HOW TO GIVE A LOVE BITE - a Blog Post by spunkycumfun

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11/1/2013 12:55 pm

HOW TO GIVE A LOVE BITE

A love bite (or a hickey) is a bruise caused by kissing, sucking and/or biting someone’s skin (usually the neck). They can last a week or two before they disappear.

Below is some wikiHow advice on how to give someone a love bite:
Know what a hickey is. A hickey, also known as a "love bite" or "kiss mark" is essentially a bruise caused by sucking or aggressively kissing another person's flesh. It is initially red in color, due to broken blood vessels beneath the skin. It will later turn purple or dark brown as it heals.
Understand why you would want to give someone a hickey. Hickeys are a mark of passion. They are often done in the heat of the moment, out of desire for the other person. Giving someone a hickey is kind of like marking your territory, showing the world that this person belongs to you.
Always ask for permission first. A hickey is a sexual mark, which makes it inappropriate for school, work, or visiting grandparents. Some people may wish to avoid the embarrassment of being caught with a hickey, or the hassle of trying to cover one up, so you should never give one without sussing out your partner's feelings on the matter first.
Build up the tension. Don't just dive directly onto your partner's neck and go in for the hickey. Spend some time kissing and French kissing first, then move your lips to your partner's throat. Start with light kisses, then move into harder and more insistent kisses around the throat and collarbone. If your partner seems to enjoy it, you're probably clear to move into giving a hickey.
Choose your location. Hickeys work best on thin, delicate skin, which is why they are usually found on the neck. However, the skin in the crook of your elbow or on the inner thigh are also prime locations. If you know your partner would be extremely embarrassed at having a visible hickey, don't just put it in the middle of the throat where anyone can see.
Part your lips slightly, and place them on the skin. Imagine you are making the letter "O" with your lips, then press them firmly onto your partner's skin so that you can make a good seal, without leaving any gaps for the air to escape. Try to keep your mouth soft and inviting as you do this, instead of going into a hard pucker/
Suck the skin. The key here is to suck hard enough to break the capillaries just beneath the skin, but not so hard that you cause your partner too much pain. You will need to suck for 20 to 30 seconds in order to make a mark. Remember: Keep your teeth out of the way. You don't want them digging painfully into your partner's skin. Break up the sucking. If 30 solid seconds of hickey-making strikes you as too weird, try 10 seconds, some kissing, then another 10 seconds in the same spot, and so on. Control the amount of spit in your mouth. You don't want to be leaving a creeping drip of slobber on your partner's neck as you give a hickey, so try to swallow back any excess.
End it smoothly. When you're done sucking, try laying a few gentle kisses on the area, which probably feels more sensitive now. Resume making out as usual.
Wait a few minutes for the visible hickey to appear. Just as when you get a bruise, you won't be able to see the hickey immediately. It should show up after 5 or 10 minutes, and could be anywhere from light pink to dark purple.
Make it darker (optional). If you want the hickey to be larger or darker, return to the same spot and repeat the process again.
Stop if you're asked to. Maybe your girlfriend thinks she's cool with having a hickey, but she hates the way that it feels while you're doing it. Or your boyfriend decides he can't risk his parents or employer seeing the mark. Always respect your partner's wishes if they say "no," even if you've already started the process. A hickey is sometimes seen as a mark of trust, so abusing that trust is not okay.
Use concealer. A little heavy make-up or concealer can be pretty effective for covering up a hickey.
Wear a scarf. A scarf is your best friend when attempting to conceal a hickey on your neck, as a scarf is a fashionable item which no one will question you wearing (unless it's 100 degrees outside). Wrap the scarf strategically around your neck, and make sure to check it in a mirror from time to time to make sure the material hasn't moved, leaving your hickey exposed. Other options for covering a neck hickey include wearing a turtleneck (again, when weather conditions allow) or wearing your hair down, if it's long enough.
Cover it with a band aid. A band aid will effectively cover up a hickey and give it time to heal away from the prying eyes of the world.
Try to speed up the healing. Arnica cream is said to speed up the healing of bruises, so it may also be effective for clearing up hickeys. There are numerous other home remedies that supposedly help to speed up healing, such as applying an ice pack, rubbing the hickey with a comb, scraping the hickey with a coin and covering the hickey with toothpaste.

Or, you can borrow my pet vampire bat!

When was the last time you had a love bite or gave someone a love bite?
If love-bitten, did you cover up the love bite?
Do you like giving and receiving love bites?

I have never given nor received a love bite!

pal334 69M

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11/1/2013 2:35 pm

Was very recently But I am very careful not to leave marks

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Furbal1972 51M

18571 posts
11/1/2013 3:14 pm

I think hickies are extremely erotic!

My neck is an erogenous zone and I love getting them there. I will wear them like a bade of honor.

As most women don't like having them visible, I'll usually leave my 'marks' on their breasts.

It has been a few years since I've given or received one though.

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foreverfree123 60M

435 posts
11/1/2013 4:46 pm

OMG, I love them !!!!

NOT on my neck though, because they need to be hidden in everyday life.

My favourite place is on my breasts.

They serve as a reminder to me of the occasion until they disappear.

Mmmmmmm ... was going to attach a recent pic, but it seems I can't do that here.

sweet_VM 65F

81699 posts
11/1/2013 5:42 pm

I have never seen an animal like this before.. Wow.. small teeth and razor sharp I am guessing. Not for a very long time I have seen a hickies. I call them nipples I give and get.. hugs V

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demonicsexkitten 48F

10694 posts
11/1/2013 8:54 pm

I'm terrible at giving. Very great at receiving. I once had a super dark hickie and both myself AND my partner were shocked to see it, as neither of us remembered him doing that.

My neck is my MOST erogenous zone, I've been known to collapse, black out and "come to" with my partner on the other side of the room (not pass out but... lose all sense of sight and thought from it). and various in between.

Other ways to mark territory is nail marks.

I experience most of my "Love Bites" another way. I have a cat. "Kiss, kiss, kiss.. CHOMP! kiss, CHOMP!"

lok4fun500 M

51906 posts
11/1/2013 10:37 pm

I don't bite!!

rm_ron6969wu 44M

28 posts
11/2/2013 12:25 pm

thanks for the info.

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