. Two of my FWBs are bisexual and I enjoy being with and watching them together.

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
5/12/2014 11:29 am

I find your photo hot, but not with the ropes..The ropes to me, mean it is forced upon them and I'd rather see them hot for each other!


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/12/2014 1:26 pm

OMG you do ask some very personal questions young man!!!! Phew.


Yes I have passionately kissed two women in my life....more than once. I have had oral sex with both of them and enjoyed it at the time.

I have also had MFM threesums and found it turning on but there was no kissing or penetration between the men.

As to your third question....I haven't a clue.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


partygald 41F
1963 posts
5/12/2014 9:42 pm

Well, I admit to be bisexual because I have relationships with both women and men. It's not to get attention or to attract attention. I guess It's a little different for me too cos I started with women all those years ago before opening up my life physically and emotionally with men. And yea, most, if not all the guys I've known and spoke to readily admit to having some sort of girl-on-girl fantasy. I don't really get it but hey, whatever rocks your socks right?


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
5/13/2014 4:21 am

I have had sex with women...to me, it is just a lot of foreplay. I need a hard cock (real hot blooded one attached to a man) .I watched my former husband have sex with men...I was not turned on. I realized most of the swinger men who wanted to play with my husband and I really just wanted a female in the room so they could convince themselves they were not gay.
It is much more acceptable for a woman to be bi than a man.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
5/13/2014 4:34 am

1. Nope.
2. Yep.
3. I reckon the macho barrier remains too high for too many men to accept their sexuality.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:18 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Spunk how about on my wish list does that count! I think it would be hot! hugs V

    They say in my dreams..
Your wish-list looks great. I hope the preparations are going well.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:19 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    No interest in me being involved with same sex. Two of my FWBs are bisexual and I enjoy being with and watching them together.
Your take is also my take.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:21 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    I find your photo hot, but not with the ropes..The ropes to me, mean it is forced upon them and I'd rather see them hot for each other!
They may have agreed to be tethered. I agree with you that force without consent is not at all cool or clever.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:22 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    OMG you do ask some very personal questions young man!!!! Phew.


    Yes I have passionately kissed two women in my life....more than once. I have had oral sex with both of them and enjoyed it at the time.

    I have also had MFM threesums and found it turning on but there was no kissing or penetration between the men.

    As to your third question....I haven't a clue.

I'm sorry to ask so many questions. Sometimes I annoy myself by asking questions!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:24 pm

    Quoting Tantricorgasms3:
    I've lived in FMF triads and the women would often have sex when I wasn't around. This was back in the 80's, so I think the survey is highly flawed.

    I've also had an MFM where we did everything except male-male penetration and it was all good. I have no romantic attraction to men but if it feels good and does no harm, I'll try it.

    My many decades of observation in alternative lifestyles says that many men want the FMF because they are too possessive and jealous to let "their" woman have sex with another man, while they are fine with screwing another woman, right in front of their mate. It's "fair" because he allowed "his woman" to have sex with someone else! It's a nasty double standard, IMO. What's good for the goose should be good for the gander and vice versa.

    I wouldn't ask my partner to do anything I'm not willing to do.
Good answer. It would be very interesting to see how many men would be happy in a MMF relationship.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Bravo!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:27 pm

    Quoting partygald:
    Well, I admit to be bisexual because I have relationships with both women and men. It's not to get attention or to attract attention. I guess It's a little different for me too cos I started with women all those years ago before opening up my life physically and emotionally with men. And yea, most, if not all the guys I've known and spoke to readily admit to having some sort of girl-on-girl fantasy. I don't really get it but hey, whatever rocks your socks right?
I don't really get this girl-on-girl fantasy for some men. When as a part of a couple into swinging, some men would try and engineer this fantasy. It was so forced and cold; it should just happen (or not happen).


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/16/2014 12:29 pm

    Quoting canyaz:
    I have had sex with women...to me, it is just a lot of foreplay. I need a hard cock (real hot blooded one attached to a man) .I watched my former husband have sex with men...I was not turned on. I realized most of the swinger men who wanted to play with my husband and I really just wanted a female in the room so they could convince themselves they were not gay.
    It is much more acceptable for a woman to be bi than a man.
When I was swinging, it was always intriguing watching some men try to play out their fantasies but it wasn't always comfortable. It was always better being spontaneous.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/17/2014 6:43 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. Nope.
    2. Yep.
    3. I reckon the macho barrier remains too high for too many men to accept their sexuality.
Like you, I suspect some men are too macho (or too afraid) to admit any bi-curiousity.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/17/2014 6:44 am

    Quoting  :

Some men may want to keep their bi-curiousity private, which is their prerogative, but it will probably come out sooner or later.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/17/2014 6:46 am

    Quoting  :

Sometimes I haven't been able to breathe properly when giving oral sex to a woman. Some men get off on that feeling of suffocation ... not me though!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/17/2014 6:56 am

    Quoting  :

You are not boring. I too have never passionately kissed a man, though I have felt another man's cock and balls in the throes of passion at a sex party.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/17/2014 6:58 am

    Quoting  :

I'm always slightly intrigued by the bi-curious label. I can fully understand why anyone would be curious, but after someone has tried they can no longer be curious! Perhaps I'm seing things too simplistically.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
5/25/2014 8:34 pm

I have only kissed another woman, once, on the lips, and it definitely wasn't PASSIONATE.

I was 45, it was my 1st time at a swing club with my ex-boyfriend, and everyone was in a "party-hearty" mood because it was Hallowe'en. We spent a lot of the evening getting to know 2 other couples, and it was one of those women I kissed - just for the Hell of it.

I've felt no desire to do it again, although I have chowed down on a pussy. I may never do either again.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
5/26/2014 1:38 am

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    I have only kissed another woman, once, on the lips, and it definitely wasn't PASSIONATE.

    I was 45, it was my 1st time at a swing club with my ex-boyfriend, and everyone was in a "party-hearty" mood because it was Hallowe'en. We spent a lot of the evening getting to know 2 other couples, and it was one of those women I kissed - just for the Hell of it.

    I've felt no desire to do it again, although I have chowed down on a pussy. I may never do either again.
I have not kissed a man passionately, but I have caressed another man's cock and balls though I've never sucked or licked a cock. Again. like you, it was at a party.


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