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Blogs > spunkycumfun > Sexy TIMES

DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
11/15/2012 10:32 am
DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION
Domination/submission sex is increasingly popular. It is often called D&s, Ds or D/s sex.

According to Suzi Godson, The Times' sex counsellor, about 10 per cent of people engage in bondage and domination activities. Men dominate far more than women. For many men, being dominated threatens their masculinity. And for some men, being dominated is a form of domination - men may pretend to be submissive but in fact they are being dominant in expecting the woman to fulfil their sexual fantasies without making any effort.



Do you like domination/submission sex?
If so, do you like being dominant or being dominated?
What is it that you like about domination and submission?

We often have domination/submission sex. We once spent a whole weekend together at a cottage equipped for BDSM; a weekend was not long enough!

rm_MCRiderD 61M
1405 posts
11/15/2012 11:00 am

 Personally, I think that every couple should experiment with in D/S. The experience for me was eye opening and mind expanding.

I highly recommend reading about it a lot before hand. An extremely intense and arousing experience can go bad very quickly with a misplaced knot that cuts circulation.

The act of being either submissive or dominate can teach you so much about your partner, and in spite of the concept of pain and degradation, that the love and trust to fully embrace a D/s session is truly and amazingly intense.

Wonderful post, I'm looking forward to seeing what your readers have to say.
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JustHere2Cam 56M
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14229 posts
11/15/2012 12:32 pm

 I prefer to be the sub, although P is also a sub, so we do have to switch... unless we someday findable a third person to dom/domme us both. For me, I really love following sexual orders.

In some ways, the sub is the one actually in control if they get to set limits. Then, it's up to the dom/domme to work within and push those limits.

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rm_MAXMOBILE 63M
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1955 posts
11/16/2012 8:11 pm

 Never had the opportunity to experiment only in fantasy. To be honest I don't like either role. If I were forced to choose though I think I would trend towards dominant.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
11/17/2012 1:32 am

 We like to switch, though Mr spunky tends to be more dominant than Mrs spunky.
Does anyone use code words to mean 'stop'?


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