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EX SEX  Conventional wisdom strongly suggests that you shouldn’t have sex with an ex, but I suspect many people have had ex sex regularly and even happily. The sex toy firm, Lovehoney, surveyed 1,100 adults and found that nearly 40 per cent of women said the best sex they had was with an ex-partner and not their present partner! According to research conducted by psychologists from the University of Arizona, having sex with an ex-spouse can ease the pain of the split or, at worst, makes no difference to the pain of the divorce. After studying 137 recently divorced adults, they found that over 80 per cent of divorced adults remained in touch with their ex-partner and that nearly 20 per cent of them had sex with their ex-partner. The researchers also found that sex lessened the emotional pain of the break-up for those divorced adults who had least accepted the break-up, whereas sex made no difference to the emotional well-being of those divorced adults who had most accepted the break-up. For more details of this research, see Mason A E, Sbarra D B, Bryan A E B & Lee L A (2012) ‘Staying connected when coming apart: the psychological correlates of contact and sex with an ex-partner’, Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology, 31(5), pp488-507. Their research findings go against conventional wisdom. It seems that the best thing to do when you’ve been dumped by someone, and you still want them and they still want sex with you, is to fuck them! Have you had sex with an ex? If so, how was the sex? And how did the sex affect you? I’ve had sex with an ex on three occasions, though I’ve had far more than three ex-partners! The sex was very good and didn’t affect my relationship with them; I survived and still remained an ex! |
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I've never had sex with an ex. I've had we-know-it's-over-but-the-sex-is-great-so-let's-postpone-the-inevitable sex, which, by definition, was great  But when it's over, it's over 
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Not here. We split amicably and are friends, but no sex
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It was a stress relief mercy fuck...eh, it was ok.
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I've never had sex with an ex....it's not for me. If it's over..that's it.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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Never have nor will have sex with an ex!  Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever have sex again with my present wife! 
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Can't say I have had sex with my ex as I don't have an ex. I am still living with the same fellow I married may years ago. hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I've never had sex with an ex. I've had we-know-it's-over-but-the-sex-is-great-so-let's-postpone-the-inevitable sex, which, by definition, was great But when it's over, it's over /:> 
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Not here. We split amicably and are friends, but no sex
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I also found sex with my ex very passionate, more passionate than when we were together for some reason!
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Very true, but a couple of times I deluded myself to think it was maybe not over.
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It was a stress relief mercy fuck...eh, it was ok.
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I've never had sex with an ex....it's not for me. If it's over..that's it.
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Never have nor will have sex with an ex! Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever have sex again with my present wife!
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Can't say I have had sex with my ex as I don't have an ex. I am still living with the same fellow I married may years ago. hugs V
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I'm yet to have sex with an ex-... I'm like most of the other respondents, when it's over, it's over (sounds like a line in a song my the motels)... "Take the 'L' out of lover and it's over" 
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Thanks for your comment. You're right it's over, but I have weakened a couple of times!
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Very true, but I did con myself at the time that it wasn't fully over!
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Yes, I've had sex with an ex. Once, with my ex-boyfriend, who lived in the same City I did, when I was going to school. At the time, my then-boyfriend lived back in my home town. And later, after my husband and I had separated, a couple of times with him. The circumstances were a bit strange, and it was always initiated by me. But, since he's now a "non-entity in my life", I know longer need to be embarrassed by the way it happened. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Yes, I've had sex with an ex. Once, with my ex-boyfriend, who lived in the same City I did, when I was going to school. At the time, my then-boyfriend lived back in my home town. And later, after my husband and I had separated, a couple of times with him. The circumstances were a bit strange, and it was always initiated by me. But, since he's now a "non-entity in my life", I know longer need to be embarrassed by the way it happened.
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