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CHRISTIAN NYMPHOS
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CHRISTIAN NYMPHOS While innocently surfing the internet, as one does, I stumbled across a site for Christian nymphomaniacs. The mission of Christian Nymphos is “to teach married women to walk in sexual freedom with their husbands”.  In the words of Christian Nymphos: “We recognize that nymphomania is a legitimate illness for some women and we don’t mean to minimize that in any way. We started referring to ourselves as nymphos long before we started our blog. We saw ourselves as incredibly passionate wives and found wonderful freedom in embracing our sexuality. The definition of a nympho is ‘a woman with abnormal sexual desires.’ Sometimes we do feel abnormal, and while sometimes it is with people who are not Christians it can also be when we are in groups of Christian women. Moms groups. Ladies Bible studies. A night out with our Christian girlfriends. It is not uncommon to hear women speaking negatively about sex. It is also not at all uncommon for us to hear people telling us that our sexual standards are rigid and uptight because we are so firm in our conviction that sex as God intended it is most intensely fulfilled within the marriage covenant.” “While our name includes the term ‘nympho,’ we also first and foremost refer to ourselves as Christians. The core of our identity is that we belong to God and have a connection to Him because of our faith in the saving power of the work of Jesus Christ on the cross. This allows us to submit all of our sexual desires to his authority so that our expressions of passion with our husbands are healthy and appropriate.” Are you religious? If so, does your religion influence your sex life? Hypersexuality is extremely frequent or suddenly increased sexual urges or sexual activity. The causes of hypersexuality are not well understood. However, the World Health Organisation’s International Classification of Diseases includes ‘excessive sexual drive’, coded F52.8, divided into satyromania for men and nymphomania for women, and ‘excessive masturbation’, coded F98.8. Are you very sexual? Are you hypersexual? Can you be called a satyromaniac or a nymphomaniac? Should you be coded F52.8 or F98.8? Mainly, Christian Nymphos is a forum for Christian wives to exchange ideas about sex and Christianity. Its website also has a ‘Prayer Requests’ page. Inside are two word-for-word extracts from the Christian Nymphos' website on anal sex, ‘Anal Sex: What Does the Bible Say?’ and ‘Anal Sex: How To Get Started’. |
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Anal Sex: What Does the Bible Say? [image] [taken from Christian Nymphos] The bible spells out many sins. God’s word tells us that adultery is a sin. It is even a commandment. Leviticus 18:20 (King James Version) 20 Moreover thou shalt not lie carnally with thy neighbour’s wife, to defile thyself with her. Exodus 20 (King James Version) 1 And God spake all these words, saying, 14 Thou shalt not commit adultery. His word also tells us fornication and bestiality are sins. 1 Corinthians 6:18 (King James Version) 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (King James Version) 3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: 1 Corinthians 7:2 (King James Version) 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Leviticus 20:15-16 (King James Version) 15 And if a man lie with a beast, he shall surely be put to death: and ye shall slay the beast. 16 And if a woman approach unto any beast, and lie down thereto, thou shalt kill the woman, and the beast: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. The bible doesn’t, however, spell it out for anal sex. There are no specific verses that say that anal sex between a married couple is a sin. There are verses that deal with homosexuality, but not a married couple. I believe that if it were a sin, God would have included it in with the others He mentioned. But since the bible is silent on this issue, there is a debate among Christians regarding this. This is something that you and your spouse will need to discuss and pray about. The Holy Spirit will convict you as to what is best for your marriage. If one of you has a history of deep porn use, where anal sex was depicted, then it’s possible that engaging in anal sex could become a slippery slope for you, and lead back into your old, sinful lifestyles. You’ll need to ask yourself: Will doing this cause me to lust for more or for others? Will it remind me of the pornography and cause me to revert back to that? While participating in anal sex may be okay for one couple, it may cause another couple to stumble. Just because something is permissible, doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s beneficial to you. There are precautions and health concerns that you need to be aware of. Cleanliness is important, and so is being gentle and slow. I have heard a couple stories from women who say that they have become damaged from having anal sex, and now suffer from incontinence. I have heard more stories from women who say they have participated in anal sex with their husbands for years and have had no side effects at all from it. Some couples may be interested in anal sex or anal play, but after weighing all the pros and cons, decide that it isn’t edifying for their marriage. I respect and understand this. I humbly ask for that same respect in the decisions that my husband and I have made. May God bless your marriage!
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Anal Sex: How To Get Started [image] [taken from Christian Nymphos] Okay, so let’s say you and your husband are into anal play, and you want to take it a step further. You are both comfortable with the idea of anal sex, but you feel like you need some pointers to help you get started. Well, you’ve come to the right article! Anal sex is easily achieved by some couples, but a little harder for others. It can be difficult to learn to accommodate your husband’s penis. Most women need to start out with something smaller and work their way up to it. Here are some things to keep in mind when you are ready to try anal sex: Use copious amounts of lube. I cannot stress this enough. While the vagina self-lubricates, the same cannot be said of the anus. It will be in your best interest to put lube on both places (your anus and the object being inserted). In fact, if your husband is down there with his fingers or a plug, just tell him to keep the bottle of lube with him! Start out with your husband’s finger. Seriously. He can easily use a finger cot or glove if he wants. If you like the feelings you get from his finger, then that is a good indication that you may be ready for a little more. If his finger is uncomfortable to you or feels strange when inserted, then you may ultimately not like anal sex. You may be on this stage for one night or several months before you are ready to move on to anything else. Move up to a small anal plug. Anal plugs come in so many sizes now and are relatively inexpensive. You and your husband can even pick one out online discreetly to avoid potential embarrassment of physically going to the toy store (although I think that’s part of the fun!) You can also try having your husband try and insert two fingers at this point. The goal here is to get your anus used to something slightly larger fitting in there. Again, some of you may have absolutely no problem with this stage either, or it may feel kind of foreign to you. Make sure that you experience having an orgasm while trying this, so you’ll know what you are getting yourself into! (Remember to use tons of lube!) When you feel you are ready to try full-blown anal sex, then start slowly. You may be surprised at the difference in size between an anal plug and your husband’s erect penis. I will tell you that getting the head in is the biggest hurdle, and after that it’s easier. Just go slowly and start out with very shallow mini-thrusts. By that I mean to just barely thrust enough to get most of the head in. When you feel like you are able to take more in, then take it a little further. Remember to add more lube each time you take in another inch. Make sure you are in a comfortable position. Some positions are tighter for anal sex and other positions are more relaxed and may work better for you. So if you aren’t able to achieve penetration in one position, it’s possible that another may work for you. Here are some good positions we have that work for anal sex: • Rear Entry • Standing T • Doggie Variation • The Screw • Recovery Position If it feels uncomfortable to you then stop. Do not force it if it hurts. You could potentially damage yourself. I encourage you to take it slowly, and don’t get upset if it doesn’t work immediately. Some things take time, patience, and practice. Once you have it down, try adding a vibe to your clitoris at the same time! Many women who like anal sex, also like experiencing double penetration as well, so that may be something worth looking into. If you and your husband are interested in anal sex, then you’ll also need to decide on going bareback or wearing a condom. The use of a condom is cleaner, and you can always remove the condom for regular vaginal intercourse afterwards. If you decide to go without one, just remember that you should never re-insert his penis (or finger) into your vagina after it has been in your anus. That is a sure fire way to spread bacteria and get an infection. So talk to your spouse about your expectations and/or concerns. Make sure that you are both comfortable with whatever decisions are made. You may try this only to find that one or both of you don’t like it. If that’s the case, then there are hundreds of other ideas and positions to try. Pray about it, take it slow, and HAVE FUN!
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"I believe that if it were a sin, God would have included it in with the others He mentioned." Hmmm... what did God say about getting a BJ off your neighbour's wife?  And I do like this praying lark... "Wifey, I've prayed long and hard about it and I've decided you need to take it up your arse - bend over please."
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"I believe that if it were a sin, God would have included it in with the others He mentioned." Hmmm... what did God say about getting a BJ off your neighbour's wife? And I do like this praying lark... "Wifey, I've prayed long and hard about it and I've decided you need to take it up your arse - bend over please." xx
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Interesting!  xx
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1/23/2013 1:57 am |
Are you religious? Yes, I am a devout Christian, and Jesus is Lord of my life. If so, does your religion influence your sex life? I'm not sure. I believe that sex is the most wonderful, amazing thing that God created, so I guess that means "yes". Are you very sexual? Are you hypersexual? Apparently yes, although when I was married, I used to think that I was perfectly normal, because my husband had the same sex drive as me. Can you be called a satyromaniac or a nymphomaniac? Again yes. It seems that I suffer from classic, text-book nymphomania. That is NOT a good thing for a single person.  Should you be coded F52.8 or F98.8? Both ... F52.8 when I have a partner. F98.8 when I only have myself.
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Are you religious? Yes, I am a devout Christian, and Jesus is Lord of my life. If so, does your religion influence your sex life? I'm not sure. I believe that sex is the most wonderful, amazing thing that God created, so I guess that means "yes". Are you very sexual? Are you hypersexual? Apparently yes, although when I was married, I used to think that I was perfectly normal, because my husband had the same sex drive as me. Can you be called a satyromaniac or a nymphomaniac? Again yes. It seems that I suffer from classic, text-book nymphomania. That is NOT a good thing for a single person. Should you be coded F52.8 or F98.8? Both ... F52.8 when I have a partner. F98.8 when I only have myself. xx
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1/24/2013 12:35 am |
You are a nymphomaniac! Are you going to join Christian Nymphos? xx Don't I need to find myself a husband first??? lol 
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lol Don't I need to find myself a husband first??? lol  xx
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