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i said this before and i'm going to say this again; "This is a sex site not a dating site.
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i said this before and i'm going to say this again; "This is a sex site not a dating site. please understand this; if your here to find your dream mate, who you will fall in love with and maybe marry? i'd say not on this site; but if your looking to have sex then yes this is your site. please dont confuse sex with love. Love is physical but it's also mental. sex is just good old lust. people there is a difference in telling somone i want to fuck you or i want to make love to you. fucking is fucking; your having sex to get your rocks off. making love; you make love to express yourself with your partner. well i hope this helps you out and have a great 4th of july.  |
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And why would this NOT be a place to find love if thats what someone is looking for? There are people on here who have met and found love love and marriage. Were you not told that love and sex coincide with each other? did you not know that two people can meet and have sex and instantly fall in love? or perhaps it could take a while but it can and has happened. I have read so many posts like this. People reminding others what kind of site they think this is. Just because things aren't happening the way they want it they think they can judge the entire site for everybody else. Come October I will have spent 7 years on this site. And I have met and no it was not just sex. People are always telling others to be open minded but no one really is. There are numerous other websites that has dozens of people who are on here, on them as well, and they are NOT like this site. So people here look for whatever, wherever. I think that when MOST men on here realize that this place is more than just a sex site they will have more people interested in meeting them. This site is called Affairlook. the idea around it was to bring like-minded people together to meet and possibly engage in sexual activities. It was not created for people to join and immediately jump into bed with anybody for the sole purpose of having sex. No one was built with a light-switch to turn off their feelings. Some people are built to just not give a damn, but not all. Eventually everyone gives in to their feelings if they don't they cant blame anyone for their cold-nature. I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"  
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Well I am probably going to piss you off but I have to disagree with your view of this site being just a sex site and not a dating site. First, I did come on here looking for just sex and whatnot and I found that and made some really good friends in the process too. I also belong to a local group and made friends that way too. As for your view and I quote you "if your here to find your dream mate, who you will fall in love with and maybe marry? i'd say not on this site; but if your looking to have sex then yes this is your site. please dont confuse sex with love." I'd say you are way off the mark. Out of my social group 4 couples have met through this site and got married. There are other couples that have hooked up. I on the other hand, met my future husband here too. It's not just fucking and it is love because we were friends first for a year before we hooked up. I also know more friends through blogs and such that have hooked up and found their mates. I do agree however with your fucking is fucking and making love is expressing yourself with your partner. By the way, this site claims it's a Swinger's Dating Site  Ok, getting off my high horse now and waiting for the backlash from you. 
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7/1/2008 9:25 am |
rotflmfao  omg, c'mon now, I for one have 6 differnt friends whom met online here, through our Blogs, they got to know each other, met in person, so on and now they are going together and or got married. Yes, you can find your mate on here when you are not even looking. There is a differnt between Makinglove, Sex and Just Fucking, I know the differnces  friendships is like a diamond, always forever   
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WOW; hey ladies im sorry you took it like that and you think im some cold hard ass bastard; i was just telling you my opinon of this site; im not saying im right or your wrong but for you to judge me for saying whats on my mind without knowing who i am then who's the bigger fool here. i forgive you ladies for the mean and hateful comments; i wish you ladies the best.
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I don't think you are a cold hard ass bastard and you are entitled to your opinion as we are entitled to our opinion. I wasn't judging you but I just think you have the wrong view of this site. I'm not a fool. I wasn't making mean or hateful comments. Just telling you that you can find what you are looking for here and it's not just a dating site. I've been on this site for a long time and have experienced it many different ways. Until you are on here that long and see, you won't change your viewpoint that this is a sex site, not a dating site. Am I right? No hard feelings Stallion, really.
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WOW; hey ladies im sorry you took it like that and you think im some cold hard ass bastard; i was just telling you my opinon of this site; im not saying im right or your wrong but for you to judge me for saying whats on my mind without knowing who i am then who's the bigger fool here. i forgive you ladies for the mean and hateful comments; i wish you ladies the best. You wouldn't meet someone on the street and just go fuck them would you? so why would you expect it here? I met my husband by placing a newspaper ad in a singles column. been married to him nearly 12 yrs. The paper wasn't for me to find someone to have sex with, it was to find a friend but I knew that sex was going to be involved once I found a guy and he liked me and I liked him. So if you want to think this is a place to find meaningless sex thats fine, but with some people, finding sex can come with much more, unless of course you are seeking ladies for hire. Then you get what you pay for. With the way you are thinking and expressing it here, if a woman who might like you, reads this and see you are only searching for sex and nothing else, you may lose out on a lot more than just a few disappointments. Relax and enjoy the site, don't let the search for pussy ruin your image. Your profile reads that your ideal person should be: A woman who is able to be loved mentally and physically for 24 hours a day. a woman who can match my passion for sex. i like all types of women so don't be shy; lets hook up. Now from what you posted here and what you posted in your profile are two different things if this cant be a place for love then why are you looking for a woman open for love mentally and physically? Because if a woman gets love mentally and physically, don't you think that can lead to emotional love as well? I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"
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Understand this -- a quote from the SITE ITSELF where they put it out in black what THEY MADE this site to be. "Our Goal -- At Affairlook.com, you can find partners for all kinds of action on all levels of commitment because you're among the largest community of sensual, sexy, open-minded people in the world. At the same time, we want Affairlook to be even more than a sex site. We want people to use the site as a way to grow and develop sexually. At Affairlook.com, members take advantage of the advice lines on our interactive, member-driven magazine; they enjoy informative magazine articles from our Affairlook.com,columnists and sexperts. Members join chat rooms for chat and interest groups for blogs. People who are shy can look on; people in committed relationships can learn sex tips. Ultimately, we think of Affairlook as a place where all our members expand their sexual awareness as they improve their love lives." I guess some of us understand things better than others.
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ALSO, 'this' site is LINKED blogs and profiles with several other sites, including Passion, XMatch, HotMatch, and lesbianpersonals, so again you were saying? "What is the purpose of Passion.com? The purpose of the Passion.com?site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At Passion.com? you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Passion.com?a successful and fun experience." Etcetera, etcetera, etcetera!
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You telling us what to do? Look mate let's get this into perspective here. If you think that writing posts like this is going to get you laid then you're sadly mistaken. Do you really think all the women will drop their knickers just because you say so. Nah, you're deluded. There are other sites on the net that don't have a magazine or blogs or any of the other normal social interactions of this site. Those sites are for sex only. This site is set up to suit everyone's needs, some of us love to blog, some of us go to the advice lines, some of us looking for love, some of us just looking for friends and some of us looking for a fuck. Now I understand that you fit into the latter and I have to say I congratulate you on your honesty. I tolerate men that are only here for a fuck, I respect their needs and wishes. In the same vein, you have to respect that we aren't all here for the same thing and just as you would like us to stay out of your business and not tell you what to do, you should return us the same courtesy. I've been here for three years now this month and have to say, that I have made more friends here than I ever thought possible, no not cyber friends (although I've made loads of those too) but people I actually meet up with, people I talk to on the phone and email off site. I met a bf here, I have it all here. What's my point, there are more people looking for the normal things in life than there are people like you. You seem very closed minded and one directional. Open your mind and take everything the site has to offer, why only take one part of it. Oh and just an addition to that, nobody tells the bloggers what to do here, we are all individuals and free to choose what is right for us. We don't tell you what to do, so who are you to tell us what to do? Q. What's the last thing that goes through a fly's mind when it hits a windscreen? A. It's arse! Will you play with us? [post 1655225] 
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Just Tracy sorry hunny but you seem to be the closed mined person on here and not myself; i said and i will say again that it is just a opinon of mine ; not a fact; it's not written in stone for what i said and yes i am very open minded and who said im here just to find somebody to ("fuck") as you said i am ; im so glad that you feel you know everything about me after just reading one of my blogs, im guessing either you are a psychic for the lotoya jackson psychic hotline or a complete jackass; my guess is your the latter. thank you so much for your words of wisdom; i'm sure many more people are dumbier for reading your comment to me.
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oh thank you for singling me out from all the women who commented, especially as they all said the same as me. I am so flattered. You gave an opinion and I gave mine. I thought that was what blogging was about, or do you have a take on that too. Like I said, I'm all for people being on the site for whatever reason they want to use it for, some just looking for sex, some for friends and some just to blog. I fail to see what's closed minded about being able to let people freely use the site for their own purposes. I've enjoyed this site for three years and don't use it for sex or anything like that. It can be a fun place if you let it. Oh and you seem to know me well not even having visited my blog, or have you? Q. What's the last thing that goes through a fly's mind when it hits a windscreen? A. It's arse! Will you play with us? [post 1655225]
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3/12/2009 5:20 am |
If you believe a lot of the shit these females posted you'd think the Mormons were running this site.I don't think they have seen the bullshit ads like join now fuck a local gil tonight. We are the custodians of your little man in the boat.
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