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9/22/2009 12:44 pm |
The real encounters happend when you are honest, and read the profiles, its true. Thanks
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I would love to read about some of the profiles on here BUT STANDARD MEMBERS CANT DO ANYTHING... sorry not to sound like a prick but its frustrating
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1 post 9/28/2009 10:12 am |
There are some good avices here for sure
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10/20/2009 3:44 pm |
I must admit, finding out you have to pay an extra 17 bucks for standard members to see your profile is a bit of a "bait and switch".
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10/31/2009 4:39 pm |
Hello, There is no doubt that this site is a bait and switch. Every time you want to contact someone, it says upgrade. Every time you want to post or add friends, upgrade. Every time you want to view the latest pictures, upgrade. Further more, and this is the most important, while showing the beautiful woman that supposedly live in your area, before we click on the payment button, it should say in BIG letters, NOTE THE RATIO OF WOMAN TO MEN ON THIS WEB SITE AT A GUESS IS TEN TO ONE. FURTHERMORE, WE CANNOT CONFIRM EVERY PROFILE IS REAL OR THAT THEY HAVE BEEN ON IN AT LEAST THE PAST TWO WEEKS. (NOT THE PAST THREE MONTH) Very disapointed in this site and will recommend it to NO ONE!
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10/31/2009 4:43 pm |
One other thing that is failed to be mentioned, the rest of the people on here are couples looking for couples or couples looking for bi woman! With that in mind, what is the ratio now? Pete
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Good advice !
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Some good advice, somew seems off base. I have meet a couple of ladies off the site and like it is said, just be honest.
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11/9/2009 1:28 am |
Im a female... without a membership, i.e. im on here free. I just 'wink" at guys, and they usually send me a wink back or email me directly. I guess i never notice if i dont get an email back when they arent members... but i guess if you're motivated enough to contact someone, you do have to pay for it (guys or girls).
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11/9/2009 2:32 pm |
well well well... and i thought this site will solve my problems as i am busy as hell with my career... but yet reading this now seems more time consuming then actually going "outside" and spending the evening in the coffee shop.. I guess I have a long ride ahead of me with very little sex life :]
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11/10/2009 1:12 pm |
Good advice for sure, now we just have to go out and make the best of it right? Shouldn't be too hard to be honest right?
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11/14/2009 9:19 am |
This site is a waste of money as I have been on for a couple of months and sent out about 40 emails and the only response back came from spammers trying to get me to join their porn sites or adult verification services.What a bunch of phony B.S. I am a gold member and I regret wasting my money here as this site sucks and I would recommend it to no one. The spammers belong on craigs list not here where you have to pay for this shit. I will not be renewing my membership any time soon
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11/18/2009 2:49 pm |
I agree 100% with you on this one! Excellent advise!
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11/24/2009 8:30 pm |
This is very good advice. I am a real woman. I get a lot of messages from guys, and I try to respond to as many as possible. My first priority is to communicate with people who take the time to read and comment on my blog. This shows me that the person is interested in what I have to say and not just having sex with me. If a guy contacts me and in his first message asks me to meet in person I'm going to say no. I don't meet people who I have not developed a sense of "safeness" with. You only develop a level of comfort with someone who communicates with you, and the best way to communicate is through a blog or a group. I try to post pictures and topics that would be interesting to men and women as well as topics that are exclusively me. I have met several men from Affairlook in person, and each one was a great experience. You can tell the real women from the fake women when you read their blogs. Also, I never go looking at the men's profiles because so many come to me that it takes all my time to reply to those and leaves me no time to venture out. Just about every man I have talked to on Affairlook has gone out with women from here. Sometimes I feel that men think if I'm on here that I am required to have sex with them. I can't have sex with every man on this site, nor do I want to. Yes, there are some beautiful women on Affairlook who are real. I personally know some of them. So...keep trying, and no one asked me to say any of this.
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11/27/2009 3:53 pm |
HI, I have been here since December last year, been on 4 dates, written over 3000 notes to ladies. 2 of the 4 were not all what I was looking for, the other two, Yes!! I would have like to have known them a little longer than one meal. Network Friends, I have asked almost all my letters to join my network, yes I have some friends, but none have ever written me to say anything. I write to say a polite "THANKS" and still nothing.. I am here almost every night looking,, had one find me on IM, asked me some questions and just like that she logged off. I am not all that but do have manners, and if I start chatting or envite someone out I am certainly not going to just log off or walk off. Ladies know that we need thier goods and don't really care if they hurt soomeone along the way!! I think manners go a long way!! so be polite and friendly even if he is not what you are looking for!!!
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11/30/2009 8:19 am |
Well I take this info as good advice and will learn from it and had planned on revising my site. This is good advice. Spell check your efforts, ask a girl friend of yours if you have one that's just buds not fuck buds what they think of your latest post or email. No guy is going to want to think like a woman most guys would be insulted if you suggested it and it is a lot of work. A woman might want to go hop in bed in some hotel and fuck my brains out one day out of the year but the rest of the 451 days she is going to go out with a guy who will show them a fun time wine and dine, Nascar or whatever interests them. Thats what you have to take the time to find out what interests them.. Remember that old song by that annoying pink haired girl! I had to look it up it was by Cyndie Lauper " Girls just want to have fun". That i think was the honest to gods truth. You also have to remember a lot of woman have gotten burned in the past if you listen you will probably hear that tone "I don't trust you" you can usually peg her for a recent break up. Be patient and remember to check back a couple of weeks later. Get an organizer and let it remind yourself to call her back. later, guy
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I agree most women are just rude when they cant take the time for a reply even if it is just to say ( not interested ). I have sent hundreds of emails but have received very few real replies.
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12/10/2009 10:16 pm |
All good advise. Here's my two cents guys. Have a face pic, tell your name, even if its made up, and read the profiles. I hate it when they ask me something that is very plainly stated in my profile. If you can't read or spell you get blocked. Good luck. and just be honest.
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12/14/2009 10:02 pm |
Great advice from all! Just take your time , but be aggressive as all women like men who take charge. But be respectful. There are a lot of scams on Affairlook but also a lot of nice people too. Show interest in what they have to say and don't just copy and paste a bunch of responses. Best of luck to all and remember to wrap that rascal!
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1/6/2010 9:40 pm |
ok so ive had this site for like 4 days now and it seems like every chick on here is spam used to make men think that there is a chance of actually meeting such babes online.and if u think about it many have the same type of generic pic only one by the way and they don show there face... whoever came up wit this site is a genious gettin rich off of dreams. n its not like im trying to just have sex with every women on here.. theres alot more to me then that but i dont think ill ever grt the oppurtunitty... pleeze just one lady provre wrong
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1/8/2010 11:10 am |
Great advice, I appreciate that comments from the Woman and hear from them what is important to them...
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1/10/2010 4:00 am |
Great advice. I have met a few and talking about everyday life gets you further than sex talk.
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This is a great advice. You can't go wrong with it.
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1/13/2010 4:51 am |
Again i must say, Great advice from all! Just take your time , but be aggressive as all women like men who take charge. But be respectful. There are a lot of scams on Affairlook but also a lot of nice people too. Show interest in what they have to say and don't just copy and paste a bunch of responses. Take interest in the woman, remember that they get hundreds of E-mails a day so make sure that your subject line makes them want to open it and dont write a book! Best of luck to all and remember to wrap that rascal!
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1/16/2010 4:06 am |
How about actually reading a persons profile also before engaging in conversation. I HATE having rapid fire questions shot at me that are each and every one info clearly put in my profile.
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