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DRESSING FOR SEX This leaves me cold!  Though I’ll make sure I have a shower (or, even better, a bath) and dress in some clean clothes, I’m not a big fan of dressing up for sex. I’ll admit I have my fair share of sexy pants, or rather what I think are sexy pants. But, I love the thought of ripping my pants off and getting naked before sex. Naked is always best! Role-play, and the clothes that go with it, does not do it for me, whether it’s doctors and nurses, maids, masters or mistresses and slaves, teachers and naughty pupils, dominatrixes and gimps, bosses and secretaries, uniforms, and so on. The human body is always amazingly sexy; a naked body is always very inviting! And a naked body is always sexy when that person owns their body and knows what they want at that moment. Are you a shower or a bath person? How do dress up for sex? Have you dressed up for role-play sex? Do you like ripping your pants off? What does a naked body do for you? Are you comfortable with your body? |
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Are you a shower or a bath person? Shower if I am in a hurry. Bath when I want to relax. How do dress up for sex? Is naked considered dressed up? Have you dressed up for role-play sex? I am submissive and all MB has to do is pull my hair...my clothes just fall off. When we first started dating, his rule was no clothes on inside the house. Is that dressing up for role play? Do you like ripping your pants off? Or his... What does a naked body do for you? YUM! Are you comfortable with your body? More than I should be.
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I dress for sex. I don't like role play but I do enjoy dressing sexy and there is something appealing about being unwrapped as foreplay.
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SCF,tell us your thoughts on ladies wearing fishnet clothing during sex.
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Are you a shower or a bath person? Prefer a shower. If I have a bath, I like to either shower first, so I am clean to get into the bath ... or shower afterwards, so I feel clean. lol Sounds a little OCD, doesn't it, but I'm certainly not. lol How do dress up for sex? I much prefer to 'begin' sex with clothes on ... even if they come off mid way through. I am a HUGE fan of sexy lingerie, and if you don't wear that for sex, when else do you wear it??? Have you dressed up for role-play sex? Not really ... even with clients I was never really role-playing, I was just being 'me'. I never consider anything I do with a partner as role-playing ... I just feel more comfortable being my authentic self with some people, more so than others, and that might change the clothes I feel comfortable wearing with them. Do you like ripping your pants off? I had a very unpleasant experience about 3 years ago, during a first-time meet with a man I met on here. If an experience with a partner began to mimic that too closely, I might begin to freak out a bit. What does a naked body do for you? I can certainly admire a naked male body, and I definitely have a penis fetish, so I do like to look .... however, that is almost from an 'artistic' point of view. I don't get turned on by a man's nakedness, unless I am already turned on my his mind and personality. And then, God help the poor beggar when I see him without clothes ... I completely lose all control. Are you comfortable with your body? Yes and no. I have always been very comfortable with my body and nakedness in a non-sexual manner. Since I first married (30yrs ago) I have seldom worn clothing in the house, even while my sons were living with me, and they didn't move out until they were about 20yo. Maybe because of my medical background, I don't see the naked human body as a sexual thing in and of itself. However, when it comes to being naked with men, I am NOT so confident. I have gained a lot of weight over the past few years, and I have had LOTS of men make negative remarks about my size. That has made me feel very self-conscious. Also, I have been in love with two men during the past 10 years. I was seeing them for a total of about four years all up ..... and NEITHER of them EVER said anything positive to me about how I looked ..... NOT EVER .... not even once!!!!! For a woman, that is completely demoralizing, like you can't even believe. Not one single "You are so sexy", or "You look so hot", or anything else. Absolutely bloody nothing. Now don't get me wrong, I have had clients and other fwb during that time who DID say all of those things, but the only TWO men who I REALLY CARED ABOUT, never did. NOT ONCE !!! That makes me angry when I think about it, but it also hurts me so deeply and shatters my self confidence to the very core. (Sorry Dr S ... You probably didn't want such a deep answer, did you? lol)
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Are you a shower or a bath person? Shower if I am in a hurry. Bath when I want to relax. How do dress up for sex? Is naked considered dressed up? Have you dressed up for role-play sex? I am submissive and all MB has to do is pull my hair...my clothes just fall off. When we first started dating, his rule was no clothes on inside the house. Is that dressing up for role play? Do you like ripping your pants off? Or his... What does a naked body do for you? YUM! Are you comfortable with your body? More than I should be. 
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I dress for sex. I don't like role play but I do enjoy dressing sexy and there is something appealing about being unwrapped as foreplay.
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SCF,tell us your thoughts on ladies wearing fishnet clothing during sex.
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Are you a shower or a bath person? Prefer a shower. If I have a bath, I like to either shower first, so I am clean to get into the bath ... or shower afterwards, so I feel clean. lol Sounds a little OCD, doesn't it, but I'm certainly not. lol How do dress up for sex? I much prefer to 'begin' sex with clothes on ... even if they come off mid way through. I am a HUGE fan of sexy lingerie, and if you don't wear that for sex, when else do you wear it??? Have you dressed up for role-play sex? Not really ... even with clients I was never really role-playing, I was just being 'me'. I never consider anything I do with a partner as role-playing ... I just feel more comfortable being my authentic self with some people, more so than others, and that might change the clothes I feel comfortable wearing with them. Do you like ripping your pants off? I had a very unpleasant experience about 3 years ago, during a first-time meet with a man I met on here. If an experience with a partner began to mimic that too closely, I might begin to freak out a bit. What does a naked body do for you? I can certainly admire a naked male body, and I definitely have a penis fetish, so I do like to look .... however, that is almost from an 'artistic' point of view. I don't get turned on by a man's nakedness, unless I am already turned on my his mind and personality. And then, God help the poor beggar when I see him without clothes ... I completely lose all control. Are you comfortable with your body? Yes and no. I have always been very comfortable with my body and nakedness in a non-sexual manner. Since I first married (30yrs ago) I have seldom worn clothing in the house, even while my sons were living with me, and they didn't move out until they were about 20yo. Maybe because of my medical background, I don't see the naked human body as a sexual thing in and of itself. However, when it comes to being naked with men, I am NOT so confident. I have gained a lot of weight over the past few years, and I have had LOTS of men make negative remarks about my size. That has made me feel very self-conscious. Also, I have been in love with two men during the past 10 years. I was seeing them for a total of about four years all up ..... and NEITHER of them EVER said anything positive to me about how I looked ..... NOT EVER .... not even once!!!!! For a woman, that is completely demoralizing, like you can't even believe. Not one single "You are so sexy", or "You look so hot", or anything else. Absolutely bloody nothing. Now don't get me wrong, I have had clients and other fwb during that time who DID say all of those things, but the only TWO men who I REALLY CARED ABOUT, never did. NOT ONCE !!! That makes me angry when I think about it, but it also hurts me so deeply and shatters my self confidence to the very core. (Sorry Dr S ... You probably didn't want such a deep answer, did you? lol)
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Are you a shower or bath person? Bath. It's a challenge to shave your legs safely and thoroughly whilst standing up... I usually rinse-off afterwards with a shower. How do you like to dress for sex? I wear a sexy black, red and gold g-string, black push-up bra and black lace top hold-ups (called stay-ups in Australia) and a kick-arse pair of black platform pumps (on cold weather, I finish the look off with a fluffy white robe). Have you dressed-up for role-plays sex? No, but I'm not averse to doing so... I just can't afford the costumes. Do you like ripping your pants off? Not ripping... About 20 years ago, a boyfriend did that in a moment of lustful, youthful impetuousness with a new, expensive pair which rendered them unwearable. I'm still angry about the wastefulness of his actions. What does a naked body do for you? If it's an appealing male body, it makes me hungry for him. Are you comfortable with your body? I am with my breasts, my arms, my hands, my legs, my waistline and my bum but my "penis" traumatises me. Honestly! I'd be angry if someone not only ripped off but actually ripped my 'lucky' pants!
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