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the rest of the story
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the rest of the story I posted this to voice(more accurately type) my opinion, since it seems to matter to so many of you. I'm married and I am seeking extramarital sexual experiences. I'm here alone because my beautiful, sexy wife does not wish to explore. At one point these things were discussed and agreed to...now (ten years later) those discusssions don't apply. Here is the real dilemna for discussion. How does a person reconcile loyalty and fidelity with a real desire to explore? No matter what somebody loses. If I choose fidelity, then I give up experiencing all the things we are all here to explore. If I choose to play alone, then I risk hurting someone else, best laid plans and all that. To make matters more complicated...I really am a very decent human being with a legit conflict here. I want to experience everything....and I don't want anybody hurt. Comments? Advice? Merry Christmas! |
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12/18/2005 3:52 pm |
i hope you find what u seek silky xx
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12/18/2005 6:04 pm |
i sympathize with you, my situation is somewhat dissimilar, but the conflict was the same. i contemplated for years before deciding to go forward with meeting my own needs. there is a fair amount of anger on my part, my desire to protect his feelings are not as strong as my desire not to disrupt my kids' lives and my own life. but if he were willing to fulfill my needs, i wouldn't cheat. the catch is, i'm too insulted by his reaction to my simple requestes to let him near me sexually, i'll never have sex with my husband again and i don't care if he cheats.
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12/18/2005 8:10 pm |
Welcome to the world of blogging..nice to have another stubble jumper blogging..hope you can work on this conflict, alot of us are dealing with the same thing..oh and thanks for dropping by my blog..
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I love your blog saddle...and as far as this blog goes...I want some real debate...b/c even on here I've been judged as an "evil cheater", and given my choices above I'd like someone to help me and all of us find a better way, if they don't agree.
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1/24/2006 11:46 am |
let me know if u figure out what to do I am in a marriage that has basically little to know sex at all we haven't slept in the same bed in almost 5 years so there is no intamacy at all left, I am not ready to leave him the kids need both of us, we get along fine just not in the sex area he is not interested and i am very interested I have cheated before and yes i feel guilty but what are u supposed to do?
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3/30/2007 1:45 pm |
Just leaving some footprints. Hope that you worked out your conflict. Luvn
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Hello, old friend! My! This is a very old post, indeed! To answer your more recent question, I am doing well, thank you!  blog on!
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