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Chocol8 Fever
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Chocol8 Fever Im buzzing again this morning...just been out to my fav place to party with all my lovely friends, black men and their lovers! OMG how to describe the bounty of black men ...testosterone fuelled pussy and woman loving, naturally and sensually ballistic males..meant for me! To see what Ive seen this weekend would send anyone into a state of mental exuberance...a sheer throng of black sexual frenzy! Black cock bonanza! We danced and fucked until dawn and Mothering Sunday started with a bang! The corridor at 2 am at the party is a sea of male testosterone, densely filling the air and every glance and look is hunting and sexually enquiring...where one glance of desire speaks volumes and no subliminal message missed... black lust looking for action...Its a very special place and I feel so fortunate to have found this place and the people who go there extremely special to me aswell...A unique experience..an experience I wish to relive over and over! The next day I feel like a steam roller has been over me. Every part of my body inside and out has been massaged, pummelled, stroked and my skin stimulated from head to toe...just what i needed! Touch is really important to me and I dont get enough of it!! I remember balancing precariously on my 5 inch heels on the corner edge of the bath, crouched down with my arse in the air being fucked by one of my favourite men and fucking him back hard! I think the side panel of the bath fell off! Even M was surprised by my athletic flexibility! As I am an experienced swinger now I have been struck by a few things which would help improve the party experience: The sheer numbers of men all get a bit lost in the perpetual coming and going round the house...I can see someone briefly in passing at the start of the evening when everything is social and sedate before about 1 am and then never see them again all nite! I miss men who I think I would have liked to play with! I think it would be a good idea to have a type of brief introductory session after the club lets noone else in, on the dancefloor area just so everyone can get a good look at each other and mark their cards...This could also be an opportunity to make sure the men have condoms or buy them...so many men this weekend had none with them...why do they come to swinging parties with no condoms??? ..Condoms are free from GUM clinics and can be asked for without an appointment... I have been having disappointments in as much as the men ive met and fancied at parties recently turn out to be inexperienced in swinging environments and cant perform or cant perform in public..I have usually spent a lot of time chatting, flirting, kissing, dancing and giving them a b/j before it becomes apparent that they cant keep an erection ...I have then also lost the opportunity of finding a man who can fuck me properly... Id like to avoid this happening...If at parties we could have badges to say various facts about ourselves it would help as a base line ...they would be optional..but very helpful in identifying and choosing sexual partners with the same levels of experience, skills, sexual preferences, and needs for the nite... For example mine would read: Marianne bisexual non smokers only (Ive decided I cant kiss smokers!) experienced swinger MF MMF FFM MMMMF MMFF Sexual Health Status checked 8+ thick dick required I would welcome this initiative. As an experienced swinger I want to secure a certain level of sexual experience, pleasure and have requirements to satisfy and Im getting more selective not less. Having given so many B/Js this weekend I am also thinking about my sexual health with regards to oral sex...My throat is sore now. I cant give B/Js with a condom on. Men rarely give oral at parties due to their concerns about womens sexual health and cleanliness after having sex with other men....I am asking myself whether I need to do the same...Men rarely kiss women at parties incase they have been sucking other mens cocks... I wonder if its time for us all as swingers to take further measures to ensure our sexual safety in a party context by asking participants to prove they have been to have a sexual health check up..and if not then suggest they do so...I am pretty sure just the advice would provoke many to do so and GUM clinics are totally confidential and dont notify the persons GP..They also provide free condoms in all sizes and lube upon request...Afterall in a one on one situation there would be at least some conversation at some early point about the participants sexual health and practices. I am also aware that the men are not washing their hands after fingering other women...and they go round fingering as many as possible at swinging clubs...Someone tried to stick some very unclean smelling fingers in my mouth while i was fucking someone else and I quickly moved my mouth away...this is something that really needs to be addressed as sexual diseases and everyday germs can be spread so easily by unwashed hands...womens pussies are particularly vulnerable to infections..and I dont want any unclean fingers in my pussy or mouth... We all take some level of personal and collective risk in swinging about sexually transmitted diseases...and each of us swinging responsibly means we can all continue to do so...As we are sometimes sharing sexual partners, one std would create a very difficult situation for many and possibly the sexual demise in the group of the one who spread it unknowingly around...We dont want bad experiences that would deter us from having fun and so I believe some further thought should be given to sexual health aspects at parties.. I hope H and T the party organisers may take note of some of these suggestions ... |
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Hi Marianne - read, digested and our comments will be coming your way pretty soon!  x H & T x
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I've been reading your blogs Just thought I'd read one of them out of curiosity, but before I knew it I got hooked! It's after 4am now and I've not gone to bed yet. If I fall asleep at my desk tomorrow, it would all be your fault. You've spent such a lot of time writing these blogs that I feel as though I know you personally. I have to admit that I envy you in some respects. You see to be living your life the way you want. Life really is short and we should all do what makes us happy. I agree with a lot of things you say, especially regarding interracial sex. I for one am sooooo turned on by the skin contrast that I always try to watch us having sex whenever I am with a white woman. As a young guy, I was never particularly attracted to white women, until my first sexual encounter with a white girl [than you Mary!] I have hardly ever had sex with black girls. She was sooo liberated. So uninhibited. It was soooo sweeet. So when you talk about interracial sex in the way you do, I totally understand. Btw. Some of your posts are extremely erotic It would probably change the life of most women who get to read this.Kisses V
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Vic Thanks for all your thoughts...we should chat soon so mail me hun and send me your contact details.. Yes you probably know me already having read my blogs...they arent fantasies I write about my real life experiences and swinging, thoughts and opinions... As I spend a lot of time these days trying to remember all the good times I had in my teens and early twenties...annoyingly only being able to remember snippets via pics and songs mainly...I thought better record my experiences in this exciting period of renewed energy in my middle age.. Blog writing has in itself given me confidence in my writing skills I never knew I had before and provided me with a voice...on topics that are undercover in society and have to remain privately silent normally ...a way to express the incredible journey of sexploration I am on personally and I hope others might be inspired or illuminated by my activities! Hey ho its all good clean fun! M xx
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