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An Interesting Experience  

starbloom71 52F
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9/6/2008 5:12 am

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9/29/2008 6:50 pm
An Interesting Experience

I have been a member here the past couple of years and having been actively in the chat room has uncovered a lot of funny incidences.

I believe everyone is different in their personality and character and some are just different in the virtual world as well as the real world. Some find it easier to be themselves behind a monitor screen whereas some are just as open in the virtual as well as in the real world.

Every individual is different when it comes to their desires, wants and needs. Some crave for physical,mental or even other areas of needs or wants. However each individual's desires it should not be an issue to other people. Sadly this is not the case in the chat room.

There will always be people who can be more likeable as well as well known in a certain chat room and there will also be some people who will be jealous of the attention others are receiving. However it may be one should not also use nasty tactics like slandering and defame some people just to acquire that sympathy or attention. Just be yourself and you go a long way.

It has also been confusing with some who keep changing their handles maybe due to some bad experience or being kicked out by some other person who dont like them. Why go to such extent to do such thing? If a person do not like the other just dont talk to each other it is that simple. Why is there a need to cross each other's path in the chat and end up in some big argument which also shows the immaturity of one self.

I enjoy chatting in the chat room as I have also had the honour to have known some nice people and have met them in real and some are genuine and some are not. But that happens anywhere you go even in the real world. Some of the people I have met have been friends with me for years now and it has been a good thing. It is just sad having to see and know that these things of hate and jealousy happening in the chat room and creating all kinds of tension and bad vibes. Oh well what can one do to lessen this problem? Only one will know for one self.

Good Luck to all my dear fellow chatters females or males....Let's make friends more than we need of an enemy in our lives. Cheers and Take care.

rm_abisite 64M
820 posts
9/6/2008 5:49 am

 Hi Star!!!!!
I think some people feel the need to seek out conflict as one of the things in their lives that they feel they "need" to be fulfilled. Just my 2 cents hon...Like people I've met along my journey, who seem to continually wind up in abusive (meaning verbally abusive) relationships..Maybe it's a personal self esteem thing on their part?
Nice to meet you!!!
Joe
Live casually, but with substance, Love with ALL of your heart, and forgive those around you for the faults you perceive in them.....because your perception may be in error..
and remember to laugh all the while..
because life should be fun Dammit...


starbloom71 52F
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9/7/2008 10:30 pm
    Quoting rm_abisite:
    Hi Star!!!!!
    I think some people feel the need to seek out conflict as one of the things in their lives that they feel they "need" to be fulfilled. Just my 2 cents hon...Like people I've met along my journey, who seem to continually wind up in abusive (meaning verbally abusive) relationships..Maybe it's a personal self esteem thing on their part?
    Nice to meet you!!!
    Joe
Hi there Joe,

Nice to meet you too. Yeah I think some are just in so much conflict with themselves they just dont know how to go about it ...well being bad is easy being nice is not lol....how are you anyway?


starbloom71 52F
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9/7/2008 10:31 pm
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Well perhaps they feel if they become themselves it might just turn out bad but normally it dont ...just in the mind...


starbloom71 52F
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9/7/2008 10:32 pm
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Hmmm a wet market? Do explain...this is the first i heard lol


rm_abisite 64M
820 posts
9/8/2008 7:38 am
    Quoting starbloom71:
    Hi there Joe,

    Nice to meet you too. Yeah I think some are just in so much conflict with themselves they just dont know how to go about it ...well being bad is easy being nice is not lol....how are you anyway?
Doing pretty good, all things considered sweety...spending a LOT of times cruising the blogs...collecting good people, things like that...keeps my mind and heart occupied...and me ALMOST out of trouble...LOL..
Live casually, but with substance, Love with ALL of your heart, and forgive those around you for the faults you perceive in them.....because your perception may be in error..
and remember to laugh all the while..
because life should be fun Dammit...


starbloom71 52F
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315 posts
9/9/2008 1:07 am
    Quoting rm_abisite:
    Doing pretty good, all things considered sweety...spending a LOT of times cruising the blogs...collecting good people, things like that...keeps my mind and heart occupied...and me ALMOST out of trouble...LOL..
Good to know you are staying out of trouble lloll....well thats good you collecting good people and crusing round some nice blogs. Hope your day was good. cheers


rm_aladin1978 46M
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9/22/2008 6:41 am

 hi
nice post
hope to see more of your post
will be watching your blog
take care


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