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Stripper with a scar...
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Stripper with a scar... So, I took Mr.X to the local strip club the other night, (It was his birthday). Anyway, it wasn't nice like the gentlemen's club we usually go to, it was a down and dirty nude club, with a tiny stage, and low ceilings so the strippers couldn't even climb the poll's. And just when we were having fun, laughing at the shape of the place, yet they were crowded to nearly maximum capacity, the next stripper up had something across her abdomen that we first thought was a tattoo, but it turned out to be her c-section scar. Now, I havn't ever aspired to be a stripper, and am not an expert by any means, but I would think that if you've got a scar as large as this one was, that you might think of maybe working in one of the topless clubs, or maybe a gentlemen's club, but nope, there she was, scar, stretchmarks and all, dancing and showing her stuff to earn a dollar. So, now this is my question...would you tip the dancer with the scar as much as you would the cute little girl that had the perfect body, or do you wait until you see your ideal perfect (whatever that may be)before you tip at all? Because that's what I do, I only tip the girls that are attractive to me. Is that wrong? Should I tip all of them? |
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Whether you tip or not it should be up to you. Personally, a scar doesn't turn me off, or on for that matter. It just is. For me, a perfect body on a bored, emotionless face is not turn on. But a woman with a smile who appears to be enjoying what she is doing is exciting, even if she has a scar.
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Well who you tip and who you don't is the eye in the beholder. It wouldn't bother us if they have a scar, or the less of a perfect body, that is usually the case with evervyone. Maybe with stretch marks and the c section scar, may even tip more for she just trying to earn a living as well for her family. tipping is mostly based on how they dance, thier abilly to turn ya on, and entertianing you. The only ones we have not are the demanding ones that have it in thier mind you should throw money at them. ones with no talent or skill of being polite as well. Have a great day D & S
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It's always tough not tipping (it's been awhile since I've been to a strip club; but I do remember how resourceful/insistant the 'ladies' were about enticing you to tip), but it is a "tip" and should be for receiving some sort of entertainment or pleasure or good service. Not just for a show. If I really enjoy something, then I would expect to tip, and tip often (as she makes her circuit); but if it wasn't something/someone I was interested in, then maybe just a dollar once, or ignore them completely (I do have a hard time saying no  ).Hugs, C 
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11/24/2006 8:28 am |
It depends on how her performance was. I could care less about the scar. If the performance was hot, I would tip her. Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy, Greg
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1/14/2007 2:14 pm |
This may seem a little odd to you. Although they're "working" at various places, remember the cost of living is still outrageously high and minimum wage will hardly pay your food bill in some places. Not to mention the different bills and debts. Wether or not it "seems" like they're enjoying what they're doing at a strip club underlines the fact that they are trying to make a living. Gathering tips from appreciative customers is just one way to help make ends meet for them. I think deep inside, most of them know this. I wouldn't discriminate against a stripper just because she happens to have a C section scar on her belly. That scar tells volumes of what went on and is going on in her life. One thing it definately tells me is that she is trying to support a baby. Being there at the strip club might be her only choice since "regular employers" often could give a shit less about her situation. Consider yourself lucky that you are not the one on the stage trying to get tips by stripping to reveal your body to everyone to make a living for yourself. You at least seem to be comfortably in the care of your man with you as you visit these clubs. So, they're trying to make a living too wether you want to believe it or not. Tip them equally as you see others do.
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