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In the Interest of Clarity  

wildnwanton 61F
2108 posts
10/25/2012 3:51 pm
In the Interest of Clarity



Since it has been a while since I blogged.
Since my profile is pretty devoid of information.
Since for some reason saying that I am only here to blog and have no photos other than these that are posted on my blog, I still get emails that are entertaining, but nonetheless annoying; without further ado and with great aplomb...

(Insert drumroll)

Imma bout to de-mystify Dee.

Hi, my name is Dee.

I am a 57 year old woman with some pretty disabling health problems, who is supremely content with my family.
I am in a poly-amorous relationship with a man and a woman.
I have been since 2008.
I have zero plans to change that.
No desire to.
No need to.

I do not need a friend with benefits, I simply need friends.
Friends that 'get me'.
Friends that embrace my eccentric ways.
Friends that listen to my boring rambling.
Friends that don't mind me sharing my love of this world I live in through my photos.
Friends who will not be shocked by the fact that I can cuss like a sailor on first shore leave.
Friends who don't mind if I have a moment and write some erotica. (Don't get excited, that muse rarely ever descends on me.)

So thank you, for the , the invitations to do things that lead me to wonder about people in general, the offers of countless nights of pleasures that only an Arabian Pasha should hope to encounter,
But with no regret, I decline.

If you want to be my friend, this is the place to do so. I don't cam, don't chat, will email on occasion, will friend you on the book of faces if you are nice and can refrain from doing things on my wall that are over-the-top. (I like scantily clad photos of people there, but things of a sexual nature I abstain from there because I have a few on my list.)

If we become friends? I am a good friend to have. I will help people I am friends with in any way I can possibly help them. But if you are thinking this means I am gonna give you money, pay your bills, or not tell you if I think you are fucking up? I will only say this, my kindness should never be misconstrued as weakness,
and I am completely broke as a joke.

So this is me, as I am in my natural state. Thoughtful, compassionate to a point, honest, and respectful. I only have one rule for this blog, and that is respect.
If you disrespect me, if you disrespect anyone else here?
I will not war with you. I will not fight.
I will delete.
I will block.
I will forget.
Welcome, I do hope you find things here at least mildly entertaining.


"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
10/28/2020 3:10 am

i can't recall if i posted on this years ago.
i am happy you are back here. and so honored to meet mr and mrs and see a glimpse of your regular day to day. the museum and the fireworks were so much fun. i don't know if i will be back. my friend asked me to come to HS graduation. but with my now overactive bladder i can't see myself through a commencement, ya know? and the madness of being there with the extended family. i don't know if next year will be another travel year for me. it's been a while. i hope to see you again one day. and more than once.

miss you!
XO!


milkthisinkc2 77M

12/18/2018 10:23 pm

One of the better blogs on here. Thank you for the new entry.


shyviolette 63F
9347 posts
12/27/2017 2:43 pm

I popped in for a minute...had to say hello. Hope your Xmas was great and the year to come is the best one yet!

When the tides of life are against you

And the current upsets your boat

Don't think of things that might have been

Just lay on your back and float

Ed Norton / The Honeymooners 1954


wildnwanton replies on 12/17/2018 3:47 am:
Hi back lovely lady. I am kinda here and kinda not these days. Trying to blow the dust off my writing muscles. Maybe lol.

stoyloko 37M
20 posts
9/28/2017 4:02 pm

eres genia, me encantaria conocerte


wildnwanton replies on 9/30/2017 11:14 am:
muchas gracias

rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
10/28/2015 12:34 pm

nice 52 years old....does not appear.


wildnwanton replies on 10/31/2015 6:55 pm:
Oh, it is for real. Thank you!

kittenrn1000 60F

9/3/2015 4:50 pm

Hi Dee, I just stumbled onto your blog and find it refreshing. Also love the photos you have posted..Kat


wildnwanton replies on 9/4/2015 6:02 am:
Welcome aboard! I'm glad you like it, for this place I think I am about as tame as it gets, lol.

lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
1/23/2014 12:18 pm

and......I believe you have discovered the real purpose of this site


wildnwanton replies on 1/25/2014 7:50 am:
I sure hope so.

wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/27/2013 10:56 pm

    Quoting tigger678902:
    That was an awesom introduction, can't wait to see what comes next
It's hard to say. The hamster that drives the rusty wheels of my head likes to wear clown shoes and I think the little fucker may get drunk occasionally. I never know where he is going to take me.
Welcome!

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


tigger678902 57F  
4545 posts
10/27/2013 9:05 pm

That was an awesom introduction, can't wait to see what comes next

Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE!
I love to travel

Come visit my blog tigger678902


wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/11/2013 12:14 pm

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    Hey pretty woman, wanna fuck? I LOVE you and am happy to see you drop in! That wasnt too blunt was it?
Hello Gorgeous! I think I am going to do some Winter blogging. I just get depressed when I watch tv or cruise the interwebs.
As far as fucking goes? Frankly it is one of those I can take it or leave it deals these days lol.

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/11/2013 12:10 pm

Hello, Trouble!

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
10/10/2013 1:14 pm

Hey pretty woman, wanna fuck? I LOVE you and am happy to see you drop in! That wasnt too blunt was it?

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


rm_shanei_409 69M

1/22/2013 11:38 am

A search for a platonic friendship?

I wasn't aware you were interested in nuclear science!

What's the half-life of platonic material?


wildnwanton replies on 10/30/2013 10:04 pm:
3200 years?

lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
12/18/2012 3:45 am

hi dee,I hope that works for your convenience. You ARE a good friend


wildnwanton replies on 10/30/2013 10:04 pm:
So are you Lo.

bekindtohorses 58M

11/14/2012 7:22 pm

I have blogged it for your reading pleasure.


bekindtohorses 58M

11/13/2012 5:36 pm

Bonjour. I have learned over the past few years during my search for “Sarah” (I don’t know her real name) that if people can discard the clutter society insists upon portraying on media and just talk to one another then you learn about things you have never even considered from the blatantly obvious to the logically absurd. Through this venue I have had the honour of getting to know some amazing people without so much as even knowing their name. It’s funny in a way how people can be so honest with a stranger yet so elusive with a loved one. Would you care to read the whole story that led up to and follows the “love scene” I wrote? There of course is an actual story behind it.


wildnwanton replies on 11/13/2012 8:43 pm:
I would love to! (I do have a couple of busy days that I get a little behind on my blog reading every week, but I do get caught up on a fairly regular basis.)

bekindtohorses 58M

11/11/2012 7:56 pm

Hello Wildnwanton,
I shall not ask of thee to present photo’s of thy self nor shall I ask of thee to divulge information regarding thy personal life for I have learned that it is through a time honoured tradition understood as correspondence where one can truly learn of another via platonic conduits.

I write to you under the platonic banner of banter, a curiosity if you will to better understand myself by learning of you.
You asked if the photo I posted was mine; humbly I must admit that it is not.
I wish to continue this version of messages left in bottles upon the shores of …..oh…..let’s call it Lake Blog.

Sincerely, reflections from across the lake.


wildnwanton replies on 11/12/2012 4:31 am:
Hello neighbor! I think blogging is a wonderful way to get to know someone from the inside out! I look forward to learning more about you.

CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
11/5/2012 12:11 pm

You are tops in my book, hope we know each other for a long long time. HUGS

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


wildnwanton replies on 11/5/2012 12:18 pm:
It is an honor and a privilege to call you a friend, lovely lady.

BachelorNum3 71M
49 posts
11/3/2012 12:41 pm


"Friends that get me."
Funny, that's pretty much what I want too.


wildnwanton replies on 11/4/2012 4:49 pm:
Half the battle is finding the people who 'get you'. But it is a battle worth waging. Welcome!

wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/29/2012 1:00 pm

    Quoting timeless5252:
    Nicely said Wild One...
    Truly...there is nothing better than a friend..
    Glad to see you blogging again, and posting those wonderful photos again..
    Now you have me wondering what ledge you were perched on for that photo..
I was sitting on the wall at Liberty Memorial, about ohhh..3 summers back. As it looks like I am going to have idle time this winter, look for photos galore lol.

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


timeless5252 71M

10/29/2012 11:24 am

Nicely said Wild One...
Truly...there is nothing better than a friend..
Glad to see you blogging again, and posting those wonderful photos again..
Now you have me wondering what ledge you were perched on for that photo..


wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/28/2012 9:21 am

    Quoting wildnwanton:
    It is the simplest thing in the world to be respectful of others in a public forum. I have only had one person on my list that crossed the line and was rude, and he was a 'nature lover friend' that I picked up from a vanilla blog I follow. I gave him his three strikes, asked him politely to control his angry outbursts, then blocked him. (I don't feel the loss of him greatly lol). I really think it has to do with my one simple rule, respect. Give it and get it, or get out.
Oh yeah, the list? You are going to have to offer up something other than 'pussy pictures' in trade!

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/28/2012 9:20 am

    Quoting  :

It is the simplest thing in the world to be respectful of others in a public forum. I have only had one person on my list that crossed the line and was rude, and he was a 'nature lover friend' that I picked up from a vanilla blog I follow. I gave him his three strikes, asked him politely to control his angry outbursts, then blocked him. (I don't feel the loss of him greatly lol). I really think it has to do with my one simple rule, respect. Give it and get it, or get out.

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/27/2012 9:48 am

    Quoting rm_cigiedo:
    i chacked out on you every thing about you shows love
    great
Love on a site such as this does exist. And I am one of those people who truly does love others, I don't think love is this nightmare it seems, it is just abuse of the word that makes is a bad thing. I greet everyone I meet with love and respect in my heart, where they take it from there is entirely up to them. Welcome to my blog.

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


rm_cigiedo 36M
218 posts
10/27/2012 8:18 am

i chacked out on you every thing about you shows love
great


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