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The Suggestion Box - April 2009  

community 38F   
9209 posts
4/3/2009 6:39 pm
The Suggestion Box - April 2009

Hope April is treating you well so far. Do they say "April showers bring May flowers" in England? Do you do taxes in England in April?

OK, so bugs and features. I know you want the bugs fixed and no new features, but the new features tie into things you've been asking for.

Some features I'm working on:

- An expanded blocking feature
- A list of all the people following your Blog
- A simple tool for Groups to create and track Events (think Evite-light)
- Page numbers in Groups will be put back on the top AND the bottom
- Fixing it so that changing your signature won't put your whole profile into "Pending"

Bugs
(not the full list, but the ones I'm pushing the hardest)

Blogs

- Watched Blogs list doesn't show date of last post
- Watched Blogs is only showing one page
- Editing often causes a post to be showing as member deleted when it was not.
- Post goes live, gets 2 views & then disappears.
- Fixing CSS table width issue
- Editing a post often does not update the post.
- Watched Blog Post list will only show 1 post per user name
- The vote to a poll is slow to post


Search


- SOME handles in the hotlist/flirt/view AND the IM are unreadable because the "Online Now" or "Chatting Now"! shows as a shadow on top of the handle
- Members showing online when they are not

Groups

- Post a poll is gone from Group home page
- When the group chat is active doesn't show when there are people chatting or shows someone in there when they are not


Message Center


- Showing there are un-read e-mails in the counter when they've already been opened
- Automatic signature takes points for sending flowers
- When deleting e-mails, you can use the top delete button only the once

Chat/Flash Chat/IMC
(not the full list, great changes are coming)

- Flash chat stops updating
- IM timeouts
- Members are shown to be on IMC if they are in chat only
- Flash chat boots people out
- If you switch from HTML to Flash, the members previous comments repost all at once, dominating the room screen.
- When sending an IM to another member even if they have IMC open messages do not go through

Keep the suggestions coming!



justlooking6827 55F

4/3/2009 7:48 pm

I just tried to post a smilie in response to someone's comment and it was not approved due to "banned topic". Is that to try to stop the bots? If so, I can live with that. Good job.

It's not getting what you want...it's wanting what you've got.

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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
4/3/2009 11:35 pm



This takes the 'member online' listed on the search heading further~~~
'Last Visit' IS NEVER Correct...
I've asked about this since becoming a member.
I have actually traded mail with members that would show as a 'Last visit ~ more than three months'


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rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
4/4/2009 12:17 am

Please add the "All Rooms" link to the chat rooms so that we don't have to constantly go back to the main chat page, then the room list page before entering a room if using HTML.

I'm still having trouble with my ASCii codes. I saw the one I left for you finally coded, but when I preview a post, it still just shows the coding and not the actual results. Is it kicking in at some point down the road? I really don't want to use the ASCii until I know what to expect.


Protean99 59M
336 posts
4/4/2009 1:20 pm

Keep the suggestions coming!

The site is too slow. It's always been that way. Fix it. What's so tough about that?


glidecc 49M  
1224 posts
4/4/2009 6:47 pm

Wow, that's quite a laundry list.

Just keep up the good work and the good communication. Things seem to finally be getting better here.


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
4/5/2009 7:41 am

KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!! Ryan, I know you are busting your butt over there. If there is ANY way I can help out, just let me know.

I will say you have actually given me some hope and I have started actually posting again. For a while it was like no one gave a crap so why should I?

I am just sending ya kudos!


Massage_Man_00 42M
18009 posts
4/5/2009 10:36 am

I know that many other have this problem, but with mine..... My blog page [blog massageman00] is limited to it's size (Width Wise). The Header to the page (Passion, A F F, Etc) Banner is at a locked and smaller size then any other page (Home page, other's profiles, blogs, blog home page) I visit. No matter what I do in my HTML coding the width on the front page to my blog will not change, only when you open the post.

I have been told over and over "We can't recreate this" (Insert whinny voice) and then I am blamed for not servicing my computer (I.E. Cookies, Chaces, Updates and not using proper web browser) and I do all that weekly if not bi-weekly. .... So can you tell the tech guys to come up with a new line, after 4 years, they've gotten old.

All I want to do is to be able to use my HTML Coding with out restrictions (except within the consideration of linking website and outside photos)..... Just another tall order to the list


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rm_cherimore 64F
11156 posts
4/5/2009 6:26 pm

Wow, that is already a big list you got. Most I had issue was already listed above. If I had any new one I post. Keep up the good job. Bravo!!!


msbella1000 67F

4/7/2009 10:52 am

1. IT WOULD BE NICE TO RECEIVE EMAILS SENT FROM OTHER SITE MEMBERS;

2. IT WOULD BE NICE IF OTHER SITE MEMBERS RECEIVE EMAILS I HAVE SENT
TO THEM;

3. IT WOULD BE NICE TO ACTUALLY HAVE THE ABILITY TO CHAT WITH OTHER
MEMBERS VIA IM. SOMEDAYS IT WORKS, OTHER DAYS IT DOESN'T. RIGHT
NOW, I CAN'T CHAT UNLESS I TURN OFF MY POP-UP BLOCKER, WHICH HAD
NEVER BEFORE BEEN A PROBLEM. NOW IT IS.

4. WHAT IS THE POINT IN ANSWERING PROFILE QUESTIONS IF, WHEN YOU
HOOK ME UP WITH "NEW MATCHES," I AM MATCHED WITH MARRIED GUYS (I
SPECIFICALLY & EMPHATICALLY STATE I HAVE NO INTEREST IN MARRIED
MEN) OR GAY GUYS (I DON'T HAVE THE INSTRUMENT THEY WANT TO
PLAY!)


"TO RID YOURSELF OF IGNORANCE, ASK QUESTIONS"


MyHeartLost4U 59M
2487 posts
4/7/2009 5:21 pm

If the site is so against personal contact info posted publicly on boards or filtering emails until 2 email exchanges between members. Then why is it that members have the ability to place personal contact info in members testimonials.

I have noticed many of female profiles with males leaving testimonials from viewing a female profile to posting IM addresses, Email addresses and even phone numbers.

Shouldn't there be a filter on the testimonials submitted too to denying that?


MyHeartLost4U 59M
2487 posts
4/7/2009 5:37 pm

Here is idea...

How about letting members see what member has placed a vote on their photo. I am always curious as to knowing what member voted on one of my 20 photos.


msbella1000 67F

4/7/2009 6:27 pm

WHEN I TRY TO PREVIEW A POST, COMMENT, ETC. I ONLY GET A BLANK PAGE. THIS PHENOMENOM BEGAN 04/07/09, ABOUT 30 MINUTES AGO. ADD THIS TO MY PREVIOUS LIST OF COMPLAINTS.

"TO RID YOURSELF OF IGNORANCE, ASK QUESTIONS"


msbella1000 67F

4/7/2009 6:29 pm

    Quoting  :

BABY, MY AUTO-RENEWAL IS ALREADY TURNED OFF! BUT THANKS FOR THE SUGGESTION.

"TO RID YOURSELF OF IGNORANCE, ASK QUESTIONS"


mmmlike2taste 48M

4/8/2009 2:59 am

I don't see this If you switch from HTML to Flash, the members previous comments repost all at once, dominating the room screen as a problem. It lets us aware-type-people know when someone is about to sneaky and send a private message!

Thanks to all who voted for me!
AND THE WINNER IS

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muffsuckers_22 58M/53F
192 posts
4/8/2009 11:50 am

Here is a question? Seeing other blog posts i decided to work out just how much We are being ripped off.keeping our same profile for years..It is cheaper for myself NOT to renew both my gold accounts.

The reason being..if i take 6 months gold out on 2 new profiles it will only cost me £7.11.per month on each account= £14.22 per month

but if we renew both accounts monthly it will cost me £16.46 on each account.there for costing me £32.94.

Over a year there is a diffrence of..£18.72 a month..which costs all gold members £112.32 extra per year to keep there same user handle..

Why is this the case as paying members should we not be given a discount on renewing our memberships..

This works out for myself at £224.64..a year..

Ryan go get them.. tell them to sort this out...


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
4/9/2009 12:09 am

    Quoting msbella1000:
    WHEN I TRY TO PREVIEW A POST, COMMENT, ETC. I ONLY GET A BLANK PAGE. THIS PHENOMENOM BEGAN 04/07/09, ABOUT 30 MINUTES AGO. ADD THIS TO MY PREVIOUS LIST OF COMPLAINTS.
Yes and I reported it to the site and got the typical "it's your computer's fault" answer. I know better than that and I'm tired of arguing about it.
Tier 2 knows about these white pages and I've discussed this with them in the past and I KNOW they've seen it for themselves.


rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
4/10/2009 4:36 am

    Quoting msbella1000:
    1. IT WOULD BE NICE TO RECEIVE EMAILS SENT FROM OTHER SITE MEMBERS;

    2. IT WOULD BE NICE IF OTHER SITE MEMBERS RECEIVE EMAILS I HAVE SENT
    TO THEM;

    3. IT WOULD BE NICE TO ACTUALLY HAVE THE ABILITY TO CHAT WITH OTHER
    MEMBERS VIA IM. SOMEDAYS IT WORKS, OTHER DAYS IT DOESN'T. RIGHT
    NOW, I CAN'T CHAT UNLESS I TURN OFF MY POP-UP BLOCKER, WHICH HAD
    NEVER BEFORE BEEN A PROBLEM. NOW IT IS.

    4. WHAT IS THE POINT IN ANSWERING PROFILE QUESTIONS IF, WHEN YOU
    HOOK ME UP WITH "NEW MATCHES," I AM MATCHED WITH MARRIED GUYS (I
    SPECIFICALLY & EMPHATICALLY STATE I HAVE NO INTEREST IN MARRIED
    MEN) OR GAY GUYS (I DON'T HAVE THE INSTRUMENT THEY WANT TO
    PLAY!)


I have to agree about getting the mail to work!!!
Yesterday I got a reply~The 'body' was missing.I wrote
her back,she wrote back that she DID send mail~AND IT WAS
NOW MISSING FROM HER SENT BOX ALSO,WTF!!!!!!!!!
For a long time I blamed 'not getting a reply' on women members
being RUDE~now I'm starting to belive that it is really this site!!!

disclaimer~I know the women here get tons of mail and can't reply to all of them!

My 'auto-renew' has been turned off for a long time.And NO current plans on turning it back on


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Blacksaber79 44M
5 posts
4/10/2009 6:48 pm

Not sure if this has been suggested yet, but I think if a profile has not been signed on for a month, it should go into automatic inactivity. It should no longer show up in search engines on the site. This can make searching more efficientThe only way it can be reactivated is through a link in that profile owner's email.

Also, if that profile should remain inactive for more than three months, it should be deleted all together. That way if a great profile name is wasting away, a new comer has a chance at snatching it up.


rm_cherimore 64F
11156 posts
4/10/2009 9:25 pm

Hello Ryan. I understand this is a suggestion box. But I got a question to ask and maybe you would be able to answer me better then through Site support blog.

When some one was being blocked. It showed IP blocked. Does that mean if this member create another profile through the same IP, could that other account also get blocked? Just wondering.


UWantWhatIWant2 52M
40 posts
4/13/2009 7:35 am

why is it when i "report for abuse" a camgirl soliciting a web site, they never go away? same thing with a man posting as a female? plus sooo many testimonials and flirts are from people soliciting for web sites, they get reported too, but once again nothing happens. maybe to slow down some of the flirt/testimonial abuse maybe flirts and testimonials could only be allowed from an actual profile page. most of the phoney flirts i get are from profiles that have never actually viewed my profile page.

what do you do when a profile is "pending review" it takes forever when i update mine to get the functions back email etc..., yet there are many supposed "woman" profiles that state specifically that they will only play if their husband participates, shouldnt they be a couple profile, and why is this not noticed when it is pending review? these get reported, but again they NEVER go away. so once again, what is actually reviewed? anything, or do you just have a lag time to make it look like something is done?


E_ndowed 55M

4/15/2009 10:35 am

yall should have one free day a month to keep all members interested.
Ive been a memeber since 94, have paid off and on. but it would be nice to just havea free day online with all the friends!


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
4/15/2009 7:21 pm

For the better part of the last couple of days, when I see the 3 videos at the bottom center of my home page under member videos, I see women. No thanks Ryan. Gimme my men back!


firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
4/17/2009 11:28 am

As if you don't have enough going on in this post, I bring you one more. I also have a couple handle here and we paid for Gold membership for that handle. We only maintain our individual profiles for those times when we chat in the chat rooms together. It's totally confusing for other chatters for us to use our couple handle at the same time, in the same chat room.

It would be really helpful if we could combine these individual handles into one larger account. It completely blows to have to pay three times over just to be able to chat. The way the site is set up is geared towards individuals and not genuine couples where BOTH parties are here to have fun together. In the day and age of multiple computer households - it might be time to catch up the real time and how couples/groups actually use this site. I know I'd be willing to pay a slightly higher rate to have this. Not that I expect anything to happen with this - but just felt the need to put the thought out there since I have a forum to suggest it in.

Our auto-renewal is off because we just let everything expire to get the better deal. It's a better deal because letting it expire gets you "free months" that you don't get when you renew. Just saying.



The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


rm_cherimore 64F
11156 posts
4/17/2009 3:08 pm

Hello Ryan, I just posted a new blog topic. I then want to go and edit. But when I go click 'Edit post' I got the log into Affairlook pages. Weird. I decided to click to go back to the previous page. Just thought I post and let you know. Maybe it just a temporary glitch. Thanks for reading.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
4/28/2009 9:29 am

It's ridiculous to change a sticky note on a blog post and have it up for review. What's to review? You shouldn't have to "edit" for a sticky note, to hide it, to unhide it or to delete it.


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