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June 09 Suggestions Box  

community 38F   
9220 posts
6/3/2009 1:31 pm
June 09 Suggestions Box

I know we've kind of split out the features into other Blogs, but I still think there is space for a general suggestion box. You can use this space to get something off your chest, tell me what needs changing, or simply spit poetry. I'll start:

There was a young fellow named Simon
Who tried to discover a hymen,
But he found every girl
Had relinquished her pearl
In exchange for a solitaire diamond













<<===== btw, Sasha Grey is in a great new Soderbergh film called "The Girlfriend Experience" for those of you that like Art with your Porn.


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firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
6/3/2009 5:38 pm

I thought art house porn was a urban myth.

The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
6/3/2009 6:42 pm

There once was a place to blog
They got mired deep in the bog
Then along came Ryan
Said I'm not lyin'
I'm doing my best to lift the fog.


rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
6/4/2009 6:20 am


Hmmm...My first post disappeared...

OK~
I know it's not a good time to add features!
But one to think about,,,
Have "watch this chat room"
So many times I enter and see 'memberX' has entered
and appearantly left.Who stays in an empty chat
room???


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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
6/4/2009 6:22 am


What~no link to Sasha's profile...



Affairlook
Parody Of a
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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
6/4/2009 7:37 am


Its FUNNY!
My first comment appeared two minutes AFTER my second...Hmmm


Affairlook
Parody Of a
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rm_Benkai7 62M
2358 posts
6/4/2009 8:24 am



Dear "Ryan",

Saw the film ... liked it and it brought up some seriously interesting questions about "unusual relationships" and maybe how not to deal with ...

P.S.:
May I complain {in this post}, really ... ??? ...
{if this is the wrong post please delete my "rambling complains" without hesitation ... instead I kindly ask you to send me a mail ... and of course I will come back with a poem & I love poems ... ...}.

Right now I would like kindly to ask for a rang on your today's "shit list" ... rofl ... please keep in mind I am German {stubborn, mixed with a wicked explicit dark sense of humour ... or whatever anyone helps to read through my complains without getting hurt in a personal/matter ... lol ...} ... believe me I hate to ruin a nice & lovely gathering ... ...

  • The German advice line, blogs, groups, etc. haven't been updated now for 48 hours ... {software problems assumed as well as "man power"}
  • to some "software" it seems to be difficult differ between telephone numbers, contact details and codes for tags 'n tables on group posts as well as on group descriptions and sometimes on the German advice line too
  • a "truly amazing side fact" is, my posts on blogs, groups, etc., "all over the world {except the German ones - logical of course}" are popping up somewhere in the middle of all the other comments {which at that time already have been read & answered} ... {me is not the only one - assuming hopefully not otherwise} ...

  • Opposite example, my today comments on the American-English advice line became visible in between minutes {even linked on one question to your "local dood" blog} while mine made yesterday in the same still isn't visible at this time yet ...


    Might there somewhere somehow any solution available?


    (If you or any other one need help in translating rules, laws, explanatory notes, advice on different levels or whatsoever might be needed from English into German & vice versa, I'll would be glad to be of service {tons of stuff seems to need translation})

    with regards and my best wishes for a wonderful day

    Benkai7... just my opinion & experience ...


  • rdy2try4 58F  
    3330 posts
    6/4/2009 8:34 am

    NASCAR.. very nice!!

    Mine now...

    I am not the girl from Nantucket.
    I don't see a dick and think f*ck it!
    This guy named Ryan posted,
    My mind that I thought was toasted,
    Suddenly now feels re-hosted!!

    Ryan, thanks for the new blog playground!


    glidecc 49M  
    1224 posts
    6/4/2009 12:27 pm

    I don't like the "writing ideas" for profiles. It's too easy for fakes to throw together a copy and paste profile and it makes the real profiles all look the same.

    I'd rather see it changed to loose guidelines that can't be copy and pasted or gotten rid of altogether. I'd rather see a poorly written profile in someone's own words that a phony copy and paste job.


    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/4/2009 6:47 pm

    Ryan. sighs... I have a complaint. I came back on the site tonight and every time I hit my home page, a sister site overlaying my home page.

    Seriously, I've only had it happen the 3 times I've hit my home page and I'm already ticked off!

    BAD! Very bad!!!

    Please tell me it's a glitch and not really meant to be there?

    Please????

    [image]



    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/4/2009 8:19 pm

      Quoting community:
      Let me check nascar. There should be a banner, but I don't know about something overlaying the whole page.
    As you can see by the pic, it was overlaying. It isn't now though. Hopefully, not again.

    Btw, they should warn you that if you click that banner, they are going to upload your info into a profile there. I clicked just to see what it said and it informed me I was uploaded. I don't want to join it, Ryan. At least not now. Can you do something about that? I'm afraid if I complete the survey, I'll be stuck there.

    Speaking of which, I understand all about the different portals to get into this site, but do I really have to be listed under the lesbian one? I'm not a lesbian, bi-sexual or bi-curious. Why does my profile have to be on that one?


    idlewonderwhy 54F

    6/5/2009 7:23 am

    incorporating an instant individual (not group chat room type) chat msgr like what can be found in gmail or yahoo mail these days... not email style where there's a lag... that way, there's no need for members to even exchange personal email address or other ids and chat elsewhere...


    cblgrl2005 115F
    2584 posts
    6/5/2009 7:34 am

    I am not new to the site--but--am new to the Community and Affairlook Focus group---as a Mod--I have enough to learn in re the settings--etc. of a room---The behind the scenes stuff...However as a member--I have encountered some issues along the way. I know this isn't the right spot--perhaps, but bear with me and if need be--steer me in the right direction, anyone. Any thoughts or assistance would be appreciated immensely. So here goes...

    1. As a standard--I get 10 replies a day--I can live with that; only thing is I can send a profile photo in mail--but nothing attached from a file saved on pc...What is the problem and how to fix it??

    2. Blocking of members...Already posted on that--but is imperative the site work on this one. In real time I keep those I don't want around using various methods--here though--I can only block members partially...I want the ability--as I know many others do--to be able to block them site wide.

    3. When updating Main Page of room---why can't the space to do it in be enlarged--Is a pain to try to write and review...Also, how about the features---I type--then have to Bold, Color, etc...each individual paragraph. Do you know a better way to do this??

    4. As time goes by I may recall more things--I don't mean to sound like a whiner---"whaaaaa"--but I am wishing to get the best info and suggestions for myself and for my room.

    Thanks for reading and again--if I am in wrong spot--just tell me where to go---lol


    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/5/2009 9:07 am

      Quoting idlewonderwhy:
      incorporating an instant individual (not group chat room type) chat msgr like what can be found in gmail or yahoo mail these days... not email style where there's a lag... that way, there's no need for members to even exchange personal email address or other ids and chat elsewhere...
    There is an instant messenger on site. The easiest place to tell you to find it is your home page. You can chat with any other member currently on the IMC.


    idlewonderwhy 54F

    6/5/2009 6:36 pm

    thanks earthywoman3... i'll try it again... when i first tried that a yr ago, it didnt work at my end...


    rm_Benkai7 62M
    2358 posts
    6/6/2009 8:47 am

    quoting myself
    "... a "truly amazing side fact" is, my posts on blogs, groups, etc., "all over the world {except the German ones - logical of course}" are popping up somewhere in the middle of all the other comments {which at that time already have been read & answered} ... {me is not the only one - assuming hopefully not otherwise} ..."


    Dear Ryan,

    meanwhile "we Germans" {Magazine, AL, Blogs, Groups etc., ... got updated yesterday ... there's still the software problem:
    " ... Your xxxx has been denied due to the following reason: language_not_supported or/and as well as inclusion_ of_telephone number; inclusion_ of_contact_details etc pp Please update your xxxx to get it re-reviewed ..." ... and why e.g. my Group is still pending {test-profile thenewbie2006 is a member}

    and proofed as quoted ... lol ...

    might there be a way to get my comments made in {only} English on blogs & groups "outside German pages" quicker visible {as on the American AL}? ...

    or is my sense of humour is much too dark ... ...

  • Benkai7... just my opinion & experience ...


  • rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/6/2009 11:45 am

      Quoting  :

    Dammit she's right!!!

    Those of us who aren't looking for the nameless faceless fucks and don't show this type of image on our profile shouldn't be subjected to it. It's bad enough the general mentality is that every one is here for the fuck and only the fuck. These images and banner suggest that we are if our profile is viewed. Worse because you know most don't read the profile. So these images will promote us in a way we don't want to be promoted.

    Please! Get it off!!


    rm_FXSBOB3 48M
    4437 posts
    6/6/2009 6:25 pm


    OK~~~
    Who's PLAYING with the site's size??????????????????????????????
    I log on and EVERY page is a screen an a half wide!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    WHAT THE FUCK,,,


    Affairlook
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    mmmlike2taste 48M

    6/9/2009 7:43 am

    Ryan, I just wrote this elsewhere, but I'll put it in here too: I have a suggestion that would make a big difference to my life on this site. I'd *love* to be able to use accents, umlauts, tildas, upside down question marks and other hallmarks of other languages when I'm in chat. This is the world wide web, not everyone who wanders into an "English" chat room is a native English speaker, and it would be lovely to be able to speak Spanish properly in the rooms (for me, and I'm sure, other languages for other people). We could increase international understanding no end!

    Thanks to all who voted for me!
    AND THE WINNER IS

    ~~~~

    [post 2692868]


    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/9/2009 7:19 pm

      Quoting community:
      Ok, Ok - I'll see what I can do about the "gaping gyno shots." I even think the one on the top right has an STD. I just posted about getiton, we can take up the discussion over there.

      Oh and earthywoman - I can't reply to you! I get, "This member has opted to turn off receiving mail at this time."
    @ STD. Thanks for that!

    We'd appreciate if you can nix the pics.

    You should be able to use the reply feature from her e-mail to you even if she has her e-mail form blocked on her profile. At least you use to be able to.


    community replies on 6/10/2009 5:54 pm:
    I don't see a "Reply" button. Maybe I did something?

    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/9/2009 10:44 pm

    Ok, I have another question. Maybe I am overlooking it, but paying members always had the option to not be part of search engines. This option was not available to standard member profiles. I just reviewed my member preferences and don't see that listed anymore. Did the site take this away and why if they did?

    If I am overlooking it, please redirect me. Maybe I'm just too tired to see it.


    community replies on 6/10/2009 5:52 pm:
    I don't have an answer for this one yet. I have no idea - new area for me to explore.

    smoke_n_fire4U08 54M/56F

    6/10/2009 11:43 am

    I would like to see an option in the membership packages that would be a "lifetime of the site" membership. I know of some other websites of this nature that do offer a "lifetime" membership and would like to see it offered here too.


    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/10/2009 6:25 pm

      Quoting rm_NassyFox:
      Ok, I have another question. Maybe I am overlooking it, but paying members always had the option to not be part of search engines. This option was not available to standard member profiles. I just reviewed my member preferences and don't see that listed anymore. Did the site take this away and why if they did?

      If I am overlooking it, please redirect me. Maybe I'm just too tired to see it.
    community replies on 6/10/2009 6:52 pm:
    I don't have an answer for this one yet. I have no idea - new area for me to explore.


    After Nick's comment on page 2 confirming that the setting does still exist and the response by Site Support asking them this same questions, I went back to My Account. I still can't find the damn setting.

    If you have a standard profile, this setting doesn't appear. I am a gold and it should appear to me. I know I saw it once upon a time, but for the life of me, I've been through them all and it isn't there on my account.

    Please, pretty please, check into this for me. I don't want to be all over the search engines.


    rm_NassyFox 62F
    37014 posts
    6/10/2009 9:25 pm

      Quoting rm_NassyFox:
      @ STD. Thanks for that!

      We'd appreciate if you can nix the pics.

      You should be able to use the reply feature from her e-mail to you even if she has her e-mail form blocked on her profile. At least you use to be able to.
    community replies on 6/10/2009 6:54 pm:
    I don't see a "Reply" button. Maybe I did something?


    When you open a mail in the inbox to read it, the bottom of it should look like this:

    [image]

    Hit the reply and the form opens further down and you should be able to type a message back to the person.

    You seriously never did this before? If you don't have a reply button, then something is wrong.

    I hope the image shows for you.


    rm_sxsrch3 39M
    4156 posts
    6/11/2009 5:41 am

    *When I was a gold member I found it very annoying to do a search and see a vast number of members in my local area that have not been active in over 3 months and thier profiles still being counted as active.

    Yes they have not turned off the profile but the site should change the status of the profile to inactive to clear up the search results pages making it easier to find someone active and local.

    *Just as a side note. I am not going to upgrade again since the last time I used my credit card to upgrade the site took my real world name and posted it across the entire site where ever my profile picture and username showed up.

    The issue was cleared up however it has left a bad taste in my mouth and has left it so, that as a former 2 year gold member, I will not upgrade again.

    Come and visit me at sxsrch3

    My running total

    Ladies Please I need some help
    Want a Free Credit report No Scams
    Or you can come and say hello to me at Private Messages

    Here is a post that is close to my heart. Mental Health Issues


    mmmlike2taste 48M

    6/11/2009 6:39 am

      Quoting rm_NassyFox:
      community replies on 6/10/2009 6:52 pm:
      I don't have an answer for this one yet. I have no idea - new area for me to explore.

      After Nick's comment on page 2 confirming that the setting does still exist and the response by Site Support asking them this same questions, I went back to My Account. I still can't find the damn setting.

      If you have a standard profile, this setting doesn't appear. I am a gold and it should appear to me. I know I saw it once upon a time, but for the life of me, I've been through them all and it isn't there on my account.

      Please, pretty please, check into this for me. I don't want to be all over the search engines.
    When you go to My Account, find any of the Preferences, then choose Profile Page Preferences. Member Profile Visibility is the setting that you want.

    Hope that helps!

    Thanks to all who voted for me!
    AND THE WINNER IS

    ~~~~

    [post 2692868]


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