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Are you fucking kidding me???
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Are you fucking kidding me??? 2<b> bloody </font></b>months ... I have planned this for 2 damn months and now my -free weekend has been ruined due to a lapse in memory. Are you fucking kidding me? I know I shouldn't be angry or upset, because we are all human, and we tend to forget, but FUCK this really irks me. I set this time aside to spend with this person, I set money aside to pay for a dog-sitter, and I spent hours trying to plan a good weekend for their visit. Now it's all gone to shit because someone got their days mixed up. Why do I feel like I'm being punished? Why do I feel like I should be more upset and say FUCK YOU don't even bothering coming if all we have is a few hours during the concert. But no, those of you that know me and know me well can already guess what I said .. well you'd be right .. *sighs* vent over and now back to my unscheduled Saturday of being home alone with my pets and a HUGE fucking headache ... On the off chance that he'll read this, yeah this is how I really feel but I'll get over it ... V      |
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been there done that, it's still disapointing
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9/26/2015 10:02 am |
We all have our natural reactions and sometimes they aren't always what we want them to be and I think that bothers us more than the reaction itself. I know I have been there many times because I get cancelled on more often than I don't and every time it ends up bothering me to the point where I start to question whether or not i have done something to piss off the universe. Dennis (Idahonuke) To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle: [blog Idahonuke]
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My ex does this to me all the time! I have to constantly remind him when I have made weekend plans so he does not "forget" at the last minute.
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I think we have all been through this kind of experience at one time or another. I am not very forgiving; that has happened to me two times since 2011 when I became a member here, and I gave the standard 30 minute grace period. When that was up with no word from him, I blocked his profile here, blocked his cell phone number on my phone and his Y e-mail address. One of them changed his profile name and contacted me about a month later. He sent me a message that said "Hey, girl, it's (so and so) how are you? Long time no see!" When I saw that e-mail I went crazy ballistic. Well. I responded and let him have it with both barrels...Forgetting we made plans, or standing me up, whatever you want to call it, I have NO TOLERANCE for that behavior and bad manners. I wouldn't dream of doing that to anyone....I hate even being late to a hair cut appointment! But to confirm weekend plans with someone and then forget? Oh HELL no!! So Darkness, hang in there and don't allow that to happen to you ever again...the old saying goes "No one can take advantage of you without your permission." You really went out of your way to prepare and he took advantage so don't let him do that to you ever again.... {=} {=} KCClaire0923
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things like that do happen, it's real life, you know.
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