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OFFICE PARTIES  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
12/18/2013 10:56 am
OFFICE PARTIES



Tomorrow evening is my work’s Xmas party. I am not looking forward to it at all, though everyone has had their arm twisted to go. My workplace is very formal, hierarchical and status-conscious. Hardly anyone knows each other as people; we only know each other as colleagues. I have to be careful what I say, which I often find difficult to do.

The last Xmas party I went to with my colleagues involved a lunch - I really should say luncheon because it was that formal. My boss bought four bottles of wine for about 15 people – a glass each! Everyone was wary to go to the bar in case they would be thought of as an alcoholic. After everyone finished their lunch, my boss announced that she was going back to work, which prompted everyone else to go back to work. It was a dreadful Xmas party.

At least this year’s Xmas party is in the evening. There is also a disco and even a dress code – dress to impress! But whatever pretence of festive joviality is put on, it is unlikely to overcome the stuffiness of my workplace. Perhaps I will fall ill tomorrow so I can offer my excuses for not going. But maybe the party will be a start in breaking down the formality of my workplace. I don’t know whether to be an optimist or a pessimist; I’ll be a realist instead and just see it as a meal and a chance to strut my stuff to Abba’s Dancing Queen and Chic’s Le Freak.

There is no chance of anything untoward happening. If someone kissed someone else at work, both would have to confess to my boss that they kissed because there is a code of conduct governing sexual and romantic relationships at the workplace. It’s the most no-fun place I’ve ever worked at!

Do you enjoy, or did you enjoy, any parties with your work colleagues?
Have you ever stolen a kiss or even had sex at a work’s party?
Have you ever had sex with your boss?


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
12/18/2013 11:16 am

We used to have parties for co-workers, but put on by the workers..the boss or corporation never did. Never had a bonus in 37 1/2 years.
Some workers are sociable..others are "stuffy"!
We used to go to parties put on by wife's boss's, but they are becoming hum-drum... Never went last year or this year.
Never had sex at the party, but did go out to the vehicle and have sex while van was warming up! I've never had or plan to have sex with a man! (my bosses were always men)


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
12/18/2013 11:27 am

I would attend the first hour or so of the Christmas party in the military, I would help sponsor the parties, but found as a Senior person it cramped the troops style less if I made a gracious exit.

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Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
12/18/2013 12:03 pm

I learned my lesson early about office romance.

Dated a few coworkers. Great for a while. Sharing rides to work, etc..

But breakups were nasty and made work very uncomfortable. Usually I'd end up quitting.

Read my diary Journal of a Taxi Driver for taxi stories and pictures of flowers and trees.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/18/2013 5:03 pm

Yes, yes, and yes. I mostly enjoy the office parties cos I mostly work in industries that are usually more informal. Certainly not like the one you describe. Although I have had a few boring, poke-my-own-eye-out ones. If it makes it easier, why not just not go? Ha..easier said than done, I know.

Coming back to this - as a result of my getting-it-on with colleagues, I've had to leave two of my previous jobs, and one rather unceremoniously. I have also had sex with my boss. It started years ago and I have since left that job, but we still have an ongoing relationship. I guess we are, for the lack of a better term, friends with benefits.

I guess, like everything else, there are positives and negatives with fucking around in the office. To be able to reap the positives, you should be prepared to deal with the negatives


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
12/19/2013 7:42 am

1. I used to, now all that happens is that I get my ear bent, tongues loosen with alcohol.......
2. Oh yes.
3. Haha, nah, I never fancied him! And now, I'm pleased to say that none of the guys fancy me..........


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/21/2013 11:04 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    We used to have parties for co-workers, but put on by the workers..the boss or corporation never did. Never had a bonus in 37 1/2 years.
    Some workers are sociable..others are "stuffy"!
    We used to go to parties put on by wife's boss's, but they are becoming hum-drum... Never went last year or this year.
    Never had sex at the party, but did go out to the vehicle and have sex while van was warming up! I've never had or plan to have sex with a man! (my bosses were always men)
That's scandalous, no bonus in 37-and-a-half years. But Santa never gets many bonuses!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 12:52 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I would attend the first hour or so of the Christmas party in the military, I would help sponsor the parties, but found as a Senior person it cramped the troops style less if I made a gracious exit.
You were thoughtful leaving early; often hierarchy doesn't work well at work parties.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 12:56 am

    Quoting  :

Quite the contrary, you are a professional office party go-er!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 12:57 am

    Quoting Furbal1972:
    I learned my lesson early about office romance.

    Dated a few coworkers. Great for a while. Sharing rides to work, etc..

    But breakups were nasty and made work very uncomfortable. Usually I'd end up quitting.
Office romances are great until the split!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 12:58 am

    Quoting partygald:
    Yes, yes, and yes. I mostly enjoy the office parties cos I mostly work in industries that are usually more informal. Certainly not like the one you describe. Although I have had a few boring, poke-my-own-eye-out ones. If it makes it easier, why not just not go? Ha..easier said than done, I know.

    Coming back to this - as a result of my getting-it-on with colleagues, I've had to leave two of my previous jobs, and one rather unceremoniously. I have also had sex with my boss. It started years ago and I have since left that job, but we still have an ongoing relationship. I guess we are, for the lack of a better term, friends with benefits.

    I guess, like everything else, there are positives and negatives with fucking around in the office. To be able to reap the positives, you should be prepared to deal with the negatives
In the end, I decided not to go to the work's Xmas do claiming a bad cough. Instead, I had a much better time watching trash telly!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:21 am

    Quoting scottv624u:
    I've always enjoyed work parties, cause my friends and I tend ot go out afterwards.
I would enjoy those work parties. The only time I see my colleagues outside work are at stuffy dinner parties, which are often an extension of work!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:22 am

    Quoting  :

I'm not sure whose idea it was for the setting. I chickened out in the end and stayed at home instead. By all accounts, I didn't miss much!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:24 am

    Quoting  :

I could handle an office party in a luxury hotel with good food etc, but this was in a conference centre!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:25 am

    Quoting  :

I hope there's two jobs going there!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:26 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. I used to, now all that happens is that I get my ear bent, tongues loosen with alcohol.......
    2. Oh yes.
    3. Haha, nah, I never fancied him! And now, I'm pleased to say that none of the guys fancy me..........
Alcohol does wonderful things with people's tongues!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:27 am

    Quoting grayblue1:
    ..those type of parties sort of ended ..when political correctness invaded our world...but yes...

    we were drunk ..she slid out of her dress..and the rest is a great memory,...

    blue...
My workplace is very politically correct!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 3:29 am

    Quoting  :

Your office parties sounded great fun, and that punch sounds very interesting!


warmandsexy52 71M
13158 posts
12/23/2013 7:54 am

We always had work parties twice a year. I would flirt and kiss, but would draw the line at sex. As a senior colleague I know the problems in the workplace that would cause.

warm xx


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
12/23/2013 8:43 am

    Quoting warmandsexy52:
    We always had work parties twice a year. I would flirt and kiss, but would draw the line at sex. As a senior colleague I know the problems in the workplace that would cause.

    warm xx
The most I could do, without causing any scandal, is a mild flirt!


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