The eXYperience POLL  

Another VERY private question mainly for the guys, but girls are welcome too and I want her comments courtesy of pinksteel2008

"Question, guy and girls. I have never been with a guy before but I am interested. To avoid potentially getting any kind of label, do guys get with guys, do it, and never mention it to anybody ever and act like it never even happened? How does a guy justify being with another man in his brain?"

Starlex_2 reply:
An Orifice doesn't assign a sexual orientation to itself, the person/society does (but doesn't have to.) Our bodies what they like, and often labels are applied explain an individual's pleasure as related to his/her/TS orientation. I think that's reductive and ultimately, limiting.

That sounds simple and logical, doesn't it?

Here's the hurdle, the men that I've talked to have horny Orifices, whorish even, they'd do or imagine doing anything/everything except mouth-kiss another man.

If this notion of neutral hole is plausible, (curious) m/m action should be easier to talk about, ask for and find. It remains a fantasy because men want the cock* They get horny thinking about it and they want it - right then at that moment. Horny is horny, it's what your body wants.

That's the crux when the body and mind aren't aligned. Speaking from my experience on Affairlook, many, many men want some dick (or my phony peter); they don't want to court it or talk to it.

I postulate that penetration/prostrate stimulation is signifier of sexual orientation. The desire for or taking pleasure in it, regardless of who's got the stick (man or woman) is internalized as shameful, not a kink to brag about, such as "gang bang participant, #1."

The thoughts I shared above are speculative, and grossly generalized. I needed a theory to make sense of the non-sense i keep reading.

This is a fact: my strap-cock gets more mail/male than i do, from asses - "i like what you got, ride me hard honey, put me away wet."

Is this how guys approach the non-strapped women on Affairlook? Do you get laid?

*One thing I've noticed is that more men talk about sucking dick then getting head from a guy. This struck me as an inefficient use of a xy-xyperience.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on the M/M Blow Job. If you vote, your identity is anonymous to me and to the site.

I can merge the post and poll together and FORGO the PHOTO (can't add non-profile pics to polls). Please vote, I want to learn from Affairlook members, not (only) be looked at.

Vote; show me that you're reading this. Without evidence of that (≥ 100 votes), blog pics will be removed on 4.15.09, eliminating possible reason for distraction.

April 6, 2pm. Second posting of same poll (apparently I "deleted" it; so says Affairlook). ALL 6 votes were lost. Option 1: 2 votes, Option 3: 1 vote, Option 8: 2 votes, Option 10: 1 vote

(I forgot about the hot tramps - I luv you so - that want to be sucked and fucked. Choose your first choice, then try to vote again).