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Getting My Mojo Back  

myelin36 53F
4614 posts
8/6/2016 2:25 pm
Getting My Mojo Back

My mojo is slowly starting to return. It's been three weeks full of ups and downs. With all of the stress, I ended up losing 8 pounds and putting in some crazy mileage on the elliptical, treadmill and daily walks to stay centered and grounded. My libido has tanked as well. It's been nearly two months since my last sexual liaison. If course I've had opportunities but truthfully, I wasn't feeling it.

I have one last hurdle to accomplish on Monday and that is the probably the biggest stressor I have at the moment.

Those of you who read my blog way back in January might remember a rather vindictive non-custodial parent who was upset with a recommendation I made to the Guardian ad Litem about a custody dispute. It culminated in a complaint filed against me to the state licensing board. Well, that hearing goes to committee on Monday and guess who has to appear to discuss said issue with my attorney.

The good news is, I am very methodical and detail oriented with record-keeping. I feel confident that I will prevail and my attorney also seems to feel good about it.

This weekend has been pretty laid back. My and I love shopping at vintage and thrift stores. We scored some pretty good deals just in time for her to return to school.

It's been intermittently raining all day so I've been finding things to do indoors. I made a batch of fresh homemade salsa featuring roma tomatoes, fresh pineapple and peaches, chopped, diced garlic, cilantro, chipotle peppers in adobo sauce and a dash of salt. It turned out amazing and made a ton.

Another thing keeping me feeling positive is I am in the process of adopting a female English Bulldog puppy named Roxy that was born on June 23rd. I will be picking her up on September 10th. She is going to be trained to be a therapeutic for of mine that have PTSD and TBI.

Finally, I have two upcoming trips planned. I am heading to meet up with a blogger next weekend which I am excited about. Then labor day weekend my and I are taking the train back to Chicago for a long weekend.

Things are looking up.

xoxo,
{=}myelin

Here is a photo of my sweet Roxy. Hopefully the site doesn't take it down.


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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
8/6/2016 2:29 pm

I can't believe how envious I am of you for adopting that puppy!!!!! My first response was sheer kindergarten... "I WAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNT IT!!!!!!"

Good news all around it sounds like, enjoy your upcoming trips and best of luck getting that complain behind you!


myelin36 replies on 8/6/2016 2:56 pm:
We went and held her yesterday and immediately bonded. I wanted to take her home right then and there but she is not ready and neither is my wallet. She is what one calls "an investment!"

veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/6/2016 2:35 pm

I hope it all works out! I am glad your MOJO is back!!

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myelin36 replies on 8/6/2016 2:55 pm:
Me too. I was starting to wonder if it was ever going to return.

nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/6/2016 2:46 pm

Very nice, good for you. Roxy looks so so freaking adorable.

Have fun in AL. I hope you guys have an awesome time. get some good sex from him


myelin36 replies on 8/6/2016 2:54 pm:
I fully intend to! We probably won't be leaving his house much all weekend!

MyLadylips 72F
52 posts
8/6/2016 2:50 pm

Best wishes. You sound like you have it handled as well as anyone could. When in doubt, get a puppy. Grin. Or try an erotic massage.....


myelin36 replies on 8/6/2016 2:57 pm:
Puppies almost always make things better. I just wish I could have her now.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/6/2016 4:06 pm

The new puppy is adorable. A new pet of any variety always chases the blues away. Hope your blog date is a lot of fun. Be safe and get your Happy Back

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08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
8/6/2016 4:19 pm

Roxy is adorable. It takes over 2 weeks for prolactin to normalize, so 3 weeks sounds about right.
Dogs are great for therapy. for the patients and the owner. I (supposedly my son) have a huge 150Lbs Shepherd he used as a therapy dog with autistic kids. When you pet a dog the oxytocin level skyrockets and cortisol get neutralized.

Orgasm, breast feeding and cuddling increases oxytocin. Petting a dog has nearly the same effect on the brain. Happy that things are looking up for you.
Have you looked into Binaural beats as a therapeutic tool for ADHD?. My experience with it has been awesome with autistic as well as ADHD kids. It helped me with hyper vigilance and made it possible to do meditation.

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/6/2016 4:21 pm

Great to hear from you
I'm glad things are looking up with the hearing etc.


Smiley_97 50M
200 posts
8/6/2016 8:01 pm

Adorable!!!!!! ohmigod! LOL I hope she and CiCi get along! lol

I've been wondering how you were doing. Very glad to hear you are bouncing back. Warms me up.

Have a great time on your trips.


pagancountrygirl 66F  
6466 posts
8/6/2016 8:05 pm

Awwww....she is SO cute! Just makes me want to hug her

Hope your hearing goes well and you enjoy your trips!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/6/2016 8:57 pm

Good luck with your hearing, Myelin.

I know how it is to have one's mojo on hiatus. My own mojo retired a few years before I did. I've almost caught up to it, though. I'm close enough to see the cloud of dust.

Cute dog! Isn't it exciting to adopt a new pet?

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tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
8/6/2016 9:51 pm

Cute puppy! I hope everything goes well.

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ironman2769 58M  
12877 posts
8/7/2016 2:56 am

I'm sure you'll be fine with the hearing. Then the anxiety will be over....

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ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
8/7/2016 9:21 am

It's good to see positive headlines on your blog, Myelin. Mojo on!

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wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
8/7/2016 10:35 am

cute little bug.

mojos are funny things. they mostly come back when you stop waiting for them

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leftbehind62 62M  
2121 posts
8/8/2016 6:31 am

Best wishes with your hearing!! But, I have a feeling everything will work out well for you! So, try not to stress too much over it!!! Lol!

Enjoy your two trips as well! Though I am envious of the blogger you will be visiting! lol hugs sexy


helen_damnation 61F  
2487 posts
8/8/2016 2:35 pm

Isn't it illegal do be as cute and adorable as that puppy? She's so squishy!

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39lawless 58F
6864 posts
8/19/2016 5:17 am

Ok, first - Roxy is the cutest! And what a great idea to train her as a therapy dog.

Second - yay on getting the mojo back (or, at the very least, well on it's way). It's hard adulting and even harder when one isn't feeling it. So double yay!

And fingers crossed for Monday. xoxo

ps - that salsa sounds awesome!

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
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