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Kissing
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Kissing  I love to kiss, plain and simple. There's just nothing quite like it in all of sexdom. Am I a good kisser? Well, I've learned a bunch over the past upteen decades but you know what, no matter how good of a<b> kisser </font></b>you might be, it takes two to Tango so to speak. Kissing is such an intimate thing and if you and your partner don't have that intimacy and/or connection, it really doesn't matter how 'good' you are. Kissing is SUCH an intimate thing. Back when I used to host gangbangs, invariably the one hard fast rule the girl would insist on was NO KISSING. Sure you can debauch and ravish my body from head to toe but do NOT kiss me. I've ran across this in group gropes as well. Kissing is just TO intimate and a lot of people save it for their close, loving partners, period. Kissing and the passion that goes with it turns me on something fierce. If ya wanna get my dick hard, forget about fiddling with my manly bits, just kiss me! Instant SWHING! LOL I love that intimacy and the passion a good kiss can bring out. Here's an interesting side note: For the longest time, seeing two men kissing was an absolute turn OFF for me. I found it positively repulsive! For the first couple of years of my being with men, I ALWAYS resisted their advances, always seeing that act, in my minds eye, as totally NOT sexy. Then I met a friend who we'll call 'Dan'. He was a great guy, we had a lot in common, had great sex wiith each other. He was truly a very good lover in all respects. He tried on a couple of occasions to kiss me and I was naturally repulsed utnil one night, I was especially horny and in a very passionate mood. I finally relented and we kissed! It was SO strange and totally different than kissing a girl but at the same time, all the GOOD things I love about kissing where there also. Yes his beard was scratchy, yes he tasted totally different than any woman I've ever kissed but it really didn't matter. That connection thing was there between us and we kissed and kissed and passionatly kissed a whole lot more. It was awesome! Since that time, I no longer have a problem kissing another man as long as again, we have that connection thing going. So, what are YOUR thoughts about kissing? Are you a good kisser? Do you have any problems kissing 'strangers' you're having sex with? What, for YOU, makes up a good kisser?  -tm |
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The first time I encountered this I was offended, confused and too naive to actually question it. The next time it happened (with a different lady) I asked her why. She explained it in a similar way to you which really helped my understand it. When I was younger I didn't realise it but I had a lot to learn about relationships and true intimacy. Gorgeous profile pic by the way.
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So, what are YOUR thoughts about kissing? I'm like you, a kiss turns me on very quickly. Are you a good kisser? You'd have to ask my partners. I get told I am, but who really knows? Do you have any problems kissing 'strangers' you're having sex with? It's difficult to kiss during doggy style lol  What, for YOU, makes up a good kisser? The same as a good lover, giving, caring and understanding.
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To each their own, but while we understand the intimacy of kissing, its culture and society thats taken it to extremes...hence the kiss of life, the kiss of death, some will rim ass, but not kiss - we have put such a premium on the physical act we ignore the mental and emotional aspect that needs to connect with it. Us as a couple, whether a quick peck or an deep kiss, it all holds an emotional meaning...cuz we are emotionally linked, but the same physical act with another does not hold the same emotion....its an act. Again, while we respect others choices, we feel if one can not separate the physical from the emotional, maybe they shouldnt be pursuing intimate encounters with others. During our first encounter, the most riveting moment was when she kissed the other male...so yes, kissing has its implications, but our pursuits on here are for the additional physical aspects and we can separate not only the intimacy of kissing, but our relationship from others...while not diminishing our relationship or our intimacy when its just us. As for male on male - the first few encounters the male on this end had, all involved kissing, it was just part of the play...it wasnt until we got on this site as a couple and found it such a big issue between "bi" males. Again, we get what floats others boats and what dosent, but for us a bi male that will kiss, is truly comfortable with both his sexuality and masculinity. As an aside, the cock-teasing of women kissing in social cirlcles/parties posted all over the social networks is a total joke, there is nothing hot about it, cuz they are not really doing it for pleasure/sexuality, but attention and shock value. We will take two passionate men over that public display nonsense anyday.
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Kissing is the most intimate thing for me and when my beloved and I kiss I'm instantly turned on because it opens me up to all he is with and for me. Kissing strangers doesn't work that way and I don't do it any more.
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