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THE ART OF SEDUCTION
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THE ART OF SEDUCTION  According to a survey conducted last year by Suzi Godson, The Times’ sex counsel, 56 per cent of males and 15 per cent of females always initiated sex with their partner. The difference between men and women can be partly explained by men’s higher libido, but it can be mainly explained by gendered expectations about men’s and women’s sexual roles. Men are expected to take the lead. To redress this gender imbalance, the experts wikiHow offer the following tips for women to seduce men: 1. Make plenty of eye contact. You know immediately when a man is aroused, but it's harder for men to tell if a woman is interested in sex. Use eye contact and facial expressions to communicate the fact that you want him. 2. Help him relax. Stress can be a big distraction that keeps him from getting in the mood. Make his favorite dinner, give him a relaxing massage or prepare a bubble bath for two. When he feels more relaxed, he's more likely to respond sexually. 3. Get out your old photos. Remember the time when you were first in love, before life's other responsibilities caught up with you. Sharing photos can create a feeling of tenderness and nostalgia and could rekindle the flame in your relationship. 4. Ply him with pomegranates. Studies show that drinking pomegranate juice can boost a man's sex drive. Make a pitcher of pomegranate margaritas or some pomegranate lemonade for the teetotaler. 5. Engage him in a competitive sport. Play tennis, race to the top of a mountain or challenge him to some kind of game. The competitive spirit will provide ample opportunity for flirting and will also raise both of your testosterone levels. 6. Wear red for visual appeal. In studies, men find women who are wearing red more attractive than women who are wearing any other color. 7. Skip the perfume and use your pheromones to appeal to his sense of smell. Men are much less turned on by the scent of perfume and lotions than they are by a woman's natural scent. In fact, researchers have found that a female's scent, or her pheromones, can have a significant and underestimated role in attracting a lover. 8. Try a taste of chocolate as a prelude. Chocolate releases serotonin in the brain, which provides feelings similar to those associated with falling in love. 9. Make the sounds that come naturally to you. Many men report that women are too quiet during intimacy. Shouting or praising him as a love god isn't necessary, but the sounds that you make let him know that what he's doing pleases you. 10. Take time for touch. The idea that men don't enjoy touching and cuddling is a myth. Touch releases a hormone called oxytocin, which is nicknamed "the love hormone." This hormone can reinforce the bond of love in a relationship, which will make the sex better than ever. 11. Share a hot fantasy. If you're in a long-term partnership, think about that fantasy that keeps you going sometimes when the are asleep and you're both too tired to make love. Have you ever thought about sharing that with him? You may both perk up unexpectedly. If you're trying to attract someone new, make sure that he's the type of guy who is open to what you're proposing. Don't scare off a potentially wonderful but shyer guy by being too aggressive at the outset. 12. Start sexting. Send him a text message that's sure to arouse his interest. He'll be thinking about you all day, which could lead to some fantastic sex. 13. Instigate a 90-second makeout. Even if you think he's too tired, try kissing and fooling around for a minute-and-a-half or so. You may not arouse his interest immediately, but you'll increase anticipation for the next time that you can be together. 14. Plan an overnight trip. Hand him an envelope containing keys to a hotel room and a hot photo of you. He'll definitely get the message. Making eye contact, being massaged, sharing fantasies, sexting and going on overnight trips would all work on me, but I’m easy to seduce! Looking at photos and drinking pomegranate juice would not work on me; in fact, I would think they would be telling me it's time to go home! How often do you initiate sex with your partner? How easy are you to seduce? How do you seduce someone and how do you like being seduced? Do you have any tried-and-tested seduction techniques? |
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Excellent thinking! 
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I've never considered competitive sport as foreplay, but it is a jolly good idea !!! Venus and Mars again 
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I've never considered competitive sport as foreplay, but it is a jolly good idea !!! Venus and Mars again 
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