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DOGGING  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
10/15/2012 1:36 pm
DOGGING

Dogging is a British phrase for having sex and watching others have sex in public places. It includes all sexual outdoor activities, and the term perhaps originates from the phrase, ‘walking the dog’ (or even from the act of men tailing couples having sex outdoors to spy on them).

Often people arrange to meet in car parks and lay-bys, often in quiet country roads, after dark – see within for dogging photos. Flashing car headlights and flicking the interior car lights on and off are common signs that the people in the car are doggers.



In the UK, dogging started to become popular from the 1980s onwards. In 2003, the BBC reported on the growing popularity of dogging, with the internet and text messaging being common means of organising dogging meets. In 2009, the film Dogging: A Love Story was released. There is lots of evidence that dogging is increasingly popular in many other parts of the world, including the US.

There are several websites specialising in dogging. One website advises doggers to bring “wet wipes, deodorant, tissues, mouth wash, KY jelly, disposable gloves, condoms, a blanket and warm clothing”, plus “the directions to the place”, when dogging! As well as giving advice on personal hygiene, the website offers advice on personal safety suggesting that doggers put “personal belongings like your wallet and cell phone away in the glove box”.

In the UK, doggers can be prosecuted under the Public Order Act 1986 and Sexual Offences Act 2003 and for the common law offence of outraging public decency, though prosecutions are rare.

Stan Collymore, the former England footballer, has confessed to dogging after being caught by two undercover reporters from The Sun newspaper. The footballer said: "What I have done is disgusting and I'm so ashamed, but I'm only human. I can only beg for forgiveness. Over the last couple of years I have been to dogging sites maybe a dozen to 15 times, and yes I have taken part and had sex during them.” Collymore was caught dogging in Cannock Chase near his Staffordshire home. He was not prosecuted but his television career as a football pundit took a (temporary) nosedive.

Have you been dogging?
Would you like to go dogging?


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:40 pm

getting ready:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:40 pm

in the car park:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:43 pm

giving the sign:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:45 pm

they're inside:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:46 pm

still inside:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:48 pm

we're outside now:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:48 pm

we're all outside:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:49 pm

oh dear!:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/15/2012 1:50 pm

well, at least we got the T-shirt:

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/19/2012 11:12 am

Below is the classic letter from the Sexual Freedom Coalition in response to the UK government's proposal to clamp down on sexual offences:

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"Protecting the Public"
Sentencing and Offences Unit
Room 314, The Home Office
50 Queen Anne's Gate
London SW1H 9AT

14th January 2003

Dear Sentencing and Offences Unit,

The Sexual Freedom Coalition has discussed your document Protecting the Public and have the following comments:

David Blunkett's Forward, paragraph 6 refers to

... access to degrading material being easily available...We presume he is refering to pornography, especially on the Internet. Many people enjoy pornography and do not find it degrading. Some use it as their only sexual outlet. Statements such as this only serve to make members of the public guilty about using pornography for masturbation. Guilt leads to repression which itself leads to sex crimes. The recent exposé of Roman Catholic priests involved in paedophilia is a prime example. In other words, Mr Blunkett's own language can be responsible for the very crimes which you aim to stop.

Item 15 Lots of people enjoy sex in the open air and it should never become illegal to have sex in a public place, otherwise you are discriminating against people who have small gardens or no garden at all. Homophobic people who complain they are offended by seeing gay sex should learn to look away rather than spoil their fun. Otherwise they should be prosecuted for discriminating against homosexuality, rather than the gay frollickers being prosecuted for enjoying themselves.

Item 72 The SFC believes that the laws surrounding prostitution should be abolished so that prostitutes can run their businesses like other citizens, and the trade will not attract the criminal element.

Item 74 Sex Workers do not need policing. They should be able to count on police protection as much as anybody else (or more than anybody else, since they are more vulnerable than anybody else -- look at violence and murder statistics).

Item 75 end of paragraph says "prevent it happening". Does this mean you think you are going to put an end to the world's oldest profession through local projects? Kindly accept the fact that many prostitutes enjoy their work and trying to put an end to their line of business is discriminatory.

Item 77 This would making dogging illegal. Dogging is a popular, ancient tradition of anonymous sexual fun, with exhibitionists performing to voyeurs in car parks, woods, sand dunes, etc. It would also criminalise the gay equivants.
It could also make it illegal to shag or have oral sex in a nightclub which was not a private / members-only club. Most people have probably done this, or at least got close at some time in their lives. Gay clubs would go broke if they forbade sex, and it.s difficult to run a swing club if you don.t allow your guests the chance to sample each other. So we think you should be extremely careful with your wording, defining what you mean by public, and preferably leave public sex out of this new legislation altogether.

Your document speaks about education on several occasions. The SFC feels this is more important than having new legislation. However, we feel that if the educators had the same attitude to sex as is contained in your document, such education would be counterproductive. For one thing, the people you are trying to educate would laugh. You cannot educate people if they do not respect you.
You speak of helping people live outside fear of sexual crime, but unless people are educated so they have the confidence talk about sex as it is, in its raw and often fantastical forms, sex crimes will always be shrouded in secrecy and justice will never be done.

Yours sincerely,

Dr Tuppy Owens
of behalf of the Sexual Freedom Coalition


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/27/2012 7:42 am

    Quoting  :

We've not been dogging and not tempted either. We know a few people who have gone dogging and they enjoyed it. xx


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/24/2014 12:32 am

    Quoting passionatecple:
    Thanks for a great post here and guiding us to it

    B

My pleasure. Thanks for stopping by.


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