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Blogs > spunkycumfun > Sexy TIMES

GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
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4/7/2014 12:26 pm
GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN


I’ve just read an interview with Cyndi Lauper. She’s now 60 years old; I felt old! Her 1983 single, Girls Just Want To Have Fun, always made me want to get onto the dance floor to strut my stuff! I didn’t know that she’s since got into blues music; her Memphis Blues album was the bestselling blues album of 2010.

In the interview, Cyndi Lauper told the following joke: “A guy walks into a bar with a frog on his head. The frog says to the barman, ‘How do I get this guy off my ass?’”

That joke brought back memories from school. The party trick of one of my classmates was to stick a straw up a frog’s bottom and blow through the straw until the frog exploded. His trick worked with toads as well. Another one of his party tricks was to spit in his packet of crisps straight after he opened the bag so that no one would want to his crisps – there was method in his madness!

But Cyndi Lauper’s joke also made me think of how I deal with people who I don’t like, who annoy me, or who I think are being very stupid. I try to be tolerant with people, but there’s a limit when I just have to tell them what’s what. I don’t think I’m the most tolerant of people sometimes.

How tolerant are you with people?
How do you get someone you don’t want in your life to get out of your life?
Is it easier to get someone out of your life online or offline?

sexysixties2 106F
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39750 posts
4/7/2014 12:39 pm

 I have great patience and am very tolerant of others but a certain neighbour of mine...in RL...has pressed too many buttons now and she is going to get to know my inner bitch.

There have only been a few people I have wanted to get out of my life and in RL I just tell them to get lost....here I just ignore them.
"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/7/2014 1:48 pm

 Good question here spunky... Great patients is what they say!! I am pretty tolerant of folks but when they are doing something stupid I am not.

Online is so much easier because you don't have to deal with people. Just turn off the computer and your done.! hugs V

Have a great day!
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pal334 69M  
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4/7/2014 3:23 pm

 I am generally very tolerant of other,, unless they get obnoxious, or start being a bully. In real life if it come to the point that I want them out of my life and they are not cooperating, have a heart to heart talk and tell them to "F" off. On line just ignore them
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canyaz 56F
17128 posts
4/8/2014 4:57 am

 How tolerant are you with people? I do pretty well.
How do you get someone you don’t want in your life to get out of your life? unfriend them on FB
Is it easier to get someone out of your life online or offline?
I think it is easier in person.
There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:26 am
    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I have great patience and am very tolerant of others but a certain neighbour of mine...in RL...has pressed too many buttons now and she is going to get to know my inner bitch.

    There have only been a few people I have wanted to get out of my life and in RL I just tell them to get lost....here I just ignore them.
Neighbours can be difficult. I don't see many of my neighbours as I live in a block of flats. But one neighbour has declared himself the representative of everyone living in the block. He chairs a secret committee and he keeps changing the security codes for the bins but never tells anyone. I have problems being pleasant to him, but I do try for the sake of neighbourly harmony!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:27 am
    Quoting PeterWasted:
    Yup - 60. I was shocked too!

    I'm very tolerant of most people!
    Those I'm not particularly tolerant of - know it, and mostly keep away.
    Online is easier but it can hurt when it's you who has been gotten rid of. Mostly online relationships are quite time limited anyway. If they are going anywhere, they become something more than online. When they don't they fizzle out.
Like you, I'm tolerant of most people. People I'm not tolerant with are the intolerant, the mean of spirit and the pompous.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:28 am
    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Good question here spunky... Great patients is what they say!! I am pretty tolerant of folks but when they are doing something stupid I am not.

    Online is so much easier because you don't have to deal with people. Just turn off the computer and your done.! hugs V

    Have a great day!
I try and tolerate stupid people by telling myself that they make me look smart!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:29 am
    Quoting pal334:
    I am generally very tolerant of other,, unless they get obnoxious, or start being a bully. In real life if it come to the point that I want them out of my life and they are not cooperating, have a heart to heart talk and tell them to "F" off. On line just ignore them
I cannot tolerate bullies either.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:30 am
    Quoting  :
Far from it, I don't have to tolerate blogland because I love it here.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:32 am
    Quoting canyaz:
    How tolerant are you with people? I do pretty well.
    How do you get someone you don’t want in your life to get out of your life? unfriend them on FB
    Is it easier to get someone out of your life online or offline?
    I think it is easier in person.
I think it's easier offline; online problems can escalate very quickly and get quite nasty with the anonymity of it all.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2014 3:34 am
    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    I can be incredibly intolerant, if they ever do a "Grumpy old..." series set in Australia, I should definitely get a chair (not a warlord's chair)... The slightest thing can set me off but at other times, I can be surprisingly tolerant, even adding humour to a fucked-up situation.

    If someone is in my life and I no-longer want them there, I don't beat around the bush... Telling them straight out is the only way.

    It's far easier to disconnect from someone online because they probably don't have your address. Someone who has your address can just come around and make a nuisance of themselves until you snap and give them a serve... Online, you can simply tell them you wish to discontinue the association and if they persist, blocking them can help (at least until they start a new profile as some pests are known to do)... Final resort, ignore repeatedly until they get the message.
I hope you get your chair to be grumpy on television. I would pay for satellite to watch your series. I do like a bit of grumpiness in people.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/13/2014 12:15 pm

 You are very smart Spunky! hugs V
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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/13/2014 12:24 pm
    Quoting sweet_VM:
    You are very smart Spunky! hugs V
We all need stupid people!


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