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Why do people waste time chatting online and email, before meeting?  

crookcounty60644 48M
11 posts
8/1/2008 9:12 am
Why do people waste time chatting online and email, before meeting?


I think men like to "cut to the chase" and meet early but women often like to take their time. Understandbly because the likelyhood
of a woman meeting a man and assaulting him is disproportional to the inverse. but we are all adults and know what we what for the most part but what do u think ????

alissatim 57M/56F

8/1/2008 9:38 am

probably to make sure the other persons not a sociopathic psychopath whos going to kill them at the end of the night and fill up the fridge...just a thought...TIM

if your gonna die, die with your boots on


hotandhorny1082 66F
2232 posts
8/1/2008 9:42 am

As a woman, I think that email and chatting are the safest way to go. Then if it comes to meeting a very public place is in order. Better to be safe than sorry.

And yes, we are all adults, but chatting on line, even though impersonal can tell me a lot. And I have always had success that way with those that I choose to meet.


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ddddddd1000000 48M

8/1/2008 10:12 am

idk


ddddddd1000000 48M

8/1/2008 10:13 am

gabble


FEAB1968 55F  
4441 posts
8/11/2008 4:39 pm

For myself it is to figure out if we are on the same page. In an initial conversation a guy will promise the moon and the stars. A few conversations in they tend to let their guard down. I will and have met people fairly quickly. This depends on my mood. Just because I am an adult and I like adult fun, does not mean I'll connect with others just because we share that criteria.

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